Just wanted to no why is it no matter what you put on your profile no one seems to read it i.e we have put on our profile that we are not looking for single males for anything but yet we still get mail form single males plus why is it that some single men think its funny to rude and nasty when your having a play on cam its happen afew times and im a bit put off about going on cam at all now am i the only one who has noticed this or does it happen to others let me no :crazy: that im not going mad lol
I know excatly what you mean. we`ve got on our profile that we are looking for single guys but that we only want to play together, but they still try their luck to try and get me to play alone. Guys it just ain`t gonna happen.
Quote by lyns I know excatly what you mean. we`ve got on our profile that we are looking for single guys but that we only want to play together, but they still try their luck to try and get me to play alone. Guys it just ain`t gonna happen.
Ty so much thought it was just me lol i surpose there is always going to be one that has a go
Not all single guys are rude or abusive, and some can even read. I do appreciate that people can be annoying and even upsetting at times, but if somebody is breaking the rules then report it to a chat Op or Admin, stating the persons unsername, time, room etc and it will be dealt with. Nobody can do anything unless people report the trolls/twats.
Quote by Kiss Not all single guys are rude or abusive, and some can even read. I do appreciate that people can be annoying and even upsetting at times, but if somebody is breaking the rules then report it to a chat Op or Admin, stating the persons unsername, time, room etc and it will be dealt with. Nobody can do anything unless people report the trolls/twats.
:thumbup: that says it all! But also remember there are also couple and single females who dont (I wont say cant) read profile or adverts. It is a numbers thing, there are loads more single males on here than there are couples and single females, so you are bound to get more pm's from them. If you feel that strongly about it, you can always block pm's from certain groups of people ie single males.
If you feel that strongly about it you can block people from pming you. Go to 'My Settings' block types........click on relevant box submit. BUT be warned you block all of that type, even the sensible ones who can read.
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple Not all single guys are rude or abusive, and some can even read. I do appreciate that people can be annoying and even upsetting at times, but if somebody is breaking the rules then report it to a chat Op or Admin, stating the persons unsername, time, room etc and it will be dealt with. Nobody can do anything unless people report the trolls/twats.
:thumbup: that says it all! But also remember there are also couple and single females who dont (I wont say cant) read profile or adverts. It is a numbers thing, there are loads more single males on here than there are couples and single females, so you are bound to get more pm's from them. If you feel that strongly about it, you can always block pm's from certain groups of people ie single males. I'm sure this is right but I only bothered to read the first few lines before popping off to compose a PM to copy to everyone whose posted asking for a shag
Unfortunately, there are many who are just playing the numbers game, and sending out the same cut-and-paste email to as many people they can. We recently placed a photo ad, and a post in 'lets meet up' - plenty of responses but so far around 70% have gone straight into the ignore list because they obviously haven't read our ad. There are a lot of genuine, trustworthy guys on here - we've met a number so we know they're out there. Same old story though that the good ones get tarred with the same brush as the A-holes. Good advice, we agree, is to report the abusive ones, and block guys from contacting you if that's not what you're looking for. Mr and Mrs C xx
I must admit as a single guy on the site, who can read, I don't think it's even worth bothering replying to adverts - let alone trawling through countless profiles. As for the chatrooms, women who want to 'put on a show' have my sympathy - just too many morons in the audience. This might be controversial but I think the chatrooms should be restricted to paying members.
