Can someone please help me give me advice

20 Dec 2005

Hi,
Could someone please help me, on Saturday night I paid for a years subscription on this site, I can't upload any pictures to my profile, even though I followed all the instructions given to me, I don't know what exactly what I am getting for my subscription, is there someone out there who has a subscription who can tell me
I have never swung before so I am totally new to this I was apprehensive about doing this, but i think I will give it a try as have now paid for it, (are there any more swinging virgins like me who can guide me a bit? redface

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I have no activation code to get through the signup 2 section, could someone please advise me as I am beginning to have doubts about this site , I have sent 2 e-mails explaining my difficulties with screen shots and I am waiting on a response, I am a very patient and will wait, but I donâ€™t know what the response time is, sad

I would really appreciate some advice form experienced users of this site
Thank you !
wink

20 Dec 2005

The support emails are being worked through, I can help you out with image uploads etc, I'll pm you.

20 Dec 2005

it had to start somewhere
that one how many other can we find

20 Dec 2005

Hi SenioRem, welcome to the mad house and hope you have fun lol

Give the Admin a bit of time and they will get round to you but they are working their little socks off at the moment trying to sort us all out with our 'little' problems.
In the meantime, you are able to post, so why not pull up a chair and join in with the rest of the loonies here in the cafe wink

Im quite normal but cant vouch for the rest of them. And that St3v3 bloke well just ignore him, he's only one of the bosses :lol:
Soz St3v3 but you did say ignore you :P

20 Dec 2005

If you want to find out about swinging as a single guy, then I'd suggest you read the advice for single men which you can find under 'advice' on the lefthand side panel. There are other advice threads on these forums, but I'm not sure where at the moment, though no doubt one of our SH angels may well post a link to them. You could try looking through recent posts over the past few weeks and just get an idea about this place.
Good luck in your search.
LC

20 Dec 2005

Quote by Lovecommando
If you want to find out about swinging as a single guy, then I'd suggest you read the advice for single men which you can find under 'advice' on the lefthand side panel. There are other advice threads on these forums, but I'm not sure where at the moment, though no doubt one of our SH angels may well post a link to them. You could try looking through recent posts over the past few weeks and just get an idea about this place.
Good luck in your search.
LC

This post is well worth reading.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html

20 Dec 2005

Thank you all for your warm welcome and guidance lol

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I will read up on all the advice you have given me, maybe this will be the start of something different! If not at least I know I can meet new people out of my own social circle and have a bit of fun chatting in the meantime.
rotflmao

20 Dec 2005

Quote by SenioRem
Thank you all for your warm welcome and guidance ,
I will read up on all the advice you have given me, maybe this will be the start of something different! If not at least I know I can meet new people out of my own social circle and have a bit of fun chatting in the meantime.

Right then, now your back, its your turn to make the brews, so get the kettle on. Mines a coffee :lol:

20 Dec 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Thank you all for your warm welcome and guidance ,
I will read up on all the advice you have given me, maybe this will be the start of something different! If not at least I know I can meet new people out of my own social circle and have a bit of fun chatting in the meantime.

Right then, now your back, its your turn to make the brews, so get the kettle on. Mines a coffee :lol:
Mine's Vodka and Lemonade wink

NWC start as we mean to go on bolt

Steph :lol:
Turkey curries - am gonna wait for the gobbling jokes :wink: mmmmmmmmmm :wink:
And I'll have a pint, make it a double :cheers:

20 Dec 2005

Make mine a whole bottle of vodka and a big one please smile

20 Dec 2005

Go on then I will have a vodka but only one, dont want to get drunk! I really want to enjoy Sexy Steph's turkey curry wink

(well we got to get rid of this bloody big thing Mr NWC bought - 24lb and there only three of us for christmas dinner, and one of them is virtually a vegietarian) :shock: :shock: :shock:

20 Dec 2005

Quote by st3v3
Thank you all for your warm welcome and guidance ,
I will read up on all the advice you have given me, maybe this will be the start of something different! If not at least I know I can meet new people out of my own social circle and have a bit of fun chatting in the meantime.

Right then, now your back, its your turn to make the brews, so get the kettle on. Mines a coffee :lol:
Mine's Vodka and Lemonade wink

NWC start as we mean to go on bolt

Steph :lol:
Turkey curries - am gonna wait for the gobbling jokes :wink: mmmmmmmmmm :wink:
And I'll have a pint, make it a double :cheers:
Whos he? Is this the one we are ignoring :giggle: sod it, I will have his drink!

20 Dec 2005

Quote by raunchyrabbits
Go on then I will have a vodka but only one, dont want to get drunk! I really want to enjoy Sexy Steph's turkey curry

Turkey curry
If you want a 24lb turkey, you are more than welcome to it. Sexy Steph is offering to make us something nice with the 23 1/2lbs that will be left over after christmas dinner, but the only thing I could think of was curry confused

20 Dec 2005

Well, my goodness you all seem like a friendly bunch, lol

and I think I might need a tray for all your drinks and such variety to plus I can't let the curry get cold.
I don't know where to begin really, can you tell me something about yourselves, what your interests are ? may be what got you started into swinging ,what experiences you have had or is that in the cafe ?
I can tell you a bit about me, I'm 34 but feel like I'm still 21,I love music and I am in band , I play percussion and scratch DJ,I love nature and dreams and I am a bit of a hippy at heart, I signed for this out of curiosity really, I am interested ,but still don't know weather this is more a fantasy thing or something I would love to experience, a guestimate at this moment , I would 40% fantasy and 60% want to experience and my goal is to find out what the balance is going to be,
There you go a little about me,
Please forgive me I may have to sign off soon as I have a friend coming round unexpected in a moments time , but I will be back maybe not tonight , tomorrow