Chatroom........what is wrong with people or rather men?

24 Jan 2006

Quote by martellnotts

Going on cam .............. has nothing to do with swinging ............. swinging is where people get together and swing ............. camming is what people do on a sex site !
Just my opinion
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I have to agree - camming is not swinging - not in the slightest- its just well cyber porn - and thats what the chat room has decended into
Cyber porn
I just knew when this happened how it would go and my thoughts were right
Hi Black magic man :kiss:
I really dont have a problem with those who want to cam ...........I like to watch :rascal:
When we are at a club or a party I like to be watched ........... but being watched by people you can see ............... is NOT the same as putting on a cam performance !!
Thats all I am saying .......... not having a go ........... dont think there is anything wrong with camming.............. just think people need to realise that the majority of the watchers are not swingers but are the quick wank brigade !
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

24 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde

Going on cam .............. has nothing to do with swinging ............. swinging is where people get together and swing ............. camming is what people do on a sex site !
Just my opinion
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I have to agree - camming is not swinging - not in the slightest- its just well cyber porn - and thats what the chat room has decended into
Cyber porn
I just knew when this happened how it would go and my thoughts were right
Hi Black magic man :kiss:
I really dont have a problem with those who want to cam ...........I like to watch :rascal:
When we are at a club or a party I like to be watched ........... but being watched by people you can see ............... is NOT the same as putting on a cam performance !!
Thats all I am saying .......... not having a go ........... dont think there is anything wrong with camming.............. just think people need to realise that the majority of the watchers are not swingers but are the quick wank brigade !
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
nail and head hun, nail and head

24 Jan 2006

Quote by fabio grooverider
okay.... which brings be back to the original question that i posed....
so being an exhibitionist in front of a cam doesn't make you are swinger..... but being an exhibitionist in a car park or in a club does?????
so are doggers swinger's then??????
sean xxxxxxxx

Sean hi babe
You are not a swinger if all u are doing is sitting in a room by yourself giving a performance on cam !............. IMHO
If you are a dogger u r a dogger ............. if you are a swinging dogger u r a swinging dogger ............. if u r a swingers club goer and you swing with others u r a swinger.
I cant believe you think camming is swinging ............. when its one person performing for the 20 that are watching ............... that really isnt swinging is it ?
I really dont think there is anything wrong with it .......... I just cant call it swinging :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

24 Jan 2006

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Hard as it may be to believe, I agree with most of what you say Darkfireâ€¦ If I sounded a bit tetchy beforeâ€¦â€¦Weeelll I probably was. Can I get you a little drink? Nothing too strong at your ageâ€¦. You do look good for 107â€¦ BTW biggrin

:D :D
Stormwalker

24 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
okay.... which brings be back to the original question that i posed....
so being an exhibitionist in front of a cam doesn't make you are swinger..... but being an exhibitionist in a car park or in a club does?????
so are doggers swinger's then??????
sean xxxxxxxx

Sean hi babe
You are not a swinger if all u are doing is sitting in a room by yourself giving a performance on cam !............. IMHO
If you are a dogger u r a dogger ............. if you are a swinging dogger u r a swinging dogger ............. if u r a swingers club goer and you swing with others u r a swinger.
I cant believe you think camming is swinging ............. when its one person performing for the 20 that are watching ............... that really isnt swinging is it ?
I really dont think there is anything wrong with it .......... I just cant call it swinging :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dogging and camming are two totally different things entirely and I agree with blonde on this one
How the hell can you call anyone who sits behind a computer screen getting their kicks from watching someone perform cyber porn - no Im sorry thats neither dogging - or swinging
Its just perverted cyber porn

24 Jan 2006

Quote by firelizard
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Hard as it may be to believe, I agree with most of what you say Darkfireâ€¦ If I sounded a bit tetchy beforeâ€¦â€¦Weeelll I probably was. Can I get you a little drink? Nothing too strong at your ageâ€¦. You do look good for 107â€¦ BTW :D :D
Stormwalker

a nice cup of tea would be lovely ta :D

24 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
Hi Black magic man

Sorry babes - Hi to you too - smile

24 Jan 2006

the only reason why i brought up the comparison with dogging... is because isn't it just a different sort of exhibitionism so to speak.... but yet everyone is quick to brand one as fine yet the other as not.......
there is more that unites us that divides us.... and i thought people who have been more understanding...
like i said at the end of my original statement...
what do the people on the cams want..... respect.... the same as if you were an exhibitionist in a car park... and exactly the same if you were are exhibionist in a club/at a party....
sean xxxxxx