i think the chat rooms are only for full members. But like its been said payong doesnt mean your not a prat. sadely there are always going to be the ones who dont read a profile, they are driven by blind lust. there will always be the ones who are rude and ignorant, report them and hopefully it will mean less of them. i have my in box set to delete any winks. the new thing im experiencing is couple profiles who whisper in chat and attempt to excusse this by saying its..... ( fill in any female name) as if cuse its the female, or a guy pretending to be one, they can break the rules. welcome to the site or at least the forums and if you stick around long enough you will find the good uns out there. xxxx fem xxxx
Quote by fem_4_taboo i think the chat rooms are only for full members. But like its been said payong doesnt mean your not a prat. sadely there are always going to be the ones who dont read a profile, they are driven by blind lust. there will always be the ones who are rude and ignorant, report them and hopefully it will mean less of them. i have my in box set to delete any winks. the new thing im experiencing is couple profiles who whisper in chat and attempt to excusse this by saying its..... ( fill in any female name) as if cuse its the female, or a guy pretending to be one, they can break the rules. welcome to the site or at least the forums and if you stick around long enough you will find the good uns out there. xxxx fem xxxx
I think what confuses some men is where it says 'no whispering' yet people who know each other in rooms are clearly whispering to each other!
My profile is, as ever, very specific (it even tells you not to continue reading if you can't be arsed! i can't say fairer than that!) but still they ignore it or, as frequently happens, because they don't fit my preferences they actually get very abusive towards me. It's not just single guys. Just last night a couple nagged and bugged me to death in a chatroom. I had stated very clearly that i am not interested in meeting couples, or one half of a couple, or that particular couple - but still they persisted and then got quite abusive towards me and other room members when we told them to back off. I believe they were given a ban in the end. Earlier on in the evening, another couple commented on my profile that "it wouldn't be so bad if you were good looking". Wft? I really don't know where people get off talking to others like that. Some people are just like that. I don't intend to tolerate them any more than i would if it was a "real life" situation and neither should anyone else, but you do have to appreciate that it will still happen, regardless. I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat. I have no problem reporting abuse or anyone breaking site AUP. As for winks, one liners and general unwanted crap .. just delete and ignore - it's part of the site, unfortunately.
Sorry i should oh said can every one read i no that there is a large percent of the site are single men which is un fare to pick on them about reading but it seems to be only the single men that are nasty when they see a cpl on cam so i agree that it should be only paying members that can watch u on cam
Quote by Dizzy_Donna Sorry i should oh said can every one read i no that there is a large percent of the site are single men which is un fare to pick on them about reading but it seems to be only the single men that are nasty when they see a cpl on cam so i agree that it should be only paying members that can watch u on cam
But why - single men can be paying members - doesn't mean they are any less likely to behave badly, or not read your profile properly
Most single guys (at least single guy account holders) tend to apologies when I tell them not to whisper without asking first.... the majority of couples on the other hand, who have taken it upon themselves to ignore the room rules and whisper, seem to think that rule /etiquette does not apply to them and get all arsey-farcy
But why - single men can be paying members - doesn't mean they are any less likely to behave badly, or not read your profile properly Good point well i guess ill have to just have to stay off cam just so i dont get some nob calling me a 'whale' or a 'fat cow' but i surpose thats life as i cant block single men as some single men are my mates so im stuck
Quote by Dizzy_Donna Good point well i guess ill have to just have to stay off cam just so i dont get some nob calling me a 'whale' or a 'fat cow' but i surpose thats life as i cant block single men as some single men are my mates so im stuck
If they are doing that, report them to someone who can do something about it. As far as I know, if you add someone to your friends list, you can still receive messages from them even if you block single males in general.
Of course if there were no comments at all from singles or couples in the chatrooms some women on cam would not get there egos massaged as they do! Perhaps it's a case of taking the rough with the smooth.
Quote by seasider Of course if there were no comments at all from singles or couples in the chatrooms some women on cam would not get there egos massaged as they do! Perhaps it's a case of taking the rough with the smooth.
Quote by Marya_Northeast I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat.
