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the basics are im a married man and want to try a new adventure before it drops off.
i dont get any replys to my add because i dont give any info, yet i dont want to give my i.d. away nervous first timer or what.
what next, any suggestions?
Im confused, not hard I know, but,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
your profile says married
the monty part of the profile gives no sexuality at all
the straight male has no name
the profile text says male 45 looking for...... as in single male?
your add is in couples looking for couples
I know you say you dont want to give your ID away but try to make it more clear about who you are and who / what your after
like they say you only get out what you put in
confused :? :?
Your profile's quiet confusing as Meza has pointed out but gives nothing about you really. As for the ad, it's good to see you know what you want but maybe you could reword it a bit. You've just listed all the things YOU want but not saying what you have to offer. Profiles and ads really have to stand out from the crowd to get people interested.
One question.....does your wife know about all this? confused
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the basics are im a married man and want to try a new adventure before it drops off.
i dont get any replys to my add because i dont give any info, yet i dont want to give my i.d. away nervous first timer or what.
what next, any suggestions?

Is it just me confused or am I on the wrong medication rolleyes
Just looked at the profile and the ad and i'm totally confused!
Just looked at the profile and the ad and i'm totally confused!
Your profile is crap!......and your ad contradicts what yo've just said in this thread.....i think you need to go back to the drawing board.....if your not prepared to put any information up.....your not going to get anway....simple as that
what allways get me is the fact they ask for "any advice or suggestions " .
so we have given a few ,
but the profile is still the same and,,,,,
nobody comes back to say thanks for the advice confused
need pics and info....or theres no point being there......
having a pic that actually looks like u really helps too....
arranged a meet last night.....and the guy was sat 3 foot away....did wonder,but the poor guy had lost his gorgeous curly hair/muscles/tan......so other than looking at my legs ,that was all he got...as we didnt recognise him
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the basics are im a married man and want to try a new adventure before it drops off.
i dont get any replys to my add because i dont give any info, yet i dont want to give my i.d. away nervous first timer or what.
what next, any suggestions?

You've obviously taken your ad down now as a result of the comments above, but if you're preparing a new one, I might just point out that most people here prioritise discretion very highly, whether they are married or single. Nobody needs to reveal their face or other identifiable details on this site at all unless they really feel they want to. But obviously people need to know basic information about you, and a quick trawl through other ads and profiles should show you what people normally put. And yes, make things in all categories clear!