this has mad me mad really mad. ten years ago i started dogging and ive watch it get worse with males driving in and out of carparks and not respecting the couples that turned up and in real terms dogging is dying why would a couple want to go out and have some fun only to be chased away followed by a convoy of cars going from one carpark to another and scarying them away. i didnt stop dogging because of the police but because of the unresptful not all lost as i started going to a swingers club .and over the years that also has gone down hill to such a point ive even heard the guys working there that they have got to do somthing .4 now its dogging on foot patrol with the single guys following the couple and single females around till they leave the club without playing..the coples are less and the single female even more so..they have made a cash cow thats in danger of dying why would a single guy pay 50 quid to go into a swingers club only to find the place full of guys..that are from eastern european that are rude and unclean and need interpreter to have a conversation with them..wake up swingers clubs less males and higher entry fees as i would rather pay twice as much and go twice left often. the only problem with this is that im sure the couples would return and as soon as they do just watch the flood gates open to the singles again paying twice as much dont know the answer but cant watch it all die
I believe the answer is to limit the number, and therefore the proportion, of singles, both male and female. Not to an exact 50:50 split. But all clubs have a max limit on people being there - fire regs see to that. So there is no big deal in setting other limits. No specific limit is needed on couples since they come with their own partners so they maintain the balance naturally. Once the fire-reg limit is reached, no-one (or couple) gets in anyway. Insist in pre-booking - not hard since the majority of us have phones - we could even book from taxi if it's spur of the moment. Then the club can simply say, sorry we have reached our limit on single men, single women or total. Membership doesn't guarantee entry anyway, but it could offer a 24-hour pre-book that non-members don't have. just a thought, that one. The balance of males/females/couples wouldn't be that complicated to maintain, but a simple computer program would make it a little easier on the staff. You'd want some way to register how many left as well, but it's all do-able. I hate the few people on here and in clubs who feel paying membership entitles them to sex on demand and that every person there will have sex with them regardless of how little effort they put in to courtesy and freindliness. And then they get shirty when they don't get a shag first time of asking.
You want to pay even more than you do currently to get into a club :shock: I would like to pay less thank you very much.... It wouldn't be difficult to have a system that limits the amount of single guys entering the club....Or as said above.....Have a pre-booking service so you can limit the amount that way.... Paying more ??? No way......
think lots of clubs over charge single males.. went to one in london that was charging £100 for single males. they thought that the cpls n single fems was payed to play with them. they didnt like being told no,this type of club we now pass by as we hate to see them making money out of our bit of fun. as we only play with single men or the odd fem,we look for clubs that dont rip them off. and guys dont stand on stairs or hall ways n expect to get a shag.....try talking n making us laugh. we dont bite much....n if a cpl say no ty dont be offended, be polite n move on.
Quote by Steve You want to pay even more than you do currently to get into a club :shock: I would like to pay less thank you very much.... It wouldn't be difficult to have a system that limits the amount of single guys entering the club....Or as said above.....Have a pre-booking service so you can limit the amount that way.... Paying more ??? No way......
Ha haaa, but what you've missed Steve is that Gagmaster is one of those polite, respectful, exceptional single males who's chances of playing are unfairly diluted by the sheer number of chancers in there. I mean, without help from the management how are couples in there meant to know that he's a genuine sort of bloke at all? ;) If only swinging clubs charged more for single men than they already do, then we'd not have to contend with 'eastern european that are rude and unclean and need interpreter to have a conversation with them', and could base our choices as far as potential playmates go safe in the knowledge that no matter what they profess to be, they will at least have a big enough wallet? ;) N x x x ;)
Pricing is not the answer. Having money doesn't make someone well behaved. I reckon the answer is a. controlling ratio of singlemales to couples , b. education and c. strict policing. I sympathise with the genuine single guys, it's a tough market out there. The good guys are being tarred with the same brush as those uncouth, selfish ..%^&**! that spoil it for everyone.
The cure is simple. Membership only and quality control rather than simply putting up the price. The problem is the owners are more interested in counting cash. Now if I ran a club.....
Quote by motorcyclerob The cure is simple. Membership only and quality control rather than simply putting up the price. The problem is the owners are more interested in counting cash. Now if I ran a club.....
You think so? From what I have read about clubs does not always seem like they are the busiest of places only the more well known ones. I would have thought there has to be some kind of love of swinging to set up a swinging club Not something that strikes me as a quick fix to riches.
Swinging Heaven features sexually explicit material. To access this site you must be of the legal age to engage with the material of an adult site.
By entering Swinging Heaven you agree to the following;
I am deemed an adult where I live, and I am at least 18 years old
I am allowed to access & view sexually explicit material
0 likes
;)
;)
Not something that strikes me as a quick fix to riches.