Quote by Dizzy_Donna Just wanted to no why is it no matter what you put on your profile no one seems to read it i.e we have put on our profile that we are not looking for single males for anything but yet we still get mail form single males plus why is it that some single men think its funny to rude and nasty when your having a play on cam its happen afew times and im a bit put off about going on cam at all now am i the only one who has noticed this or does it happen to others let me no :crazy: that im not going mad lol
Your def not alone sweetie. Most of us have had this...lol. There are some nice, genuine single guys around though, its just trying to find them. We personally try and stay away from the cam side of things so carn't really comment on that. x
Just to put my two peneth in, baring in mind im out of it now ex single male ect, for gods sake couples just put up with it, if you enjoy the lifestyle its one of the parts that are a bugger to put up with, im not saying its right or fair but let me tell you for all the single males that are wankers out there, theres plenty of couples who are just as bad. Until there is a way, hard and fast that can make sure that a fella (or couple for that matter) is gen, its one of the ball aches of swinging. I wish i had a pound for every pic collector that tried it on.
Quote by meat2pleaseu I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat.
you're soooooo ladylike :giggle:her streets cany ruff even the rats walk in 2s
Quote by Marya_Northeast My profile is, as ever, very specific (it even tells you not to continue reading if you can't be arsed! i can't say fairer than that!) but still they ignore it or, as frequently happens, because they don't fit my preferences they actually get very abusive towards me. It's not just single guys. Just last night a couple nagged and bugged me to death in a chatroom. I had stated very clearly that i am not interested in meeting couples, or one half of a couple, or that particular couple - but still they persisted and then got quite abusive towards me and other room members when we told them to back off. I believe they were given a ban in the end. Earlier on in the evening, another couple commented on my profile that "it wouldn't be so bad if you were good looking". Wft? I really don't know where people get off talking to others like that. Some people are just like that. I don't intend to tolerate them any more than i would if it was a "real life" situation and neither should anyone else, but you do have to appreciate that it will still happen, regardless. I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat. I have no problem reporting abuse or anyone breaking site AUP. As for winks, one liners and general unwanted crap .. just delete and ignore - it's part of the site, unfortunately.
Aye but come on Marya, all that script for a damn good shag!
Quote by Marya_Northeast My profile is, as ever, very specific (it even tells you not to continue reading if you can't be arsed! i can't say fairer than that!) but still they ignore it or, as frequently happens, because they don't fit my preferences they actually get very abusive towards me. It's not just single guys. Just last night a couple nagged and bugged me to death in a chatroom. I had stated very clearly that i am not interested in meeting couples, or one half of a couple, or that particular couple - but still they persisted and then got quite abusive towards me and other room members when we told them to back off. I believe they were given a ban in the end. Earlier on in the evening, another couple commented on my profile that "it wouldn't be so bad if you were good looking". Wft? I really don't know where people get off talking to others like that. Some people are just like that. I don't intend to tolerate them any more than i would if it was a "real life" situation and neither should anyone else, but you do have to appreciate that it will still happen, regardless. I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat. I have no problem reporting abuse or anyone breaking site AUP. As for winks, one liners and general unwanted crap .. just delete and ignore - it's part of the site, unfortunately.
Aye but come on Marya, all that script for a damn good shag!
lol its cos every1 is so dam horny lol!! i dont think it is just in here though, how often are you out at a club with your partner and a guy tries to pull her, even though she points over and says that my boyfriend..lol...some very persistant guys out there!!
They can read, they either just dont bother or I think they are mainly chancers. I did have a guy that continued to mail me despite not falling into any of the criteria of my add until he offered to pay me :shock: I then said he was breaking AUP so I didnt hear off him again
l/we used to have 2 profiles on for myself as a single male,the other as a my partner and me swung regular. as myra not just guys that pester you.l got rid of the couples shaz decided to just swing now and then,kept my "single male" mentioned my partner in it. just to let people know that ,l swing and am an attached male,but has full permission to swing. to date lve contacted several couples where l do fit,what they are looking for,yet not had a single reply,just to say no thanks, so now l just get to know people either in chat or the forums. and think this route is working better than answering ads.
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plus why is it that some single men think its funny to rude and nasty when your having a play on cam its happen afew times and im a bit put off about going on cam at all now am i the only one who has noticed this or does it happen to others let me no :crazy: that im not going mad lol
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you're soooooo ladylike :giggle:
