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Hi folks, I'm from Bedfordshire and I've been on here for a month or 2 now and I see that large cocks are constantly in demand among couples. Having seen a good deal of large cocks I wanted to know now what you would consider a 'large cock', ie what actual size range would you categorise as 'large'? I'm 6.5 almost 7" with a 1.5" girth. Is that large or average?
Depends on who is doing the measuring and where they measure from.
Also large is all very well, but does the guy know what to do with it??!! :giggle:
Some times smaller with some who knows what they are doing may be better! lol
Many people are going to give to serveral different answers to this, as really there is no right or wrong size. (IMO of course)
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Depends on who is doing the measuring and where they measure from.
Also large is all very well, but does the guy know what to do with it??!! :giggle:
Some times smaller with some who knows what they are doing may be better! lol
Many people are going to give to serveral different answers to this, as really there is no right or wrong size. (IMO of course)

:thumbup: I totally agree that its more about what you do with it than how big it is.
I found this though and thought it may help you decide for yourself.

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I believe bioke offers an in-home rating service, he will even issue you with a certificate :rascal:
Never had a girl look disappointed when it comes out, so Im OK with mine ;)
Here is a VVWE wikipedia entry - should be long enough to satisfy everyone. lol
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I believe bioke offers an in-home rating service, he will even issue you with a certificate :rascal:
Never had a girl look disappointed when it comes out, so Im OK with mine ;)

And I'm with bioke... not too keen on Size Queens but I do like their boyfriends :rascal:
Answered this one a few weeks ago (and seems like at least once a month)
You (if your measurement is correct) are average
I am average, I like being average, the women I play with never complain it is too small, more importantly they never refuse me on the grounds that it is too big, my friend who is above average often gets turned down for full sex because he is too big.
Many women like big ones, they have had kids and thier pelvice muscles/bones whatever it is have moved to accommodate a baby, some are just bucket fannies by nature and need a big one and some just like to be "stretched" during sex.
It does not matter, we will always find what we want sooner or later
I've found, from my own experiences, that size doesn't make any difference insofar as getting a shag goes.......I just get it out and then shag em while they're still incapacitated with the giggles.
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Many women like big ones, they have had kids and thier pelvice muscles/bones whatever it is have moved to accommodate a baby, some are just bucket fannies by nature and need a big one and some just like to be "stretched" during sex.

So when a woman has had a baby she gets a bucket fanny and needs a bigger cock? What a load of shite and so untrue!
When a woman has a baby, her bones don't move permanently. The pelvis is in 3 parts attached by ligaments which stretch to let the baby out. The pelvis then goes back to its original form and the size of a woman's pelvis has absolutely nothing to do with how tight her fanny is. The pelvic floor muscles also stretch during childbirth but if the woman does pelvic floor exercises they strengthen again and she can still be tight. If she chooses not to do these exercises she will pee herself lots!!!
I've had 3 kids and sure as hell don't have a 'bucket fanny'!
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Many women like big ones, they have had kids and thier pelvice muscles/bones whatever it is have moved to accommodate a baby, some are just bucket fannies by nature and need a big one and some just like to be "stretched" during sex.

