many many years a go this situation arose when i met a couple from Leicester , we met had a gr8 time and quickly we found we were meeting about twice a month he asked me in effect to be her lover which i did ...who wouldnt with his full blessing with her staying at my place over a weekend then going back to hubby this cuckhold situation was gr8 but in the back of my mind was trust....can you really share your partner with someone else and keep emotion out of the way .....lots of questions passed me by as I was just enjoying this situation..........hmmmmmm i suppose thats what swinging is all about but keeping emotion at bay......dangerous methinks ..
steve xx
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can a man share his wife / girlfriend with trust and honesty
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I don't know.
Not been in the situation so can't really comment. I know that it is easy to fall for people though and I do often wonder how frequently the f*ck buddy arrangements people have develop into something more. I would hate to have to deal with the emotional fall out of that.
There are times when I am glad I am single!
Not been in the situation so can't really comment. I know that it is easy to fall for people though and I do often wonder how frequently the f*ck buddy arrangements people have develop into something more. I would hate to have to deal with the emotional fall out of that.
There are times when I am glad I am single!
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There are times when I am glad I am single!
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I don't know the answer either. However I do know there are a lot of people who talk the talk but when it comes to walking the walk it's a different kettle of fish altogether. I suspect there are many people in this scene whom, if they were absolutely 100% honest about it, probably shouldn't be.
in the past it was called lover ...today it is called fuck buddy ( I would love one )but now just being intimate for those few moments is showing that you care for that moment but detracting from emotion to just lust is a fine parralell............maybe I am getting to heavy and just need to fuck then walk away but then again I cant just do that .....swinging is quite intimate if you involve kissing which I allways do then you are a tad involved with that person whatever little moment it is hmmmm questions ha ha lol ......now wheres that chill out pill.
steve xx
steve xx
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There are times when partners have to accept each others boundaries. I for one would never want or agree to J swinging without me. there or I I without her. Fortune smiles at us in respect that the idea of me watching J gives her a kick and that is for her and I really enjoy watching and a little participatrion occasionally. I guess there are times when J is horny and would like a shag when i'm not around, though thankfully she has respect for my wishes in our relationship and the occasion to question has never come up.
I believe that for myself swinging is a more than two person experience and with me there it always is
Oh and ermmmm party invites always welcomed 
I believe that for myself swinging is a more than two person experience and with me there it always is
Oh and ermmmm party invites always welcomed We are a couple and have met the same guy 7 times, I have met him 3 times alone.
I am the female part and the only way I can define it, is that Love and lust are so different, you can share the same intimate times together with your hubby or another guy, but both experiences feel different.
One is lust driven the other is love driven.
I have spoken to many here that to do what we do would scare the hubby. You have to define the two and totally understand it all before you start I believe to make it work for all parties involved.
I believe it is hard for a lot to totally understand.
But for me to get the best out of this experience it is the only way it would have worked for me and Hubby totally understood that.
It is about having 100% trust too.
I am the female part and the only way I can define it, is that Love and lust are so different, you can share the same intimate times together with your hubby or another guy, but both experiences feel different.
One is lust driven the other is love driven.
I have spoken to many here that to do what we do would scare the hubby. You have to define the two and totally understand it all before you start I believe to make it work for all parties involved.
I believe it is hard for a lot to totally understand.
But for me to get the best out of this experience it is the only way it would have worked for me and Hubby totally understood that.
It is about having 100% trust too.
