last week we visited 3 diferent clubs (two of them being 100 miles away from us, 1 was little nearer) on their greedy girl nights. all clubs were lacking in single a handfull of guys actually in attendance, which is quite poor when theres a dozen greedy girls there requiring their question is are we that unlucky to of chosen to visit the 3 quietest clubs that week or is it the same at every club nowadays?
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Sex God
We've been going to clubs for a lot of years and have noticed over the last year or two that numbers are down at just about every club.
John & Shel
John & Shel
Sex God
Its costs such a lot for a night out at a club for a single guy these days unfortunately :-(
Sex God
Yeh plus as I have mention many times the fad of swinging from about 4-5 years ago has died out and it doesn't get anywhere near as much TV coverage. Its just not the in thing to be doing right now like it was 4-5 years ago.
The price it cost's for single guys is one of the reasons its very rare we go now.
We think its unfair and should be equal price for all entrants.
Apart from that, we can only get if we get a lift as can't drive and all the guys we know round here won't go no more as they say its to expensive for them now.
Tony ;-)
We think its unfair and should be equal price for all entrants.
Apart from that, we can only get if we get a lift as can't drive and all the guys we know round here won't go no more as they say its to expensive for them now.
Tony ;-)
Quote by Shaz_and_Tony
The price it cost's for single guys is one of the reasons its very rare we go now.
We think its unfair and should be equal price for all entrants.
Apart from that, we can only get if we get a lift as can't drive and all the guys we know round here won't go no more as they say its to expensive for them now.
Tony ;-)
Totally agree with that bit :thumbup:
Quote by anais
The price it cost's for single guys is one of the reasons its very rare we go now.
We think its unfair and should be equal price for all entrants.
Apart from that, we can only get if we get a lift as can't drive and all the guys we know round here won't go no more as they say its to expensive for them now.
Tony ;-)
Totally agree with that bit :thumbup:
Maybe Swinging Heaven should open a club and set a new standard!
How about it St3v3 ?
Tony ;-)
Sex God
Quote by anais
The price it cost's for single guys is one of the reasons its very rare we go now.
We think its unfair and should be equal price for all entrants.
Apart from that, we can only get if we get a lift as can't drive and all the guys we know round here won't go no more as they say its to expensive for them now.
Tony ;-)
Totally agree with that bit :thumbup:
Couldnt agree more. We only ever go to one club (as Im a wimp and stil not plucked up courage to go to any others) but as we dont play with couples or single ladies, we are looking for single guys, either to watch us, or if there is anyone we feel comfortable with, then possibly join in. However, we have noticed the numbers are droping and there are a lot less of singles attending the clubs. Also the ones we are attending, are also a lot older than we used to see, but that is probably due to high costs and some of the younger guys not being able to affoard it (Im probably way off mark here and just generalising unfairly).
Perhaps if clubs started to be a bit fairer with their members, and charged standard prices across the board, then more would possibly attend. singles and couples. I do understand that the high costs for single males was possibly introduced to keep numbers down, but sure there are much better ways of keeping numbers at reasonable levels, and enough clubs do couples only nights, so numbers are not a problem on these nights.
So come on clubs, start playing fair and stop asking the single guys to fork out even more money.
The charges dont seem fair I agree... But as alot of singles ladies can feel quite vunerable in a club where their sought by many they will often stay away.
Couples go in knowing their own rules etc and have each other for support, they go home with each other chatting about their night etc..
Singles ladies may or may not attend alone, or meet a mate there, they have no idea which couples play alone, together etc. Not all single women are Bi so will only want the guys, not all guys are allowed to play alone & dont wear a sign
so dont want to offend a wife by approaching. Some single ladies only want other ladies & not all want to be watched or touched by partners. They often travel home alone having no one to round off their night with. All in all it can be an easier option for a single fem to not bother going... Hence the low price I guess for encouragment.Single men... Usually(not all I no before u crucify me) just wanna get their end away and can expect single fems to act like a free prositute. 'your in the club, so you want sex' here I am!! Oh n btw.. Im doin you a huge favour by offering you my wares :sad:
There are many many respectful single men on here and Im lucky to no some of them and Oh! I wish there was a way they could be determined & pay a lower price and encourage their attendance.. but the not so respectful single guys can spoil the experience for couples & single ladies... Hence the higher price to discourage the disrespectful. Shame their all tarred with one brush :sad: or we could have one 'per person' price.
Minxie :rascal: xx
So you are saying that disrespectful guys may have less money so they overcharge guys to keep this bad bunch out?
And they charge single ladies less because they may be vulnerable?
I still think it's sexist and single guys are over charged and that's why there are less guys going to clubs now.
There is a lot better ways of getting respectful guys in your club without overcharging them.
Tony ;-)
And they charge single ladies less because they may be vulnerable?
I still think it's sexist and single guys are over charged and that's why there are less guys going to clubs now.
There is a lot better ways of getting respectful guys in your club without overcharging them.
Tony ;-)
Quote by Shaz_and_Tony
So you are saying that disrespectful guys may have less money so they overcharge guys to keep this bad bunch out?
And they charge single ladies less because they may be vulnerable?
I still think it's sexist and single guys are over charged and that's why there are less guys going to clubs now.
There is a lot better ways of getting respectful guys in your club without overcharging them.
Tony ;-)
LOL
Your interpretation only... My opinion -- disrespectful guys are usually disrespectful all round and hopefully a higher price would deterr them 
I also said there are many respectful guys etc and I wish we could fathum out a way to know who they were and so all peeps would attend and ALL would only pay a 'per person' price.Single ladies have few single lady mates who are into swinging so its more likely for them to go alone.. SOME
MAY feel vunerable so decide not to bother attending making them even rarer.. So my takeis that the price is lower to give them motivation to get together and attend.. But i don't know this for certain :dunno:It is MY opinion.
The way people interpretate peoples comments really does make me larff sometimes :lol:
Quote by Voluptuous_Minx
The way people interpretate peoples comments really does make me larff sometimes
Sorry :lol:
No matter what the reason though, myself I think its still a tad sexist,
An example, at pubs, I would assume, if/when there is trouble, a majority of fights are between guys, should they be charged more for there beer to deter the trouble makers thus encouraging more families to go?
I know that's nothing to do with swinging but it's my example and i'm going to stick with it :lol:
Tony ;-)
Sex God
I too think the price structure in clubs is unfair.
Some clubs only allow a certain ammount of s/m in, and apparently these are ones
that have been hand picked and allowed membership.
Bit silly really, as you dont want to see the same faces every time.(variety is the spice of life) and i think this maybe one reason why some clubs are in decline.
Some clubs only allow a certain ammount of s/m in, and apparently these are ones
that have been hand picked and allowed membership.
Bit silly really, as you dont want to see the same faces every time.(variety is the spice of life) and i think this maybe one reason why some clubs are in decline.
Sex God
In my opinion i think that s/f should pay, even if it's only £5, then this could be
knocked off the s/m fee.
I also dont agree with some clubs membership fees, couples and s/f dont have to pay
an initial fee, but yet again s/m do, and are made to pay each year.
I was told by one club owner, the reason they charge so much for s/m is so that
any tom-dick-harry having been out on the razz all nite, wont be able to just
waltz in and think it's a knocking shop.
But i do think the pricing structure needs seriously looking into.
knocked off the s/m fee.
I also dont agree with some clubs membership fees, couples and s/f dont have to pay
an initial fee, but yet again s/m do, and are made to pay each year.
I was told by one club owner, the reason they charge so much for s/m is so that
any tom-dick-harry having been out on the razz all nite, wont be able to just
waltz in and think it's a knocking shop.
But i do think the pricing structure needs seriously looking into.
Sexlightened
Looks like were getting into the – the pricing structure is unfair thread which has been covered before if memory serves . If, as I think is the case its supply and demand, if numbers are falling off then the price will change.
But what I really want to know is what clubs is there a lack of blokes ??? do tell – I will be there........
I guess generally if numbers of couples going falls it won’t take long for the males attendance to fall as well and if there are 5 guys to each couple then 3 less couples may show as 15 less blokes !- that’s noticeable !
I think if your after excess numbers of single guys then the best option is to say when and where your going in the club meet section as that should create interest !!
Just a thought
Alan
But what I really want to know is what clubs is there a lack of blokes ??? do tell – I will be there........
I guess generally if numbers of couples going falls it won’t take long for the males attendance to fall as well and if there are 5 guys to each couple then 3 less couples may show as 15 less blokes !- that’s noticeable !
I think if your after excess numbers of single guys then the best option is to say when and where your going in the club meet section as that should create interest !!
Just a thought
Alan