Hello,
This is really addressed to regular contributors who are well known on here.
I am new to the scene and from reading things on this site (and others) it is clear that there are many time wasters and people with ulterior motives.
It seems that , regulars are quite rightly wary of people they don't know.
It also seems that too many single or married chaps expect to meet up with somebody and hit it off straight away.
I am asking if someone who is well respected on here and lives in West, South or West Yorkshire would be willing to meet purely socially to in effect vet me and validate that I am who I say I am. I don't expect or indeed want anything other than that. I am sure that this will be a good way to start.
If someone, is willing to do this it would be greatly appreciated.
Many Thanks
Robert
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Hello robnew, It's unfortunately not as easy as someone meeting up with you.
All that will do is verify that you exist. We have had hundreds of new members in the last few weeks, many of them like you. Lots of these are married or single men looking for a quicky. After a while they wander off, because they have found out that nothing is instant in swinging.
The best way for you to verify your credentials is to stay with SwingingHeaven, join in the Forum with Postings and perhaps use the Chatroom. Posting an advert is also recommended, but as you will see, there are thousands of adds from men looking for very few women.
As you are a newbie, I would suggest you take the time to read through the pages of The Forum, 'Lets Meet' and 'Cafe' section paying special attention to the other posts from newbies and the advice given to them.
In a while members will notice your postings and gradually you will become accepted. Once you are known, try attending one of the various Munches around the country. There you will meet other members, this could, but not necessarily, lead to further meetings on a 1 to 1 basis.
One thing above all is to be honest, if your not and you are found out, you will never get a meeting, ever.
Don't be put off, you will have to work at it for some time before you succeed.
Best of luck.
Harry0
All that will do is verify that you exist. We have had hundreds of new members in the last few weeks, many of them like you. Lots of these are married or single men looking for a quicky. After a while they wander off, because they have found out that nothing is instant in swinging.
The best way for you to verify your credentials is to stay with SwingingHeaven, join in the Forum with Postings and perhaps use the Chatroom. Posting an advert is also recommended, but as you will see, there are thousands of adds from men looking for very few women.
As you are a newbie, I would suggest you take the time to read through the pages of The Forum, 'Lets Meet' and 'Cafe' section paying special attention to the other posts from newbies and the advice given to them.
In a while members will notice your postings and gradually you will become accepted. Once you are known, try attending one of the various Munches around the country. There you will meet other members, this could, but not necessarily, lead to further meetings on a 1 to 1 basis.
One thing above all is to be honest, if your not and you are found out, you will never get a meeting, ever.
Don't be put off, you will have to work at it for some time before you succeed.
Best of luck.
Harry0
Thanks Harry,
I know that it will take a while to get known and accepted, that doesn't give me a problem, nor does being honest like stating that I am married, happily.
I realise it will take time for me to get to know who is who .
It is just as important for me to understand who the cranks are as it is for other genuine people on here.
The munch stuff is something that I hadn't even heard of before this site, but will certainly consider attending, my only concern is that I don't want to appear as one of the wolf-pack (even though, I guess I am).
I have no problem with biding my time.
I know that it will take a while to get known and accepted, that doesn't give me a problem, nor does being honest like stating that I am married, happily.
I realise it will take time for me to get to know who is who .
It is just as important for me to understand who the cranks are as it is for other genuine people on here.
The munch stuff is something that I hadn't even heard of before this site, but will certainly consider attending, my only concern is that I don't want to appear as one of the wolf-pack (even though, I guess I am).
I have no problem with biding my time.
Orgasminator
robnew wrote:
I hadn't heard of A Munch either robnew that is until it appeared in the Forum.
Therefore:-
The word Munch is now:- © Copyright SwingingHeaven. 2004
Let the press pick that up and use it at their peril.
:lol:
Harry0
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Actually I think Steveg_NW coined the word. oops.
The munch stuff is something that I hadn't even heard of before this site.
I hadn't heard of A Munch either robnew that is until it appeared in the Forum.
Therefore:-
The word Munch is now:- © Copyright SwingingHeaven. 2004
Let the press pick that up and use it at their peril.
:lol: Harry0
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Actually I think Steveg_NW coined the word. oops.
