Cheaters Beware

22 Oct 2005

Stories in the stories section please.
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22 Oct 2005

chips well and truly pissed on then eh?
honesty is the best policy, although i feel sorry for you this hasnt really set the tone for my saturday night too well.

22 Oct 2005

If you're going to cheat on your partner without their prior knowledge, be sure in yourself that you can live with it and won't feel you have to tell them at a later date.
They NEVER take it well and even if they don't kick you out, they will never trust you fully again

22 Oct 2005

A sobering story, and one I reckon that other members of this forum can identify with in some way or another. All the best to you and your wife.

22 Oct 2005

Wow. That was a very brave letter to write. Both my husband and I are from broken homes, and we both know how much emotionally and financially can be lost forever.
Good luck to you.

22 Oct 2005

i was going to be moralistic and say you got what you deserved, but i know that would be harsh....
I will say that i do think that some of the people who cheat on here and are brazen about it think they are bulletproof.... and try to excuse what they do by in a sense blaming their high sex drive/partners low sex drive (delete where necessary)
in the end though they are only thinking about one person.... themselves
because remember that for each action there could be a reaction.... and if it persaudes one person reading it not to cheat then it has done its job.......by i don't think it will make a jot of difference, which is the saddest part of it for me..
i have been on the other end.. the cheated one, and it is not nice
is the sex really worth the pain in the end?????
sean xxxxxx

22 Oct 2005

I would say in this case honesty was deffinatly NOT the best policy. Honesty was used to seek forgivness to make himself feel better which backfired and hurt another two innoccent people.
In certain cases what they dont know doesnt hurt them, in my oppinnion this case is one of them.

22 Oct 2005

All I am going to say is WTF??
Why have you joined to post this?
To my mind this is a pointless post, we dont know you, you're not a swinger, we all know stuff like this happens.
You seem like someone with an axe to grind and in my opinion you should take it elsewhere!
Roger the Dragon.

22 Oct 2005

glad im not the only one who thought that.
what rog said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

22 Oct 2005

its like watching casualty b4 you go out on a sat night - depressing.
oh well wheres my jack daniels - lifes a bitch.

22 Oct 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
All I am going to say is WTF??
Why have you joined to post this?
To my mind this is a pointless post, we dont know you, you're not a swinger, we all know stuff like this happens.
You seem like someone with an axe to grind and in my opinion you should take it elsewhere!
Roger the Dragon.

Yes i agree with that but kept quiet coz i keep getting wrong for being sarky or stating the obvious as i see it !

22 Oct 2005

The story did shock me a little as i always saw people who cheated as not talking their relationship serious and not really caring for the one they are supposed to love, i find it really strange that you would try to kill yourself over a woman leaving you that in my opinion you obviously cared so little about in the first place (i say that as you cheated on her), the prospect that someone can really love someone that they are cheating on is very strange to me.
My opinion on people who are married and cheating is that they want their bread buttered on both sides, a woman sat at home to cook and clean/look after kids who is untouchable to others, yet they want all the fun for playing about themselves, its a choice they make and its a case of you made your bed now lay in it.

22 Oct 2005