24 Jan 2006

Quote by fabio grooverider
the only reason why i brought up the comparison with dogging... is because isn't it just a different sort of exhibitionism so to speak.... but yet everyone is quick to brand one as fine yet the other as not.......
sean xxxxxx

Sean .............. sorry babe .............. but where ............... where ................ where ....... did I say it wasnt fine to cam ????
There is nothing wrong with camming ............. and I have never said there was ! ever
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
What I said was simple ............. if you perform for the wank brigade ......... expect them to let u know they want to see more.............. coz they do !!!

24 Jan 2006

CYBER PORN
Its that simple
and who wants to prostitute themselves for that ????
Come on - hands up

24 Jan 2006

Having read the whole of this thread,heres my" two penath" no pun intended
Couples only rooms how many obviously single guys are redgistered as couples or even single fems
Abuse yes i admit i have made the odd "ecouraging remark" hopefully not oversteping what i see as the boundarys as i have witnesed the efect it understandably has especialy on couples who go on as newbies shall we say just to" test the water",who after two minutes of chat up the well are you going to get your tits out or not starts Who can blame them for not going on cam again
Prior to the takeover i never went in the chat rooms as i couldnt get in so cant comment but as the mods have been introduced the free for all, say anything is being adressed and action being taken with the worst offenders
Re Blondes comments yes this is now a sex site and having spoken to her if i was female would i go on cam knowing the responce just an avatar pic can have the answer is no.
If I wanted to get attention yes but be prepared to put up with a "reasonal"amount of comments
Why are the oldies still here when alternatives are available i for one have made good friendships some i have met some only on the forums, My arse is firmly on the fence waiting to see witch way i fall

25 Jan 2006

Quote by martellnotts
CYBER PORN
Its that simple
and who wants to prostitute themselves for that ????
Come on - hands up

Sorry but that one I do have to take offence at that. I am not a prostitute never have been and never will be.

25 Jan 2006

Quote by farmersboy
Having read the whole of this thread,heres my" two penath" no pun intended
Couples only rooms how many obviously single guys are redgistered as couples or even single fems
Abuse yes i admit i have made the odd "ecouraging remark" hopefully not oversteping what i see as the boundarys as i have witnesed the efect it understandably has especialy on couples who go on as newbies shall we say just to" test the water",who after two minutes of chat up the well are you going to get your tits out or not starts Who can blame them for not going on cam again
Prior to the takeover i never went in the chat rooms as i couldnt get in so cant comment but as the mods have been introduced the free for all, say anything is being adressed and action being taken with the worst offenders
Re Blondes comments yes this is now a sex site and having spoken to her if i was female would i go on cam knowing the responce just an avatar pic can have the answer is no.
If I wanted to get attention yes but be prepared to put up with a "reasonal"amount of comments
Why are the oldies still here when alternatives are available i for one have made good friendships some i have met some only on the forums, My arse is firmly on the fence waiting to see witch way i fall

Hello u lovely little sprout
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

25 Jan 2006

This site is bullshit!!!!!

25 Jan 2006

Quote by migsymalone
This site is bullshit!!!!!

care to elaborate? or was that the extent of your contribution? rolleyes

25 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
Babe .............. I am not saying people on cam are not also swingers
All I am saying is that ......... if you choose to go on cam ......... and perform for anyone who cares to watch ............. you have to expect what you get back !
We go to clubs .......... we go to parties ......... we joined when it was a swinging site ....... not the sex site it has now become .
I still like it in here ........... I just dont choose to go on cam for all the guys
:kiss: good luck to you ......... if it floats your boat.
But no matter what you say I will never think that camming is swinging ........... camming is camming ...........
Each to their own ........... I respect that ................ but I watched a woman with a toy who was shocked today when the guys told her what they wanted her to do
Did she expect them to tune in and say the wallpaper looks nice ? or did she expect them to say exactly what they said ??
Each to their own ........... theres room for all of us on here :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.

Perhaps there should be a room for cammers where they can 'e-swinging', me I like actual contact and real inter-reaction.
Each to their own, so long as it hurts no one else.

