We are a couple from the north east who are curious about the whole scene. We know there is a club fairly close by (club F), and we wondered whether it would be a good idea to go? We're just a bit worried that it may not be suitable if we're not even sure whether the scene is really for us yet? What do you guys think?

I know that the website says that it's a non pushy place, but is that really the experience of people who have been there? Also does anyone know what nights are the best to go? And any hints or tips for our first visit to a club if we do go?
Cheers,
C&K