Mikes mum the other day said, Lucy has changed, she has become a much softer person!!!!!!!!
Leaving that aside for now.
Do you think that the person you are with, can influence your personality?
If there are rough sides to your edges, can your partner smooth them down?
Do you feel that your partner influences your life so much that they can be either a negative or positive influence on your life??
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J and I have been together for 16+ years we have become more alike, not physically but mentally over that time. We are homogenising in our tastes
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J and I have been together for 16+ years we have become more alike, not physically but mentally over that time. We are homogenising in our tastes
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J and I have been together for 16+ years we have become more alike, not physically but mentally over that time. We are homogenising in our tastes
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I'm not sure we change, but there is some influence there to smooth the edges, just as the company we keep can shape our behaviour too. Of course we also mellow with age and having children I think makes us behave differently, as we are careful how our behaviour influences them.
well said!
I was just coming back to this thread when I read that I guess what I would agree with you I think nobody can change the core of use but can definitely change the way we think, but that as you said isn’t just our partner but most people we meet in life.
I do think those raw edges our partner can have an influence over and smooth out but only if we understand they were raw in the first place.
I think you change your attitude and outlook on life, love, your own self etc as you mature.
It's taken me 48 years to realise that no one is worth the pain of heartache, the only person who can change your life is YOU and the best person you can be is yourself
I've grown softer and more open in some ways, accepting in others, harder in a few. It's life's lessons that educate us and mould you into who we are today. I still make mistakes, get it wrong and always will. It's just these days, I find it easier to apologise if I'm in the wrong and don't hang onto people who aren't worth the effort
It's taken me 48 years to realise that no one is worth the pain of heartache, the only person who can change your life is YOU and the best person you can be is yourself
I've grown softer and more open in some ways, accepting in others, harder in a few. It's life's lessons that educate us and mould you into who we are today. I still make mistakes, get it wrong and always will. It's just these days, I find it easier to apologise if I'm in the wrong and don't hang onto people who aren't worth the effort
Well I'm not keen on encouraging folk to think they can change their partners or other loved ones cos I observe too much of that that isn't healthy.
However if I think of love as nurturing and nurturing as encouraging personal growth then of course it happens.
Perhaps the problems occur when the nurturer sets specific goals for the nurtured.
However if I think of love as nurturing and nurturing as encouraging personal growth then of course it happens.
Perhaps the problems occur when the nurturer sets specific goals for the nurtured.
To change is to grow- I'm open to learning new things each & every day. Life itself is a huge learning curve, and each lesson learned changes us as a person. Even my most deeply held beliefs are subject to review if something or someone comes along to make me view them differently.
If not changing means to stagnate- I know which I'd rather do.
If not changing means to stagnate- I know which I'd rather do.
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I think you change your attitude and outlook on life, love, your own self etc as you mature.
It's taken me 48 years to realise that no one is worth the pain of heartache, the only person who can change your life is YOU and the best person you can be is yourself
I've grown softer and more open in some ways, accepting in others, harder in a few. It's life's lessons that educate us and mould you into who we are today. I still make mistakes, get it wrong and always will. It's just these days, I find it easier to apologise if I'm in the wrong and don't hang onto people who aren't worth the effort
:thumbup: best lesson to learn I feel
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Yes totally agree. I used to be as soft as shite and I was walked over again, and again and again.
Also when you've had some REAL blows in life you tend to toughen up.
I've still a nice nature, with those who matter but these days I don't suffer fools gladly.
Amen to that babes. Same here
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Quote by Sassy-SerenOh, my, well put. I am my past.
I think you change your attitude and outlook on life, love, your own self etc as you mature.
It's taken me 48 years to realise that no one is worth the pain of heartache, the only person who can change your life is YOU and the best person you can be is yourself
I've grown softer and more open in some ways, accepting in others, harder in a few. It's life's lessons that educate us and mould you into who we are today. I still make mistakes, get it wrong and always will. It's just these days, I find it easier to apologise if I'm in the wrong and don't hang onto people who aren't worth the effort
