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We're going out to our first swingers club ever tonite and while we have appropriate wear for regular dance clubs and even fetish clubs, we're at a loss at what to wear, especiallly me (the little miss) on my FEET (specially if it's a long trip to the club and i'm none too good in high heels). We don't want to look like twats... Is normal clubwear ok, or should we be thinking more "easy access..."
we searched the forum archives and didn't find anything that specifically answered our question so we thought we'd ask. If we're repeating, we're very sorry. I bet this is a dumb question...
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Club Wear Question
Sex God
Depends on the club. Some will make you change from all street wear immediately, some won't.... some will require you to wear only towels or swim wear, others are more fetish based and sexy undies/fetish wear are worn quite often. If it's a sauna type club you will look over dressed in fetish gear but undies would be OK. Geezers generally just wear towels, though some do wear undies too. I would check with the club if you are unsure.
Also have a read of this:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/swingers-clubs.html
Also have a read of this:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/swingers-clubs.html
Sex God
Some clubs insist you be dressed in fetish wear before you enter, just to stop people dropping in. Im sure if you had your things in a bag and explained to the friendly gents at the door why, they would let you get changed inside.
Mind you, I wouldnt want to leave anything lying around, rofl!!!
Mind you, I wouldnt want to leave anything lying around, rofl!!!
the club emailed and said "smart casual"... at least to get in the door. As for fetish-wear, which we think is acceptible in the club, we def. do NOT want to be wearing it on our journey, nor do we want to pack a big bag...
I'm going in back slacks and a button down
She's wearing heels, short denim skirt, silk hankercheif type top w/ no bra.
we're going to look like country bumpkins, aren't we...
I'm going in back slacks and a button down
She's wearing heels, short denim skirt, silk hankercheif type top w/ no bra.
we're going to look like country bumpkins, aren't we...
Sex God
If you say which club it is, people might be able to advise further. If they are telling you what to wear to get in the door it sounds like one of those sauna type jobbies where they expect you to take your kit off anyways.......
Hey, I've got into clubs looking like a down and out, so i really wouldn't worry about it.
Hey, I've got into clubs looking like a down and out, so i really wouldn't worry about it.
Sex God
Quote by ockysweeties
the club emailed and said "smart casual"... at least to get in the door. As for fetish-wear, which we think is acceptible in the club, we def. do NOT want to be wearing it on our journey, nor do we want to pack a big bag...
I'm going in back slacks and a button down
She's wearing heels, short denim skirt, silk hankercheif type top w/ no bra.
we're going to look like country bumpkins, aren't we...
Don't sound like Country Bumpkins to me, or let me know what part of the Country the wear outfits like Mrs Ockysweeties, and I'll be there like a shot.
John
Sex God
I've never heard of it either. Shame they haven't contacted Mark then he may include them on the clubs and parties page. Looking at the pics, I would say it has a light fetish type feel. White fluffy towels it is then!
Club Lick was FANTASTIC!!! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
Highly recommended!!
There were some downsides: a little too many single men last night, but we chose a night that wasnt billed as couples/single girls so we expected it. Most of the boys were v. polite.
It's very small so it gets very very VERY warm and smokey in there, don't know if anyone else cares.
Highlights: the people who run the club: Gary, Mel, Natasha and all of the staff are Wonderfuland Friendly and very welcoming. and often found us when we were just hanging out chatting with couples who are regulars, to ask if we were having fun and enjoying ourselves.
It is really relaxing and chilled out and the upstairs playroom is extremly sexy. We weren't there long before we were joining in a lot of fun.
Thanks :rose: so much to everyone here for giving us club tips on both what to wear, what to expect, and how to arrive! The dress code was actually very casual on the whole, but fetish wear, glam wear, etc... made an appearance. It's to each their own really, which is perfect.
we got home after dawn and are still experiencing some afterglow.
:smitten: :smitten: :smitten: :smitten:
Highly recommended!!
There were some downsides: a little too many single men last night, but we chose a night that wasnt billed as couples/single girls so we expected it. Most of the boys were v. polite.
It's very small so it gets very very VERY warm and smokey in there, don't know if anyone else cares.
Highlights: the people who run the club: Gary, Mel, Natasha and all of the staff are Wonderfuland Friendly and very welcoming. and often found us when we were just hanging out chatting with couples who are regulars, to ask if we were having fun and enjoying ourselves.
It is really relaxing and chilled out and the upstairs playroom is extremly sexy. We weren't there long before we were joining in a lot of fun.
Thanks :rose: so much to everyone here for giving us club tips on both what to wear, what to expect, and how to arrive! The dress code was actually very casual on the whole, but fetish wear, glam wear, etc... made an appearance. It's to each their own really, which is perfect.
we got home after dawn and are still experiencing some afterglow.
:smitten: :smitten: :smitten: :smitten:
:P