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And some that are grateful we don't
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Dude, if you're worried enough about getting your cock sucked to pay attention to a 7 page thread about it, you're never gonna be happy until it happens.
If you're really that bothered your girl says no, either:
1. She doesn't like giving head. You're not gonna change that. Leave her
2. She's using it to get power over you. She's a bitch. Leave her.
Earlier in this thread, people have described my response as being selfish and sex obsessed. Yes, I am.
Your comments about disliking women being on top, doggy style etc do make me think perhaps this isn't as one sided as it first appeared. Maybe you should examine your own attitude more. If a girl told me "my guy wont let me go on top, but its the only way I can come easily", I would say the same - leave him.
Note I didn't say "threaten to leave" - that's emotional blackmail, and will get you nowhere. Just make your mind up and get on with it.
Life is too short to spend being mutually unhappy with someone you're not compatible with, just for the sake of being nice.
Yes, successful relationships are about negotiation and compromise, but unless your priorities align you are wasting everyone's time. You will just end up resentful.
I'm sure after this thread you feel no further forward than before you started it. Well that's what you get for asking a bunch of strangers who know nothing about your
situation apart from what you choose to tell them.
Have a nice day.
If you're really that bothered your girl says no, either:
1. She doesn't like giving head. You're not gonna change that. Leave her
2. She's using it to get power over you. She's a bitch. Leave her.
Earlier in this thread, people have described my response as being selfish and sex obsessed. Yes, I am.
Your comments about disliking women being on top, doggy style etc do make me think perhaps this isn't as one sided as it first appeared. Maybe you should examine your own attitude more. If a girl told me "my guy wont let me go on top, but its the only way I can come easily", I would say the same - leave him.
Note I didn't say "threaten to leave" - that's emotional blackmail, and will get you nowhere. Just make your mind up and get on with it.
Life is too short to spend being mutually unhappy with someone you're not compatible with, just for the sake of being nice.
Yes, successful relationships are about negotiation and compromise, but unless your priorities align you are wasting everyone's time. You will just end up resentful.
I'm sure after this thread you feel no further forward than before you started it. Well that's what you get for asking a bunch of strangers who know nothing about your
situation apart from what you choose to tell them.
Have a nice day.
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I just get bored when a girl is on top. I like to be in charge and fuck a girl like an animal until she starts crying and stuff. I am quite dom. Maybe thats why I like head so much.
But my new girlfriend is very dom as well so we kinda clash there. She loves going on top. Oh fuck it, I'm doomed.
Yes, with that sort of attitude towards women, you quite probably are! Yuck.
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And some that are grateful we don't
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What a great thread , anyway for my two pennyworth after 30 of marrage my wife has just discovers the joys of a BJ (proberbly something to do with with the well hung african guy who visits her when i am offshore ), you cant force someone to do things they dont want to do , let her be free and she will decide for herself when she is ready
Oooh, I've just remembered something.
My ex wife rarely, if ever, gave blow jobs. When we split she went through a few guys and we were chatting a couple of weeks later and she said that she was really into them now.
Maybe all it needs is for her to experience a bit of casual sex, with relationship sex sometimes you don't want to do something that sets a precident, just in case you don't like it, whereas with casual sex it don't matter, you can just not tell anyone about it.
Chris.
PS Bugger... MARK where's that ignore button, I keep forgetting to ignore this thread!
PPS I wasn't saying bugger Mark either.
My ex wife rarely, if ever, gave blow jobs. When we split she went through a few guys and we were chatting a couple of weeks later and she said that she was really into them now.
Maybe all it needs is for her to experience a bit of casual sex, with relationship sex sometimes you don't want to do something that sets a precident, just in case you don't like it, whereas with casual sex it don't matter, you can just not tell anyone about it.
Chris.
PS Bugger... MARK where's that ignore button, I keep forgetting to ignore this thread!
PPS I wasn't saying bugger Mark either.
Good grief, is this thread still going?
I will put it my own opinion then - I have been told by some men that I am really good at blow jobs, a couple have said I was the best, but others haven't seemed quite so keen and have preceded to tell my what I'm doing wrong!
That must mean that what suits one person doesn't suit another because I think I always do it the same
I will put it my own opinion then - I have been told by some men that I am really good at blow jobs, a couple have said I was the best, but others haven't seemed quite so keen and have preceded to tell my what I'm doing wrong!
That must mean that what suits one person doesn't suit another because I think I always do it the same
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Good grief, is this thread still going?
I will put it my own opinion then - I have been told by some men that I am really good at blow jobs, a couple have said I was the best, but others haven't seemed quite so keen and have preceded to tell my what I'm doing wrong!
That must mean that what suits one person doesn't suit another because I think I always do it the same
The best post in this thread.
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Good grief, is this thread still going?
I will put it my own opinion then - I have been told by some men that I am really good at blow jobs, a couple have said I was the best, but others haven't seemed quite so keen and have preceded to tell my what I'm doing wrong!
That must mean that what suits one person doesn't suit another because I think I always do it the same
as you're local can i volunteer to be official SH testdriver, after all- practice makes perfect :rascal:
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Well as the offical SH trucker fluffer (TM Eagerslut) I will have to ask the committee what they think
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if it helps with my appointment to the post, im willing to check the technique of all the SH midlands ladies- or any others passing through
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Good grief, is this thread still going?
I will put it my own opinion then - I have been told by some men that I am really good at blow jobs, a couple have said I was the best, but others haven't seemed quite so keen and have preceded to tell my what I'm doing wrong!
That must mean that what suits one person doesn't suit another because I think I always do it the same
How you like your oral sex definitely a very personal thing - that's one reason I'm quite happy with the idea of sticking with one person for the rest of my life... it's an opportunity to teach them how to get it _perfect_ - and reach a kind of blowjob nirvana, if you will
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Were are them car keys nothing like getting some good head.
Simple answer is if your not happy(sounds like she might not be to happy either) then do something(get on with that talk), if that something is leaving, then do so. Sounds to me that you both haven't learned enough about sex/relationships to be right for each other, then again I dont now you.
I haven't dumped her yet. Like you guys say maybe it just takes some time. Otherwise the sex is good and we have a laugh.
My girlfriend before this one keeps texting me inviting me out and she gave great head all the time. Whenever I told her to. It is hard to turn that down but I am exclusive with my current girlfriend.
I was speaking to a girl in a club on Thursday and she asked me to take her number...and you do kind of thing maybe I should just cut my losses move to the next girl and see what that is like.
I do really like my girlfriend though. She has the fittest body ever, she is smart. Like you guys say though kind of worried if she is not all that interested in me...
Ah well. At least the football season has started again. Wish relationships were simple!
My girlfriend before this one keeps texting me inviting me out and she gave great head all the time. Whenever I told her to. It is hard to turn that down but I am exclusive with my current girlfriend.
I was speaking to a girl in a club on Thursday and she asked me to take her number...and you do kind of thing maybe I should just cut my losses move to the next girl and see what that is like.
I do really like my girlfriend though. She has the fittest body ever, she is smart. Like you guys say though kind of worried if she is not all that interested in me...
Ah well. At least the football season has started again. Wish relationships were simple!
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I haven't dumped her yet. Like you guys say maybe it just takes some time. Otherwise the sex is good and we have a laugh.
My girlfriend before this one keeps texting me inviting me out and she gave great head all the time. Whenever I told her to. It is hard to turn that down but I am exclusive with my current girlfriend.
I was speaking to a girl in a club on Thursday and she asked me to take her number...and you do kind of thing maybe I should just cut my losses move to the next girl and see what that is like.
I do really like my girlfriend though. She has the fittest body ever, she is smart. Like you guys say though kind of worried if she is not all that interested in me...
Ah well. At least the football season has started again. Wish relationships were simple!
so why did you split up with the queen of blowjobs?
sounds like you're looking for the perfect woman (get to the back of the long, long queue)
so it's time to work out what was good/bad with her
what is good/bad with the current one
do you actually want a girlfriend or just the sex element
the perfect woman doesn't exist, just like any woman will tell you the perfect guy doesn't exist. but if you find one thats 95% perfect i'd say you've hit the jackpot
Hey meat,
Yeah I am looking for the perfect woman. I seem to date so many girls but they are never 100% perfect.
This might seem silly but I have a list of things I want:
- super hot model looks
- smart (Phd preferably, minimum 1st class degree)
- rich or at least earns same as me
- cultured, speaks more than one language
- well travelled
- worships me as a god
My current girlfriend ticks four of those checkboxes which is pretty good. When I think about it like that makes me want to put ore effort in and get over this.
I split with the "Queen of Head" because, to be honest, my current girlfriend asked me out and she is better looking. Still really like the Queen though.
Yeah I am looking for the perfect woman. I seem to date so many girls but they are never 100% perfect.
