we re very new to swinging but feel we want to take things further and visit a few clubs,the problem i have is i dont know what type of clothes to wear i suppose the obvious is sexy but i dont want to turn up in perhaps say a see through dress to find i am the only one there dressed that way,please forgive me for being so niave
I'd say whilst primarily (in my experience) they all tend to have much the same dress code, they do vary slightly from club to club. Some you'll just be wearing a towel anyway, some you'll spend the entire night fully clothed. My advice would be to specify which clubs you are thinking of visiting and then ask the opinion of members for that particular club. It seems to work for me.
you will find that most men are dressed quite normaly to begin with ... also it depends on the club you go to as some have a towel wearing policy and others its a recomendation nut mostly its normal clothes to begin with but if you want to progress to the playing areas then to dress down to either a towel or underpants try visiting the clubs page <<<<<<<< top of the page over there and look at what they ask of you in what you wear and also how you should as a single male behave ... behavour is also the same if you are the male of a couple by the way