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Changed The Way You Swing

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We have been on the Swinging scene for around 20+ years, and on SH with this account for over 15.

Over those years, how we swing has changed. When we first started,  we would meet couples and go to the odd club for our fun and games, and never minded a bit of traveling for meets too.

But as the years have passed, and we have become older, the way we swing is now different to when we first started.

We now, do not meet as often for swinging, we do seem to have less time, and I, Mr Bad, am now more of a watcher then taking part , is that a age thing or just a change in my preference now, or maybe a bit of both. I do take part but not that often.

When we now meet, it's usually for her and a guy to join her for fun. I like to film the meets if possible. I get great pleasure in watching the videos back and the editing side of things. Luckily for me its a thing she is now into and on the odd occasion likes being sub and used. I do like to take part in those meets.

I suppose for me, Mr Bad, the norm side of swinging, like meeting couples and having sex has got boring for me and does no inspire me anymore. Been there wore the T-Shirt so to speak. I need that little extra now and luckily for me, like I said, she is happy with our swinging life the way it is now and happy for solo meets. And what we often do is, discuss the fun she had during our own sex, and that both turns us on. 

I used to attend clubs alot more. Especially the London clubs serving the BDSM community. Not so much now. 

I much prefer developing the relationships and friendships, to the drama and pace of clubs.  It greatly improves the experiences, especially when playing as a bull and/or dom. 

We've never done the club thing yet but have changed in what we are looking for a meet as well. Had plenty of MMF meets which we enjoy but I like to film as well as join in, depends on my mood. But we get a lot out of watching them back later and playing on our own. 

Not done much sharing of MrsC with her full Sub side on display as you need to find the right person for that and so far only 2 have met the mark.

Like some form of social meet at the same time as well now though if possible preferably a coffee as you can have a lot of fun in a coffee shop before a meet.

Sounds as though you are a lucky man Mr Bad in your happy with that.