This might seem silly but I have a list of things I want:
- super hot model looks
- smart (Phd preferably, minimum 1st class degree)
- rich or at least earns same as me
- cultured, speaks more than one language
- well travelled
- worships me as a god
My current girlfriend ticks four of those checkboxes which is pretty good. When I think about it like that makes me want to put ore effort in and get over this.
I split with the "Queen of Head" because, to be honest, my current girlfriend asked me out and she is better looking. Still really like the Queen though.
Hateit,
I may have missed it, but have you said how old you are, you come across as having a very... old? ... attitude towards sex, that it is something that people do to each other, rather than something to be enjoyed and explored togetherr.
You give the impression of being sort of stuck in a rut, looking to restrict your current sex life into boundaries based purely on what you have enjoyed in the past, rather than exploring new adventurous ways of mutual enjoyment.
Perhaps it is time you looked to enjoy something new, and as you currently appear to be focussed on what you want, perhaps if you put that aside and looked to have a sex life based upon what your girlfriend wants?
lhk
Kat
I may have missed it, but have you said how old you are, you come across as having a very... old? ... attitude towards sex, that it is something that people do to each other, rather than something to be enjoyed and explored togetherr.
You give the impression of being sort of stuck in a rut, looking to restrict your current sex life into boundaries based purely on what you have enjoyed in the past, rather than exploring new adventurous ways of mutual enjoyment.
Perhaps it is time you looked to enjoy something new, and as you currently appear to be focussed on what you want, perhaps if you put that aside and looked to have a sex life based upon what your girlfriend wants?
lhk
Kat
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well you don't want much do you?
and as for choosing a girlfriend on looks alone, thats a bit shallow mate.
sure, you need physical attraction but if you're after a long term partner it's a bit of a stupid outlook. i met claudia schiffer several years ago, couldn't wait to get away from her- so what if she's considered to be one of the worlds most beutiful women (which sh'e not), her attitude was far from attractive.
so looks are not the main basis for a long term relationship, if you are with this girl for a bit of fun, why the fuck are you wasting your time on here asking questions- dump her, move onto the next one, then the next one. just remember that sometime in the future you may realise that you've made a monumental fuck up and she was as close to perfection as you will ever get but you didn't spend the time to find out, i've done similar in the past as still wonder 'what if'
so my advice would be, consider what you really want in a woman and i mean 40 years into the future, cos it's a long time mate and neither you or her will have these supermodel looks anymore. are you going to keep updating your woman every few years (and risk getting the ones that won't blow you tool on demand) its a big decision, maybe its time to work it out now?
and as for choosing a girlfriend on looks alone, thats a bit shallow mate.
sure, you need physical attraction but if you're after a long term partner it's a bit of a stupid outlook. i met claudia schiffer several years ago, couldn't wait to get away from her- so what if she's considered to be one of the worlds most beutiful women (which sh'e not), her attitude was far from attractive.
so looks are not the main basis for a long term relationship, if you are with this girl for a bit of fun, why the fuck are you wasting your time on here asking questions- dump her, move onto the next one, then the next one. just remember that sometime in the future you may realise that you've made a monumental fuck up and she was as close to perfection as you will ever get but you didn't spend the time to find out, i've done similar in the past as still wonder 'what if'
so my advice would be, consider what you really want in a woman and i mean 40 years into the future, cos it's a long time mate and neither you or her will have these supermodel looks anymore. are you going to keep updating your woman every few years (and risk getting the ones that won't blow you tool on demand) its a big decision, maybe its time to work it out now?
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Hey meat,
Yeah I am looking for the perfect woman. I seem to date so many girls but they are never 100% perfect.
This might seem silly but I have a list of things I want:
- super hot model looks
- smart (Phd preferably, minimum 1st class degree)
- rich or at least earns same as me
- cultured, speaks more than one language
- well travelled
- worships me as a god
My current girlfriend ticks four of those checkboxes which is pretty good. When I think about it like that makes me want to put ore effort in and get over this.
I split with the "Queen of Head" because, to be honest, my current girlfriend asked me out and she is better looking. Still really like the Queen though.
Can anyone else smell the BS from here?
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Hey meat,
Yeah I am looking for the perfect woman. I seem to date so many girls but they are never 100% perfect.
This might seem silly but I have a list of things I want:
- super hot model looks - Yep
- smart (Phd preferably, minimum 1st class degree) - yep
- rich or at least earns same as me - yep
- cultured, speaks more than one language - yip
- well travelled - yep
- worships me as a god - nah
Guess that counts you out then HIOLI
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