I'm sooo horny in my 6 month of pregnancy and whilst I used to swing a lot a couple years ago I feel like a complete newby! Does anyone know how I would be received if I went to a swingers club? Is pregnancy classed as a fetish? Love Abi x
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65 views and no posts??? :shock: oh bugger it then, i'll go first 
Hiya Abi
I dunno if it actually classes as a 'fetish' but I've heard and seen plenty about guyswho find a pregnant fem a massive turn-on.... but going by your profile guys dont feature on your wish-list anyway.
I really dont know if its the same for women
I think pregnant women are incredibly beautiful generally - its very 'womanly' and natural (obviously :lol: - but I mean in an 'attractiveness' way) , but for me personally, its not a sexual thing, its an 'awww shes gonna be a mommy' thing .....in fact, its more of a turn-off to be honest, but I cant speak for others.
As for how you would be recieved in a club :dunno: i have no idea - this isnt very openminded of me at all but I think, for me, it would depend entirely on your 'activities' ... and i'm afraid i'd be more inclined to feel the need to 'look after' you than have you sitting on my face :lol:
you did ask!
Hiya Abi
I dunno if it actually classes as a 'fetish' but I've heard and seen plenty about guyswho find a pregnant fem a massive turn-on.... but going by your profile guys dont feature on your wish-list anyway.
I really dont know if its the same for women
I think pregnant women are incredibly beautiful generally - its very 'womanly' and natural (obviously :lol: - but I mean in an 'attractiveness' way) , but for me personally, its not a sexual thing, its an 'awww shes gonna be a mommy' thing .....in fact, its more of a turn-off to be honest, but I cant speak for others. As for how you would be recieved in a club :dunno: i have no idea - this isnt very openminded of me at all but I think, for me, it would depend entirely on your 'activities' ... and i'm afraid i'd be more inclined to feel the need to 'look after' you than have you sitting on my face :lol:
you did ask!
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Hiya Abi
I dunno if it actually classes as a 'fetish' but I've heard and seen plenty about guys who find a pregnant fem a massive turn-on
I really dont know if its the same for women
As for how you would be recieved in a club :dunno: i have no idea - this isnt very openminded of me at all but I think, for me, it would depend entirely on your 'activities' ... and i'm afraid i'd be more inclined to feel the need to 'look after' you than have you sitting on my face :lol:
you did ask!
oh well, that must mean i'm a fettish freak!! shit.
ops: i'm not sayin that every pregnant woman i see i start slobering down the side of my face,, oh no! but i do find it a turn on when i'm making love to a pregnant woman. especially when it ain't my little offspring inside her!
and on the plus side!! u not going to get her pregnant if she already is. Bonus, gold star to me!
Sex God
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and on the plus side!! u not going to get her pregnant if she already is. Bonus, gold star to me!
Bigger gold star if you used a condom, hmm?
Sex God
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I really dont know if its the same for women
yep that pretty much sums up my feelings too.........it's attractive but not in a sexual way, although I'm sure there are many people out there that see it as more than that.........although thinking about it I've never actually come across anyone who has told me that they found in attractive in a sexual way, but then again I've never asked so why would they tell me...... :lol:
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I really dont know if its the same for women
Very similar to my own thoughts. Of course everyone has the right to do what they desire in a situation like this but I couldn't have sex with a pregnant woman, especially if she is as far down the line as 6 months.
A look in awe at women when they are pregnant, and wonder at what seems like a miracle. The last thing that occurs to me is sex.
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I really dont know if its the same for women
I tend to agree with dark on this one too. Pregnant women to me are stunningly beautiful but not sexual.
Yes at about 6 months pregnant I was feeling as horny as hell, but I didn't feel sexy :dunno: Perhaps it was the map of the underground I was cultivating in stretchmarks across my ever growing bump or the fact that I just couldn't get comfortable in any position.
I have noticed that there is little male response on this thread. Surely there are guys out there with an opinion too?
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im talking bollocks again arent i?
Not this time.
If I see a pregnant woman I want to get her a cushion and give her back a rub. Of course it's quite possible that I've got some weird hangup about it? It would just feel wrong. I wouldn't have sex with somebody while their one week old child was in a carry-cot on the bed next to us.
Ok I'll stop thinking aloud now....
Sex God
im talking bollocks again arent i?
Not this time.
If I see a pregnant woman I want to get her a cushion and give her back a rub. Of course it's quite possible that I've got some weird hangup about it? It would just feel wrong.I wouldn't have sex with somebody while their one week old child was in a carry-cot on the bed next to us.
Ok I'll stop thinking aloud now....
Yeah like there would be a chance of that anyway...
pink x
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im talking bollocks again arent i?
Not this time.
If I see a pregnant woman I want to get her a cushion and give her back a rub. Of course it's quite possible that I've got some weird hangup about it? It would just feel wrong.I wouldn't have sex with somebody while their one week old child was in a carry-cot on the bed next to us.