So when a woman has had a baby she gets a bucket fanny and needs a bigger cock? What a load of shite and so untrue!
When a woman has a baby, her bones don't move permanently. The pelvis is in 3 parts attached by ligaments which stretch to let the baby out. The pelvis then goes back to its original form and the size of a woman's pelvis has absolutely nothing to do with how tight her fanny is. The pelvic floor muscles also stretch during childbirth but if the woman does pelvic floor exercises they strengthen again and she can still be tight. If she chooses not to do these exercises she will pee herself lots!!!
I've had 3 kids and sure as hell don't have a 'bucket fanny'!
You are entitled to your opinion, whatever it is I will respect it, I cetainly will not insult you or swear at you, the truth is, women like men come in all shapes and sizes, some have long legs some have short legs, kinda like men, some men have large cocks some have small ones, some have large fannies, some don't, some will resume original shape after childbirth (especially if you exercise during pregnancy) some will not, some will be tighter because nature made them that way. Some women have bucket fannies, some women have tight fannies, some men have big dicks some have small (get the thinking on this one) some women no matter what thier size like a cock that will push them to thier limits and hit all the sides and stretch them, personal choice comes into most things in life.
This is what I believe, I have the right to believe it as my personal opinion and anyone can put thier own personal opinion here, insulting people with differing opinions certainly says more about you than it does about me, I don't talk shit, I give my personal opinion I do not put words in other peoples mouths and turn what they have said into something else and I say it in a respectfull way.
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Many women like big ones, they have had kids and thier pelvice muscles/bones whatever it is have moved to accommodate a baby, some are just bucket fannies by nature and need a big one and some just like to be "stretched" during sex.

So when a woman has had a baby she gets a bucket fanny and needs a bigger cock? What a load of shite and so untrue!
When a woman has a baby, her bones don't move permanently. The pelvis is in 3 parts attached by ligaments which stretch to let the baby out. The pelvis then goes back to its original form and the size of a woman's pelvis has absolutely nothing to do with how tight her fanny is. The pelvic floor muscles also stretch during childbirth but if the woman does pelvic floor exercises they strengthen again and she can still be tight. If she chooses not to do these exercises she will pee herself lots!!!
I've had 3 kids and sure as hell don't have a 'bucket fanny'!
You are entitled to your opinion, whatever it is I will respect it, I cetainly will not insult you or swear at you, the truth is, women like men come in all shapes and sizes, some have long legs some have short legs, kinda like men, some men have large cocks some have small ones, some have large fannies, some don't, some will resume original shape after childbirth (especially if you exercise during pregnancy) some will not, some will be tighter because nature made them that way. Some women have bucket fannies, some women have tight fannies, some men have big dicks some have small (get the thinking on this one) some women no matter what thier size like a cock that will push them to thier limits and hit all the sides and stretch them, personal choice comes into most things in life.
This is what I believe, I have the right to believe it as my personal opinion and anyone can put thier own personal opinion here, insulting people with differing opinions certainly says more about you than it does about me, I don't talk shit, I give my personal opinion I do not put words in other peoples mouths and turn what they have said into something else and I say it in a respectfull way.

I think you've taken what I said the wrong way and of course you are entitled to your opinion. I know that some women have baggy bits and shagging some of them can resemble chucking a sausage up the mersey tunnel lol
You basically said that women who have had babies need a bigger cock to fill them, I was just saying that this is not true which is fact not opinion.
I gave that as one instance, I could be wrong about it, I am neither a doctor or a woman but in my many years on this planet my opinion was formed by listening to what some women have said about themselves and I did say that was just one group of people amongst a number of different reasons why some women prefer large wilies. Not least there are a lot of men who "get off" on watching thier partners take huge ones and another group of women who love the experience of big ones as part of our wonderfull world of sexual fantasy, or in other words there are lots no lots of reasons why large dicks are often requested.
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I gave that as one instance, I could be wrong about it, I am neither a doctor or a woman but in my many years on this planet my opinion was formed by listening to what some women have said about themselves and I did say that was just one group of people amongst a number of different reasons why some women prefer large wilies. Not least there are a lot of men who "get off" on watching thier partners take huge ones and another group of women who love the experience of big ones as part of our wonderfull world of sexual fantasy, or in other words there are lots no lots of reasons why large dicks are often requested.

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mine is the size it is !!! i get a great deal of pleasure out of it as do some others
so for me its not about the size its the pleasure it brings lol
Thank you for all the rich answers people, I appreciate it ^_^ So I guess that puts me in the 'average' category, thanks MidsCouple24. I wish you all the best and if you want to chat I'm always here. Thanks again ^_^
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Never had a girl look disappointed when it comes out, so Im OK with mine ;)

How many boys have you disappointed though? :rascal:
;)
More than a mouthful make me feel inadequate, does that make me a bit of a size queen? lol
so it's all dependent on where you measure is it. Ok, mine's somewhere around 14 inches (that's half a metre in new money I think).
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Ok, mine's somewhere around 14 inches

I think you're measuring your thigh there :shock:
lol It's like in "The Wizard of Oz" ..... the ruler was magic!
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lol It's like in "The Wizard of Oz" ..... the ruler was magic!

Wounded to the core!
I thought the technique was to measure the underneath, starting at the arsehole.
Never trust statistics.
I don't know what my partners think of mine though it's fairly average. But I hope they take the same attitude that I do. I like playing with what my partners have, not some concept of body shape I think they ought to have. I think some of this is about visual aesthetics, not sexuality and akin to men who think an ideal woman should have large breasts.
That bit about men preferring big boobies.
It's a puzzler for me, because most men I know and chat too, or rather those that are willing to chat with me (a much smaller number than the number I talk to) tell me they agree with my own personal choice ........
Walking round town and spotting a fine cleavage with a hint of firmness, it's like watching the ice cream man as he layers your first ice cream as a kid, but when it gets down to actually playing with some, mmmmmmmm, oh yea errr when you actually play with them an awfull lot of men, and I am guessing more men, prefer smaller boobs .... am I right ? what do you guys say
Personally I like them like this (.)(.) not like this ( . ) ( . ) giggles
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Personally I like them like this (.)(.) not like this ( . ) ( . ) giggles

rotflmao
I would agree with you, for most people ample, firm breasts are a wow factor and a symbol, rather than a personal preference. I guess it's exactly the same as with larger cocks, though a few seek them out specifically, most (including very straight men) are drawn to the visual, the idea of the phallus. As for breasts on SH chatroom cams... I have noticed that appreciation is not so much about the size or even the shape - it is all about the nipples! lol
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oh yea errr when you actually play with them an awfull lot of men, and I am guessing more men, prefer smaller boobs .... am I right ? what do you guys say

I like my variety so Im just glad they come in all shapes, sizes and colours! I do like the look of my cock squeezed between a fair sized pair though ;)
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Never had a girl look disappointed when it comes out, so Im OK with mine ;)

How many boys have you disappointed though? :rascal:
;)
Just the one, thats only because I wont let him near it :lol2:
How many boys have you disappointed though? :rascal:
;)
Just the one, thats only because I wont let him near it :lol2:
rotflmao
Reminds me of a compliment I once got, we were playing with a couple, we know them well and know that the male is very bisexual, he is a black guy and always compliments me on my cock, now straight I may be but a compliment is a compliment wink
I have a penis...it is what it is,size is irrelevant there is little I can and nothing I'm prepared to do about it
It's not the size of the breast but the shape
If you are that concerned with your size not your ability, then maybe this isn't the right site for you?
I once worked with a guy so hung his fantastically sexy wife rarely had sex with him, maybe twice a year! They were very open about it because his girth, not length really hurt her. They were in love and made do with oral and mutual masturbation.
My cock is average, my personality is far hiher, because of one simple thing.
Nobody in 'the real world' walks into a bar, flops there cock out and says 'hi, who wants me?'. No we have to work on it with looks charm and humour. So why is swinging different?
Yes some people want to go as big as possible, fair enough, but there is more than enough life for us average guys.
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Never had a girl look disappointed when it comes out, so Im OK with mine ;)
How many boys have you disappointed though? :rascal:
;)

Just the one, thats only because I wont let him near it :lol2:
... slowly, slowly, catchy monkey ;)
You'll be a manwhore when I've finished with you, you big Lancashire puddin' innocent
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You'll be a manwhore when I've finished with you, you big Lancashire puddin' innocent

When you've finished with him?!
Whatever happened to sharing? :twisted: