Do you understand it all ? is there something you don't understand but are too embarrassed to ask ?
This is a swingers site, none of us know everything, ask away, someone will know the answer and be happy to explain the terminology.
CBT - Cock and Ball Tease
Mummification - normally wrapping the subject in clingfilm
Snowballing - passing the cum from one persons mouth to another
BDSM - Bondage and Discipline .... Domination and Submission .... Sado Machosism
There are thousands, here are a few answers to start us all off
A-Level (Anal Sex)
AB, Adult Babies: a fetish for regression into an infant/toddler state through dress (including diapers), roleplaying, and being rendered helpless to a Mommy/Nanny; the formal title for this fetish is “paraphilic infantilsm”; it can manifest itself in many ways but revolves around the ideas of giving up control to Mommy, wearing diapers and other baby clothes, playing with other ABs, being stripped of responsibility, and sometimes, exhibitionism; ABs need a Mommy/Nanny to help take care of them, to feed them, clothe them, change their diapers and check for diaper rash, play with them, and to discipline them when necessary
ABC (American Born Chinese) or (Australian Born Chinese)
ABJ (American Born Japanese)
AC/DC: slang for a bisexual
AMP (Asian Massage Parlour) : An erotic massage establishment that primarily employs Asian prostitutes.
AAMP (Apartment Asian Massage Parlour): Based in a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront.
ATM/A2M (Ass to Mouth) nope, not an automated cash machine, “ass to mouth”, a reference to an adult performer going from anal sex to oral sex without - cleaning up in between. Highly unsafe sexual practice, high eroticized by some people because of it. While we list sites that include that content, it’s important to realize that is extremely risky behavior for STDs.
ATOGM (Ass to Other Girl's Mouth)
BBBJ (bareback blow-job): Fellatio without a condom.
BBC Big black cock
BBBJTC (bare back blow job to completion)
BBBJTCIM (bare back blow job to completion in mouth)
BBBJTCWS (bare back blow job to completion with swallow)
BBBJWF (bare back blow job with facial)
BBFS (bare back full service)
BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) : A plus-size woman BBW. I’ve seen this term used by some unkind men to describe any woman over a size 10! Generally used by BBWs to describe themselves.
BCD (Behind Closed Doors) : Intimate activity that occurs in private.
BDSM – A lifestyle combining three patterns of sexual behavior: BD for Bondage Discipline, DS for Domination Submission, and SM for Sadomasochism
Fans of BDSM have many different triggers including humiliation, physical pain, endurance, and restraint
BJ (Blowjob)
BL (Ball Licking)
BLS (Ball Licking and Sucking)
CBJ (covered blow-job) : Fellatio with a condom.
CBT, C&B Torture, cock & ball torture: painful stimulation of a male’s balls and penis using binds, needles, clamps, burning balms, candles, and blunt force
CDS (covered doggy style)
CFS (covered full service) : Intercourse with a condom.
CFNM: Acronym for “clothed female, naked male”, a genre of porn with slight power exchange feel that is quickly gaining popularity.
CG (cowgirl = girl on top facing the man)
CHI (Chicago or CHGO)
CL ( )
CMD (carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde)
CMT (Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.)
CIM (come in mouth) :
COB (Come on Breasts)
COF (Come on face):
DP: Deep penetration
D&T : Deep and Tight
DATO (Dining at the O) : Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus.
DATY (dining at the Y.) : Cunnilingus performed by the customer on the prostitute.
DDP (double digit penetration, vagina and anus)
DT (Deep Throat) - The recipient "swallows" the length of the penis.
DDG (drop dead gorgeous)
DFK (deep french kissing): See GFE.
DIY (do it yourself (masturbation))
FIV (finger in vagina)
FOV (finger outside vagina)
FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage) :
FFN Fully fashioned nylons
FFS Fully fashioned stockings
GS (Golden Shower) : Occurs with a recipient being urinated on.
GMDW ( Get My Dick Wet )
HD: abbreviation for “humiliation and discipline”
HJ (handjob) : Manual stimulation of the penis.
HWP (Height/Weight Proportional) : Normal build, neither unusually slim nor heavy.
J353 : Oral stimulation and deep tongue penetration of the female's anus by the male. (from the jeans with a rear zipper)
JTS - Jabba the slut...sex with a less than appealing partner
L1 (Level one) : experience includes ejaculatory release via manual stimulation
L2 (level two) : experience includes ejaculatory release via manual and oral stimulation
L3 (Level three) : experience includes vaginal and/or anal penetration
MILF (Mom I'd Like to Fuck) : An attractive woman in her 30's or 40's.
MFAQL : (Marry first, ask questions later)
M/s: abbreviation for the BDSM relationship, Master and slave
NE (Northern Exploration) : popular term with soft swing couples
NQBS (Non-Quitter, But Spitter) : Fellatio in which CIM occurs and the recipient spits the semen out.
NQNS (Non-Quitter, Non-Spitter) : Fellatio in which CIM occurs and the recipient swallows the semen.
OWO (oral without) : Fellatio without a condom.
POV: (USED IN PORN FILMS) point-of-view. Lots of times you’ll see this in reviews when we’re describing content that was shot by the person engaged in the sex act - you know the type I’m talking about, like a blowjob video or photo set all shot by the guy getting the blowjob.
R&T (Rub and Tug) : Hand relief
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink: One school of thought in the BDSM community to define the parameters of play; RACK acknowledges that most BDSM activities have risks for those participating but as long as everyone is fully aware of those risks and still enters the play, then the activity is ethically acceptable
RL (Rose Leafing) : licking the anus
RR (Rough-rider) : enjoys spanking and goes very hard and will return the same and verbally abuse him to get him to ride her rough and hard. May use nails and spit too.
SE (Southern Exploration) : Touching the lower parts of the persons body, typically the buttocks and genitals.
S&M: abbreviation for “sadism and masochism”
STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease)
STL (Swallow the lot): SWM Single white male
TLC : Tender Loving Care
TOFTT (Took One For The Team) : A swinger who has sex with someone for thier partners benefit
TS (Transsexual) : An individual who undergoes gender reassignment surgery.
TUMA (Tongue Up My Ass): Oral stimulation of the anus involving pressing the tongue into the anus-usually accomplished in conjunction with "rimming" (see below).
TV (Transvestite) : A man who dresses to appear as a woman.
WAM: “Wet and Messy”, which eroticizes women (or men) getting goopy - mudwrestling, pies in the face, whipped cream, any number of things.
YKIOK “Your Kink Is OK”; used as a symbol of inclusiveness with clubs, organizations, websites, and on personal ads
YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary) : A catch phrase which signifies that each encounter may very well be different.
50/50 (or "half and half") : Oral sex to stimulate the male followed by intercourse
69 (slang) – A sexual position allowing mutual oral stimulation of the genitals; the position looks like the number 69
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CBT, Mummification, Snowballing
Sex God
I think I need a PHD to read that amount of acronyms and digest them into some resemblence of memorable rhyme.... you know like 'Naughty Elephants Squirt Water' for the points of the compass?! 
Thanks for sharing.
When I have spare year on my hands I might bother reading more than four! ;) :lol: Hehe, I'm only kidding. I'm a simple and delicate creature you know.
*polishes halo*
What I'd like to know is, do all of these abreviations and using codes ever really get used? Some have cross overs like CBT, I think of cognitive behaviour therapy.... which is rather different to the alternative cock & ball torture! At least one would hope it was!
LG. x
Thanks for sharing.
When I have spare year on my hands I might bother reading more than four! ;) :lol: Hehe, I'm only kidding. I'm a simple and delicate creature you know.
*polishes halo*What I'd like to know is, do all of these abreviations and using codes ever really get used? Some have cross overs like CBT, I think of cognitive behaviour therapy.... which is rather different to the alternative cock & ball torture! At least one would hope it was!
LG. x Quote by little gem
I think I need a PHD to read that amount of acronyms and digest them into some resemblence of memorable rhyme.... you know like 'Naughty Elephants Squirt Water' for the points of the compass?!
Thanks for sharing.
When I have spare year on my hands I might bother reading more than four! ;) :lol: Hehe, I'm only kidding. I'm a simple and delicate creature you know.
What I'd like to know is, do all of these abreviations and using codes ever really get used? Some have cross overs like CBT, I think of cognitive behaviour therapy.... which is rather different to the alternative cock & ball torture! At least one would hope it was!
I guess they all have other connotations and it would depend on the context in which they are used, your example is a good one but to a soldier it means Combat. I just thought a little food for thought is never a bad thing
Quote by little gem
I think I need a PHD to read that amount of acronyms and digest them into some resemblence of memorable rhyme.... you know like 'Naughty Elephants Squirt Water' for the points of the compass?!
Thanks for sharing.
When I have spare year on my hands I might bother reading more than four! ;) :lol: Hehe, I'm only kidding. I'm a simple and delicate creature you know.
What I'd like to know is, do all of these abreviations and using codes ever really get used? Some have cross overs like CBT, I think of cognitive behaviour therapy.... which is rather different to the alternative cock & ball torture! At least one would hope it was!
I guess they all have other connotations and it would depend on the context in which they are used, your example is a good one but to a soldier it means Combat. I just thought a little food for thought is never a bad thing
Sex God
I think I'm going to have to start adding a few letters after my name on CVs & the like... :rascal:
Sex God
Very American-sounding. And way too many to remember. Some of them are too long to be called abbreviations - you'd forget what the abbreviation was!
Sex God
And dont forget this is Swingingheaven where as soon as you tell people about an abbreviation they wont want to be labeled by it :lol2:
Sex God
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And dont forget this is Swingingheaven where as soon as you tell people about an abbreviation they wont want to be labeled by it :lol2:
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