Club etiquette... and how to conquer first time nerves

20 Apr 2008

Excuse if this has been done before... the search button is not being my friend today!
I've had a fair number of meets since joining the site, been to a few socials and munches so am hardly a novice lol

but lately I have been thinking of visiting a club for the first time.
I've checked out their website, read reviews on here but still, I'm more than a tad nervous! redface

So, anyone got any hints or tips on how to not just survive my first club visit, but how to have a bloomin' good time :twisted: too?!
Ta muchly,
Nola xxx

20 Apr 2008

best advice is to go along but without the intention of playing have a look around and follow your instincts as to what happens and when
good luck and have fun

20 Apr 2008

Don't get drunk, many people take extra drink first time as they think it will over come their nerves, but a drunk person is very unattractive and most in the club will stay away from you, thats my advice learn from my mistake lol

20 Apr 2008

Go along and ask for some one to show you round, so you know where everything is.
Then sit, chill, watch and enjoy.
:P

20 Apr 2008

Thanks all... think I may just wait for a chaperone! redface

Or maybe I'll get all feisty and go anyway... :twisted:
Good advice though - much appreciated.
Nola x

20 Apr 2008

Maybe you should go with an equally scaredy-cat female so that you have someone to hold hands with?

20 Apr 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Maybe you should go with an equally scaredy-cat female so that you have someone to hold hands with?

I like the way your mind works.... wink

That's defo a good option!!
<<<<<< PM box thataway... should said scaredy-cat wish to know!!

20 Apr 2008

The first time we went to a club there were 16 of us there from the local chat room here on SH - It was a blast, really really good fun. Other than the going off and doing the do etc as was each persons want, the rest of it was rather like a social event only with people in towels/underwear. The jacuzzi time was great fun too.
My advice would be to go with some people you know. If its like the club we go to then its open until gone 3 AM so its great to have fun and also be able to chat with some familiar faces too.
Enjoy your time