Almost nobody likes photographs of themselves. We look to fat, too thin or just plan gormless.
But can you servive on this site and be camera shy?
Personally I found having pictures of my bum and chest and privates posted quite liberating. I assumed I was not that good looking but over time compliments have come my way and I do feel better about my body and myself.
Please don't all rush to my profile to look they are just a chest and bum.
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when we look in a mirror we always look at our good side, , so when a picture gets taken and does not get our good side we think we look like shit but actually thats what every one else see's most of the time so my conclusion is next time you look in a picture call yourself a gorgeous bugger even if its not your so called good side!
I have survived well and have never had pictures here.
What I have found is that I only receive mail from more genuine people that have taken the time to read my profile, and not people that say your pictures are great and seems not to look any further.
If people want to see what I look like I would rather go on cam, if they want to see what my body looks like first and not my face then I know they will not be people I want to meet.
So having no photos has been a great way to sort the boys out from the men, so to speak.
What I have found is that I only receive mail from more genuine people that have taken the time to read my profile, and not people that say your pictures are great and seems not to look any further.
If people want to see what I look like I would rather go on cam, if they want to see what my body looks like first and not my face then I know they will not be people I want to meet.
So having no photos has been a great way to sort the boys out from the men, so to speak.
But Minx - I always really thought you were a cat that could stand on its back legs at a point of a finger.
What a downer :shock:
What a downer :shock:
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I have survived well and have never had pictures here.
What I have found is that I only receive mail from more genuine people that have taken the time to read my profile, and not people that say your pictures are great and seems not to look any further.
If people want to see what I look like I would rather go on cam, if they want to see what my body looks like first and not my face then I know they will not be people I want to meet.
So having no photos has been a great way to sort the boys out from the men, so to speak.
Quote by robycob
But Minx - I always really thought you were a cat that could stand on its back legs at a point of a finger.
What a downer :shock:
I have survived well and have never had pictures here.
What I have found is that I only receive mail from more genuine people that have taken the time to read my profile, and not people that say your pictures are great and seems not to look any further.
If people want to see what I look like I would rather go on cam, if they want to see what my body looks like first and not my face then I know they will not be people I want to meet.
So having no photos has been a great way to sort the boys out from the men, so to speak.
Never assume
Anyway how do you know I don't? :P
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Quote by keeno
Please don't all rush to my profile to look they are just a chest and bum.
sounds like you've done the same as me
I look better in person than i do on camera, you don't see Apple or Sony etc promoting their products without having the best representation in their adverts, so i don't see the point of posting a picture of my stunning good looks why the Quasimodo filter always seems to be set on the camera. At least you won't have to suffer 53 pictures of my cock from every possible angle in my profile 
Quote by meat2pleaseu
sounds like you've done the same as me
Is that cos you're not an 'extras' member?
Personally I don't ponder on profiles which dont have pics on because if I'm looking at arranging something then I want to see them. If I'm going through the ads I dont even open any without pics.
I do read profiles and if they have writen something of interest to me then I will ask to see pics.
My pet hate is when you get a wink 'would like to know more' and then you look at their profile and they have no pics and havent bothered their arse to write anything either! So who is left needing to know more???? yeah .... me!!!
Also ..... (oh I'm having a good rant here) people in the chatroom comment on my pics and when I go to look at theirs ..... you guessed it ..... none. So its ok for them to perv at me but not the other way round.
OK rant over
I do read profiles and if they have writen something of interest to me then I will ask to see pics.
My pet hate is when you get a wink 'would like to know more' and then you look at their profile and they have no pics and havent bothered their arse to write anything either! So who is left needing to know more???? yeah .... me!!!
Also ..... (oh I'm having a good rant here) people in the chatroom comment on my pics and when I go to look at theirs ..... you guessed it ..... none. So its ok for them to perv at me but not the other way round.
OK rant over
The reason most people don't like their own photos (I reckon) is 'cos they usually see ones that they're mate took while they were pissed/pulling silly faces etc.
If you're in control of the shot, or someone experienced with a camera is taking the photo then people tend to be far more pleased with the results.
If you're in control of the shot, or someone experienced with a camera is taking the photo then people tend to be far more pleased with the results.
Quote by Waterpistol
The reason most people don't like their own photos (I reckon) is 'cos they usually see ones that they're mate took while they were pissed/pulling silly faces etc.
If you're in control of the shot, or someone experienced with a camera is taking the photo then people tend to be far more pleased with the results.
Dont see where you're coming from with the pissed mates ... lots of pics on here are taken in the mirror with a phone or with webcams.
Experience with a camera doesnt matter, we take loads of pics and sometimes only get 1 or 2 that I like enough to put on here
Its not about being David Bailey, its about being able to put a person to the profile.