25 Jan 2006

1 thing that has been made clear in all of this, is that this is no longer a swinging site.
YES it a sex site......
And as blonde said.... and i have to agree with her..... All those blokes sat wanking behind a screen throwing disgusting vulger remarks are NOT swingers!!!
I have been in the scene for almost 2 yrs.... Not once have i gone in a chatroom, spoken to somebody for all of 5 mins and then met them..... My preferances are.... To chat... for a while.... and get my own opinion of them before i decide to meet them.... May it be 2-3 weeks... or 2-3 months. And those of you who know me, know im not out for just a "quick shag"!!!! Nor will i shag anything. And im sorry to say.... its not only the single blokes looking for a quick shag either.... cpls are at it too. Had a bloke... half of a cpl...chat to me on monday nite... wanted me to meet HIM either thursday daytime or both friday nite... I explained "I don't just meet like that, nor do i meet attatched men without there wives knowledge, I prefare to get to know somebody". I got the reply of "ok"... and never seen them since.
Now on the other hand..... If i wanted a "Quick shag".... Yes i could get 1.... No im not being big headed... But u enter that chatroom and BANG!!!! All the blokes who are wanking behind there screens... yeh.... the NONE swingers..... all want you... its a fight to see who can get you 1st.... The can be at your door within 10 mins... They wanna come in and "bend you over.... F**king you really hard"!!!!! They don't care what you look like.... what you want ..... as long as they get what they want.
Its Sick!!!! But its what this site has been made.
Who are we to argue No1 cars what we think.... and none of the NONE swingers will change there ways and respect others....
Sorry if im rambling.... but this is getting me mad now

25 Jan 2006

OK
this is froma single males POV so please dont castrate me.....
yes i go in to the cam room from time to time to watch the odd fem or cpl. I wont deny that i watch and wank.....
Yes this is a swinging site and i agree that a lot of people are males in for a quick wank. However a number of "regular" well known swinging people that have been in scene a while go on cam as it is an addition to there swinging lifestyle.....
personally i tend to watch people i have met personally and know personally. These people are fully aware that i am watching. I will ONLY mention comments to people that i know and will take the comments said in the correct way.
I agree that a lot of comments made are vulgar are near the bone (sorry about the pun). At the moment there are lots of rooms and the chat is kinda is self regulated. People and this includes everyone should be respectful in there.
if people wana cam so be it....if people wana watch so be it... from what i gather its the directrors that upset a number of people....
MikeC

25 Jan 2006

Quote by martellnotts
CYBER PORN
Its that simple
and who wants to prostitute themselves for that ????
Come on - hands up

Im with Joanne-ish on this one! (HI hun)
Do I take it you have never ever looked at so much as a page 3 pic? If camming is prostitution, than surely adult models/porn stars are too?
Therefore every guy who has ever been titilated by such is a punter?
BTW - absolutely NO offence whatsoever is meant to working girls, who are just making their living ike the rest of us. I just dont see the comparison!
Im glad that most of the forum users see it is as it is, a bit of fun for those resilient enough not to be hurt by the muppetts out there. Cant wait until the chatroom has its non cam, chat for the sake of it area so everyone can be happy. I personally have done it a couple of times, and had fun, but my camming days are now over- it was an experiment for me, it worked, job done!

25 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
What I said was simple ............. if you perform for the wank brigade ......... expect them to let u know they want to see more.............. coz they do !!!

WHY should that be the case???....... that is what I am trying to say!!!!! people should be happy with what they see if anything... and there is a general lack of respect going around...
people go on the cam because they get turned on by having people watch..... That is why i drew the comparison to dogging........it is NOT for the benefit of the "one hand gang"....... they happen to be a bye product of what is happening....
Personally speaking it is the comments and the directing that gets on my nerves.... i would have it written into the rules that vulgar comments or directing would get you a 24 hr ban or something... but that is me speaking with an iron first... they would then get the message quickly but i don't know how you could enforce it......
sean xxxxx

25 Jan 2006

Quote by migsymalone
This site is bullshit!!!!!