Ok I'll stop thinking aloud now....
Yeah like there would be a chance of that anyway...
pink x
I merely said it to try and illustrate my own feelings on the matter. Your sarcasm adds nothing and was quite uncalled for.
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and on the plus side!! u not going to get her pregnant if she already is. Bonus, gold star to me!
Bigger gold star if you used a condom, hmm?
Sadly it is not unknown for some guys to see a 'bun in the oven' as a bareback opportunity
Whilst Argt05 may have said it in jest - there are others who don't.
Quote by PoloLady
and on the plus side!! u not going to get her pregnant if she already is. Bonus, gold star to me!
Bigger gold star if you used a condom, hmm?
Sadly it is not unknown for some guys to see a 'bun in the oven' as a bareback opportunity
Whilst Argt05 may have said it in jest - there are others who don't.
i suppose next you will be telling me that its false that a woman cant get pregnant if she has sex standing up
some people....
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im talking bollocks again arent i?
Not this time.
If I see a pregnant woman I want to get her a cushion and give her back a rub. Of course it's quite possible that I've got some weird hangup about it? It would just feel wrong.I wouldn't have sex with somebody while their one week old child was in a carry-cot on the bed next to us.
Ok I'll stop thinking aloud now....
Yeah like there would be a chance of that anyway...
pink x
I merely said it to try and illustrate my own feelings on the matter. Your sarcasm adds nothing and was quite uncalled for.
I read it in a different way - I saw pinks comments as saying most women wouldn't have sex on their mind within one week of giving birth ( ? )
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I read it in a different way - I saw pinks comments as saying most women wouldn't have sex on their mind within one week of giving birth ( ? )
So your interpretation is more accurate than my own?
Which may be the case, but I'd rather hear it from the original poster.Anyway I could be shagging the father.. it would be his child too.
Quote by essex34m
and on the plus side!! u not going to get her pregnant if she already is. Bonus, gold star to me!
Bigger gold star if you used a condom, hmm?
Sadly it is not unknown for some guys to see a 'bun in the oven' as a bareback opportunity
Whilst Argt05 may have said it in jest - there are others who don't.
i suppose next you will be telling me that its false that a woman cant get pregnant if she has sex standing up
.
Not if you're only imagining it at the bar
Sex God
im talking bollocks again arent i?
Not this time.
If I see a pregnant woman I want to get her a cushion and give her back a rub. Of course it's quite possible that I've got some weird hangup about it? It would just feel wrong.I wouldn't have sex with somebody while their one week old child was in a carry-cot on the bed next to us.
Ok I'll stop thinking aloud now....
Yeah like there would be a chance of that anyway...
pink x
I merely said it to try and illustrate my own feelings on the matter. Your sarcasm adds nothing and was quite uncalled for.
I read it in a different way - I saw pinks comments as saying most women wouldn't have sex on their mind within one week of giving birth ( ? )
Sorry Kiss, it wasn't mean to to be an offensive or sarcastic comment, but more a comment that probably most post natal ladies can appreciate, a week after having a child is an incredibly emotional time and bloody sore in most places so my mind was thinking medical practicalities here. Sex was the very last thing on my mind for months after.
But to answer Abi's original question, personally me and my husband feel pregnancy is beautiful and amazing, but not sexy as such. I felt extremely horny throughout my 2nd pregnancy and had to sort myself out a lot to satisfy the lust...howver it was a physical hormonal need rather than a sexual need if that makes sense. Personally I wouldn't mix a club scene and pregnancy for fear of infections etc. if you were considering playing. Good luck in your pregnancy though, a special time.
pink x
Try being heavily pregnant with twins both over 6 lbs, think I was more of a fascination than someone you'd want sex with :lol2:
Never mind the fact I couldn't even find my 'bits' :lol2:
Oh the benifits of a c-section :giggle:
Never mind the fact I couldn't even find my 'bits' :lol2:
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Sex was the very last thing on my mind for months after.
Oh the benifits of a c-section :giggle:
Quote by Kiss
I read it in a different way - I saw pinks comments as saying most women wouldn't have sex on their mind within one week of giving birth ( ? )
So your interpretation is more accurate than my own?
Which may be the case, but I'd rather hear it from the original poster.Anyway I could be shagging the father.. it would be his child too.
I was just offering an alternative reading of the post that meant your response of "Your sarcasm adds nothing and was quite uncalled for." may have been uncalled for. :wink: I didn't see it as more accurate than your interpretation and that's why I added ' ( ? ) ' to the end.
And for the father - I too didn't have sex on my mind (for a change) for the first few weeks -- it was hard enough to do the normal things like eating/sleeping/etc
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I was just offering an alternative reading of the post that meant your response of "Your sarcasm adds nothing and was quite uncalled for." may have been uncalled for.
It's been sorted via PM, as for any other thoughts on this thread I'm going to :gagged:
