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Quote by westerross
A single bloke on this site is a male after a SHAG! not a Swinger.
I won't get into the debate of what makes a swinger again. But this isn't necessarily true. I'm a single man, I'm on this site, and my primary purpose in being here is not to get sex. I wouldn't say no if the right woman (or even couple) asked, but I'm mainly here to socialise with the most wonderful group of people I've ever met.
I'm a single bloke &, unless I socialise with like minded people, I could be single til the day I die :!:
Introducing swinging to your new girlfriend you met whilst out shopping can prove to be a stumbling block in the relationship, OK, there will be people on here that have no intrest in swinging & are here for the sole purpose of getting a shag, I think those people will soon get bored & f**k off :!:
Due to a major change in my lifestyle two & a half years ago, I fell out of contact with my 'swinging buddies' & think it's about time I built up a few more friendships with like minded people, this site is a god send to me, if god approves :!:
On the whole I agree with your point, just don't tar us single blokes with the same brush, please
Oh, & I'm here for the long haul, I'm in no rush, I'd love to build up those friendships with a lot of you folks, so pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaase don't ignore me cos I'm single :!: For now anyway :!:
Introducing swinging to your new girlfriend you met whilst out shopping can prove to be a stumbling block in the relationship, OK, there will be people on here that have no intrest in swinging & are here for the sole purpose of getting a shag, I think those people will soon get bored & f**k off :!:
Due to a major change in my lifestyle two & a half years ago, I fell out of contact with my 'swinging buddies' & think it's about time I built up a few more friendships with like minded people, this site is a god send to me, if god approves :!:
On the whole I agree with your point, just don't tar us single blokes with the same brush, please
Oh, & I'm here for the long haul, I'm in no rush, I'd love to build up those friendships with a lot of you folks, so pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaase don't ignore me cos I'm single :!: For now anyway :!:
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OK. OK. This proves there are exceptions to every rule. I'm just saying that we (see start of the thread) single blokes have got to be prepared to overcome what is an understandable obstacle for the complete genuine peoiple on the site.
I've got to say, though, that Mrs Peel has got me confused
I've got to say, though, that Mrs Peel has got me confused
Sex God
Quote by westerross
This is a first post so lets get the niceties out of the way. I think this is a brilliantly run site.
OK, can we get back to the niceties now then ?
Hi tune :wave2:
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Angel,
A bloke - no. A nicety - yes. I think it's about reducing the testosterone levels.
Sorry about the serious attack - no offence intended.
A bloke - no. A nicety - yes. I think it's about reducing the testosterone levels.
Sorry about the serious attack - no offence intended.
OK, can we get back to the niceties now then ?Not so fast...
We only swing with single blokes - so our swinging would be pretty dull without them!
Swinging IS about attitude, and there are probably as many male single male swingers on here as single female swingers. It is just that they tend to be a bit difficult to pick out of the crowd...
However, off the top of my head, we could name 20 blokes who are on here without partners who we would say have a positve attitude towards the women and couples who are on here, and probably dozens more who we have just not had the chance to meet.
Bless 'em all, that was what we came here to find, and we found a whole lot more as well, which just keeps distracting us! :? !
lhk
Kat
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My first day and Im apologising already! It just goes to show that there are niches all over.
I love you all - I know I deserve a good kicking (me- a sub??).
Can anybody please explain how to use the quote tool - Im obviously too new or thick to work it out.
I love you all - I know I deserve a good kicking (me- a sub??).
Can anybody please explain how to use the quote tool - Im obviously too new or thick to work it out.
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Can anybody please explain how to use the quote tool - Im obviously too new or thick to work it out.
Thanks y'all - I think I've got it. You're all so helpful. (I'll see now when I press Submit.
Thanks y'all - I think I've got it. You're all so helpful. (I'll see now when I press Submit.
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Quote by westerross
Can anybody please explain how to use the quote tool - Im obviously too new or thick to work it out.
Thanks y'all - I think I've got it. You're all so helpful. (I'll see now when I press Submit.
My fault tune, if you are going to delete any of the text, make sure you leave in
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Told you I was thick - didn't I? I would (rather embarrased) like to draw this particular thread to a close.
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Quote by solosausage#1
See, we're all still friends :!: Aren't we all mature
Right, now you all know I'm a single fella looking to make friends, who wants to be my friend :!: :D
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Hi Solo:inlove: <~~~Flirticon (freshly stolen favourite word)
Consider your thread AND your word officially hijacked Tune :twisted:
Hi Tune :wave: :wave:
Welcome to the Forum. You seem to have jumped in at the deep end. Hope you have your water-wings on!!!
May I suggest that you use the preview button before you submit your post. That way you can mess about with the quote thingy and get the hang of it without feeling silly. Mind you there's nothing wrong with feeling silly!!!!
:wave: :wave: Welcome to the Forum. You seem to have jumped in at the deep end. Hope you have your water-wings on!!!
May I suggest that you use the preview button before you submit your post. That way you can mess about with the quote thingy and get the hang of it without feeling silly. Mind you there's nothing wrong with feeling silly!!!!
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
That way you can mess about with the quote thingy and get the hang of it without feeling silly. Mind you there's nothing wrong with feeling silly!!!!
Sarge, you assume that Silly would object to being felt... perhaps Silly might ENJOY a quick feel. Who is this "Silly" person anyway?
Tune Essence...
Just sit back, join in and get on with it...many bear no grudges about what you may think the site is all about. I find the cafe where you can be daft and serious...NO real die hard chatting up because it is like sweet talking on the bus with all listening! I find it fun, and a bit of a laugh. If you keep watching, and join in, you will forget the mistakes, we have all made em mate. I find it best to NEVER assume anything on here, because it never really pans out? Look before you leap, and you will find some fun on here...go to the others forum sites for any serious contacts, but again, take time, read and learn...some of us STILL have not got it right, but keep on, and come here for the crazyness that IS the cafe'...
Just sit back, join in and get on with it...many bear no grudges about what you may think the site is all about. I find the cafe where you can be daft and serious...NO real die hard chatting up because it is like sweet talking on the bus with all listening! I find it fun, and a bit of a laugh. If you keep watching, and join in, you will forget the mistakes, we have all made em mate. I find it best to NEVER assume anything on here, because it never really pans out? Look before you leap, and you will find some fun on here...go to the others forum sites for any serious contacts, but again, take time, read and learn...some of us STILL have not got it right, but keep on, and come here for the crazyness that IS the cafe'...
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Hi Tune
And welcome to the Site. you have certainly jumped in with both feet!!
As you kindly gave me a mention, I thought the least I could do is reply.
Something that I have mentioned, as have others, is that the main reason to be on this site is to make friends. If a sexual relationship, one-off or more often, comes from that friendship, all well and good. The sex is a by-product of the friendship. Once people get to know you as an individual rather than just a single guy (or girl, don't forget those lovelies ), you will have more success that way. Success? How do we measure that? Number of people we have sex with? No - the number of friends you make here. The more effort you put in to making those friends, the more friends you will make. To make a friend, be a friend. Don't just follow the crowd all the time. If you want to PM someone and just say 'Hi, hope you have a nice day' - who would take offence? Coming from someone who might have never spoken to them, makes the recipient feel noticed and puts a smile on their face. Firstly they may respond, which is good. Secondly, if they see you on the site, they may say 'Hi' back. The start of a friendship.
Those who come on the Site with the sole intention of getting laid NOW, funnily enough are often disappointed. They don't take time to make friends. They wouldn't have that attitude with total strangers they meet in the street, why should they think we are any different?
Am I successful? Yes. I have made an absolute stack of friends on here, both male and female, singles and couples. Some I speak with frequently, some only occasionally. Some I made through just saying Hi if I thought they had been having a tough time. Have I had sex with them all? No. But as I said earlier, its the friendships that count the most, not the number you have sex with.
Friendships take time to develop, but the the time you take to develop those friendships will be repaid to you tenfold in time.
Here endeth the sermon, anyone for a shag?
Mal
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And welcome to the Site. you have certainly jumped in with both feet!!
As you kindly gave me a mention, I thought the least I could do is reply.
Something that I have mentioned, as have others, is that the main reason to be on this site is to make friends. If a sexual relationship, one-off or more often, comes from that friendship, all well and good. The sex is a by-product of the friendship. Once people get to know you as an individual rather than just a single guy (or girl, don't forget those lovelies
), you will have more success that way. Success? How do we measure that? Number of people we have sex with? No - the number of friends you make here. The more effort you put in to making those friends, the more friends you will make. To make a friend, be a friend. Don't just follow the crowd all the time. If you want to PM someone and just say 'Hi, hope you have a nice day' - who would take offence? Coming from someone who might have never spoken to them, makes the recipient feel noticed and puts a smile on their face. Firstly they may respond, which is good. Secondly, if they see you on the site, they may say 'Hi' back. The start of a friendship.Those who come on the Site with the sole intention of getting laid NOW, funnily enough are often disappointed. They don't take time to make friends. They wouldn't have that attitude with total strangers they meet in the street, why should they think we are any different?
Am I successful? Yes. I have made an absolute stack of friends on here, both male and female, singles and couples. Some I speak with frequently, some only occasionally. Some I made through just saying Hi if I thought they had been having a tough time. Have I had sex with them all? No. But as I said earlier, its the friendships that count the most, not the number you have sex with.
Friendships take time to develop, but the the time you take to develop those friendships will be repaid to you tenfold in time.
Here endeth the sermon, anyone for a shag?
Mal
:lol:
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Quote by solosausage#1
I SAID I HOPE I DIDN'T PISS YOU OFF TUNE :!:
Not just to prove I have learnt to use the Quote function - Solo if you really are 6'2", I'm not pissed off.
Thanks to all the other understanding helpful comments. I'm beginning to realise that this whole thaing is about trust and I can see that there are a lot of people hereabouts, whom you can. (can't find the violinicon!). Angel - I just patented that one!
This brings me close to another subject I want some help on (as you're all being so nice to me!). I love this environment it is consensual, understanding - it is a place where 'women might' (and others might I know). But my wife so far doesn't want to know.
Now I'm not into a heavy thing and I would never coerce her in any way but she is (I think) genuinely worried about friendships becoming over-friendly if you know what I mean. Anonymity is another shared worry.
Anybody got any advice?
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:x :xPlease note that as I have rather stupidly introduced a new subject in this post I am closing it. I have taken the issue to a new thread "What's love got to do with it"
