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Hi Everyone!
My wife and myself are visiting Chams in a couple of weeks,was hoping to get some advice from others who've already visited!
We've previously been to Townhouse and had a great time,we've heard good things re Chams Darlaston but are unsure as to a couple of points.
Firstly we play with couples,full swap same room and we love MMF threesomes. We know Chams asks single guys to leave by 7;30pm on a Saturday but stay all night on we're primarily looking for a smokin'hot MMF on this visit we therefore thought Fridays the best choice but have slight reservations since we've heard from one or two others that it can be a real 'sausage fest' on a Friday and there's alot of very pushy guys.
I'm hoping this isn't true,since we prefer a relaxed atmos and whilst my wife loves male attention she may find a Tsunami of males a bit intimidating! Hopefully Fridays will still have a reasonable mix of couples as well as male singles,can anyone confirm?
Secondly my wife is initially hoping to start the evening in a sexy mini-dress and as the evening progresses strip down to underwear and maybe just a towel later,I've heard the majority of female guests start the evening off in underwear,so the question is rather than be the odd-one-out would she be better to ditch the dress and go straight for bra and panties?
Regards J & Y
Not sure I agree altogether with the 'reporting' of pushy single males to the staff (just push em back), if there is someone out and out pestering, who won't take no for an answer and is plain rude, then for sure maybe it's worth having a quiet word with the staff ( chameleons staff are very helpful) but if they're just a bit pushy then a polite 'no thanx' usually works, sometimes it's them being overkeen or nervous or just plain horny, I don't blame a single bloke for wanting to get his rocks off, just as long as they're not too obvious or in your face about it.
To answer your other points, Friday nights at Chameleons when it works, works really well, you should have no problem in finding a well presented (well , as far as you can tell when they're down to their boxers) single male to help entertain you both. 'Sausage fest' ha! thats more for the glory holes/round bed/cinema areas really, if you insist on playing in public it will almost always result in others coming to watch and wanting to join in (doesn't mean they're invited) but who can blame them? Chameleons benefits from 3 or 4 private rooms (lockable) so if you do want some filthy fun in private then off you trot, (might have to wait a little while if its busy)
I don't think you'll go far wrong with how your wife wants to start out dress code wise, nothing too formal mind as you'd look a little bit out of place, and always take back up clothing, straps/heel breaking, knickers forgot about *smiling*
Reviews aside, the only way to find out if Chameleons is for you is to visit, for the most part I've found the patrons of the joint to be respectful, polite and rarely if ever in your face, there will always be exceptions but thats the same anywhere.
It's easy to ovethink things and get bogged down playing out all the possible negative scenarios but for me it's quite simple (I'm quite simple you see) the best approach is one of an open mind, relax, take a wander around, familiarise yourself with the layout, sit for a time, observe maybe and if it you're comfortable then maybe flirt a little (or a lot), when you're ready then select your 'quarry' and go have some filthy fun, if it's good... well ...go find another *smiling* and if doesn't? well thats experience for you (don't give up on the first attempt mind)
As with swinging in general, patience and perseverence be king.
