if your parents ,best friend or any member of your family /friends found out about your swinging lifestyle
would you come clean
: :?: :?:we would after all its our thing
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Quote by daveandmandywigan
Probably been done before but ..................
if your parents ,best friend or any member of your family /friends found out about your swinging lifestyle
would you come clean
we would after all its our thing
Errr well I might have no choice!!
I suppose my parents & my neighbours would be the people I'd be most embarassed with if they knew. They are all fairly old & I get along with them fine, but they would be likely to be shocked & disapprove strongly.Depending on how much they knew, I would attempt to impress upon them that it is much more about friendship
& far less about actual sex....... Well I wouldn't have to lie about the lack of sex :( :( Quote by daveandmandywigan
Probably been done before but ..................
if your parents ,best friend or any member of your family /friends found out about your swinging lifestyle
would you come clean
we would after all its our thing
Friends Id tell, my father and brother, grandmother etc, Id tell, but my mother, ohhhhh NO! :eeek:
Quote by daveandmandywigan
Probably been done before but ..................
if your parents ,best friend or any member of your family /friends found out about your swinging lifestyle
would you come clean
we would after all its our thing
errr. i'd have to lie like hell then move cities and change my name
My family would dis own me
My work mates would be mortified
and my friends would just try and mucsle in and you wouldn't want them on here
My older sister would be surprised, but ok it she found out about me. She's done a bit of swinging in the past so would be no big deal. 
My brother has hinted at the fact that he knows "something", but I've not actually admitted anything :shock: He'd be cool about it though I'm sure.
My younger sister would be mortified and immediately leap upon her soapbox and lecture me about how disgusting it all is
:jagsatwork:
If any of our sons found out, I'd die of shame and so would Jon
This almost happened last week when we were out dogging and one of our son's drove into the car park with his fiancee :shock:
Luckily they didn't see us and as they left for a walk along the beach, we drove off at 100 mph into the sunset . . . .
Most other people I know would never believe this timid little mouse who works in an office, could ever do such things
I don't actually give a hoot what other people think about me or this lifestyle, but at the same time, I don't want them all to find out - not all at the same time anyway
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If my parent's were still alive, they would probably dis-own me, or blame it on Jon for corrupting their daughter :roll:
Tracy-Jayne
My brother has hinted at the fact that he knows "something", but I've not actually admitted anything :shock: He'd be cool about it though I'm sure.
My younger sister would be mortified and immediately leap upon her soapbox and lecture me about how disgusting it all is
:jagsatwork: If any of our sons found out, I'd die of shame and so would Jon
This almost happened last week when we were out dogging and one of our son's drove into the car park with his fiancee :shock: Luckily they didn't see us and as they left for a walk along the beach, we drove off at 100 mph into the sunset . . . .
Most other people I know would never believe this timid little mouse who works in an office, could ever do such things
I don't actually give a hoot what other people think about me or this lifestyle, but at the same time, I don't want them all to find out - not all at the same time anyway
ops:If my parent's were still alive, they would probably dis-own me, or blame it on Jon for corrupting their daughter :roll:
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by RedHot
If any of our sons found out, I'd die of shame and so would Jon
I would think that this has to be the absolute killer :shock: . I mean its bad enough anyone else knowing if they are the sort of people who would be shocked etc, but how would most children understand, after all that most parents would tell them about being careful, don't just sleep with anyone, respect yourself etc. To me, as a single bloke with no kids, that has to be the worst!!! :doh:
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Anyone who has actually come clean to their kids wish to comment....
Quote by jlebbon
If any of our sons found out, I'd die of shame and so would Jon
Tracy-Jayne
no thats a sight i would of loved to of seen!!!!!!
JGL
Ooh! You nasty little toe-rag you. Fancy enjoying our horror and embarrasment
Come over here 
:twisted: Luckily I didn't have a BJ on the go at the time or I would have bitten the end off :eeek:
Quote by HungryP
I would think that this has to be the absolute killer :shock: . .
It certainly was! We couldn't believe it :shock:
I'm surprised they didn't turn around and look when we shot out of the park, burning rubber all the way
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Tracy-Jayne
Quote by RedHot
If any of our sons found out, I'd die of shame and so would Jon
Tracy-Jayne
no thats a sight i would of loved to of seen!!!!!!
JGL
Ooh! You nasty little toe-rag you. Fancy enjoying our horror and embarrasment
Come over here :twisted: Luckily I didn't have a BJ on the go at the time or I would have bitten the end off :eeek:
Tracy-Jayne
Just the sight on yuor face, it would of been a picture in its self! lucky there were no copper lurking as ya left otherwsie ya could of got down on the way out! then try and explain that to ya kids!!!!
JGL
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well i'm single, and a bloke, so a bit different to some of you i guess.
my sister already knows i've done the munches and party thing, and it's no big deal. i think she's quite intrigued actually, cos i reckon she's a closet bifem anyways! she asked to see some piccies from blues but there weren't too many i could show her! :lol2:
my friends? well the last girl i was kinda seeing felt it was hugely important to tell every single person in the whole wide world, that shock, horror, i was a member of the site. can't say as it's done me any harm there!
my ex-colleagues used to browse the site at work, and that's how i found it. some of them might even still be here themselves for all i know. they've no room to talk have they?
me mum? well i wouldn't be ecstatic about it, cos i doubt she'd approve, but i don't think it would be that big a deal for her, so it's not a massive worry. if i was in a couple and swinging she might have a bit more to say about it! still wouldn't like her to see me in a skirt doing things, but then she's me mam.
neil x x x ;)
my sister already knows i've done the munches and party thing, and it's no big deal. i think she's quite intrigued actually, cos i reckon she's a closet bifem anyways! she asked to see some piccies from blues but there weren't too many i could show her! :lol2:
my friends? well the last girl i was kinda seeing felt it was hugely important to tell every single person in the whole wide world, that shock, horror, i was a member of the site. can't say as it's done me any harm there!
my ex-colleagues used to browse the site at work, and that's how i found it. some of them might even still be here themselves for all i know. they've no room to talk have they?
me mum? well i wouldn't be ecstatic about it, cos i doubt she'd approve, but i don't think it would be that big a deal for her, so it's not a massive worry. if i was in a couple and swinging she might have a bit more to say about it! still wouldn't like her to see me in a skirt doing things, but then she's me mam.
neil x x x ;)