Guess we wont be seeing much of you in the future then ..... :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:

25 Jan 2006

Quote by Darkfire
This site is bullshit!!!!!

care to elaborate? or was that the extent of your contribution? rolleyes

I don't need to elaborate I think most if not all the points have been covered on here by most of you. Lilmis kind of said it all really1 I don't find this site friendly, I don't find the people in the chatrooms friendly. Trying to have a normal conversation seems to be beyond the grasp of most people. Those who choose to exhibit themselves on camera choose to and like honey to a beehiveit attracts the bees of the male variety. A shortage of women, and couples compared to the number of men.
Most clubs in the real world would restrict the number of men joining but who am I to say anything.... I don't think I can tolerate this site much longer...There are ten to a penny sites out there and have found one or two where people actually do talk to each other in a friendly non sexual way, u know normal shit.
No instead I sit there tuning into the most revolting individual exhibitings themselves whilst been cheered by the sexual hooligans who unfortunately are frustrated from replying to ads that would elude them based on the basic concept of probability and numbers oh and did I forget honesty.
I guess I do have a choice and that might very well be not bothering with this place. So lets try the ads....hmmm One thousand men for every lady that is available.....
Statistically it is said that only 14% of the male population are endowed over 7", I just find it amusing that most of the single men on here would fit into that category judging by the number of responses the advertisers claim to receive. I also find it amuzing that most of the Size Queens would appear to be on here too...hmmm I smell bullshit! Though being fair there are far less women to men or so it would appear.
I can't comment on the couples, gay, lesbians or any other sexual orientation that might be categorised on here. ..

25 Jan 2006

What's a Size Queen ? Do excuse my ignorance by the way..
Minx x x

25 Jan 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
This site is bullshit!!!!!

Guess we wont be seeing much of you in the future then ..... :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:
Don't loose any sleep over it will you...come on I know we are buddies but it has to end NOW....here is my farewell kisss.....XXXXXXXX

25 Jan 2006

Quote by migsymalone
This site is bullshit!!!!!

Guess we wont be seeing much of you in the future then ..... :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:
Don't loose any sleep over it will you...come on I know we are buddies but it has to end NOW....here is my farewell kisss.....XXXXXXXX
OI Migsy! Can you answer my question before you go please ? smile

Minx x x

25 Jan 2006

Quote by migsymalone
Don't loose any sleep over it will you..

I wont..

Quote by migsymalone
.come on I know we are buddies

In an alternate dimention maybe

Quote by migsymalone
but it has to end NOW....here is my farewell kisss.....XXXXXXXX

:violin: :violin:

25 Jan 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx
What's a Size Queen ? Do excuse my ignorance by the way..
Minx x x

Did you find out what it is ??
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

25 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
What's a Size Queen ? Do excuse my ignorance by the way..
Minx x x

Did you find out what it is ??
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
EDIT: I received the answer via pm and apparently it means people who are only happy to meet well endowed men.
Thank you.
Minx x x

25 Jan 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids

Don't loose any sleep over it will you..

I wont..

Quote by migsymalone
.come on I know we are buddies

In an alternate dimention maybe

Quote by migsymalone
but it has to end NOW....here is my farewell kisss.....XXXXXXXX

:violin: :violin: :rose:

25 Jan 2006

Hi,
Frist time I have used the forum.
1. Yes I am a single str8 male.
2. Yes I do appear on cam.
3. Yes I do respect the people who are on cam and let them do what they want and when they want.
4. Yes I did join this site to meet people.
5. Yes I have warned people who try to direct others.
6. Yes it is annoying when people can not take no for an answer. I have been on cam and had blokes trying to get me to flash my cock and wank when my profile clearly states str8.
7. Yes. it frustrating when you check a profile and it say's one thing and it turns out to be the opposite sex all together and even the picture is the wrong sex.
8. Yes it is people on this site like Joanne-ish, who enjoy meeting people and appearing on cam. Who help other members in the chat room. But most of all members of this site should respect their wishes.
9. Yes it is no problem if you ask a general question even flash a part of the body. But in the 21st Century it can be done without insults. Was watching a new member female on cam. She stated that she was taking her time as this was all new to her. All she got from some idiots, was insults and directions of get them off and stick whatever up whatever. I only hope that she realises that this minority few is not what this site is about.
Now that is off my chest. hope some of the idiots who use this site read this and take note. From a genuine Male Member who is getting fed up with getting associated with the moron's.
Regards
tykeuk