We all have our comfort zones....things we feel comfortable doing and feel safe when we do them.....and the smae is true in swinging and sex.
Have you since becoming a swinger ventured out of your comfort zone and done something you would never have dreamed of doing?
did you enjoy it, or did it weird you out completely?
are you to afraid to move away from what you know, so when people ask you just flat out refuse (im not suggesting anything about being forced to do what you dont want here, just not being open to suggestion to try something new)
if you dont want to venture out of what feels safe, what is it that stops you?
Is it a fear you wont like it, a fear that its just /wrong (because of preconceived beliefs), do you think you wont be any good at it, or that you will apppear a fool because you dont know much about it? or is it just simply a feeling of not being in control?
or are you just of the mind "to hell with it, everythings to be tried once, and tried again if it feels good!"
i had an experience recently (which I wont divulge) which wasnt traumatic, but did give me cause to try and analyse why I reacted as I did.
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More than willing to go out of my comfort zone.
Have done it lots of times and been introduced to all sorts of rude, lewd and illegal acts all of which were interesting in one way or another.
I definitely believe that everyone should shake themselves up once in a while and go somewhere they've never been before (and I don't mean a satnav is needed!).
Have done it lots of times and been introduced to all sorts of rude, lewd and illegal acts all of which were interesting in one way or another.
I definitely believe that everyone should shake themselves up once in a while and go somewhere they've never been before (and I don't mean a satnav is needed!).
Sex God
Yeah, I think to an extent I have definitely moved out of my comfort zone since I joined the site. There are certain things I won't do on a meet, partly from a safety/trust aspect and partly because I just don't like them!
One thing that this site has probably reinforced for me is my fascination with fetishes. I have become much more interested in exploring both my own and other people's fetishes. In this respect I guess I do have a 'try anything once' kind of attitude.
I think it's good to explore, to try, to learn. But ultimately you have to enjoy it, so I draw lines at things I know I don't enjoy.
Nola x
One thing that this site has probably reinforced for me is my fascination with fetishes. I have become much more interested in exploring both my own and other people's fetishes. In this respect I guess I do have a 'try anything once' kind of attitude.
I think it's good to explore, to try, to learn. But ultimately you have to enjoy it, so I draw lines at things I know I don't enjoy.
Nola x
Sex God
Yep, moved out of our comfort zones here. And thinking about moving further away :shock:
Not telling you lot how far though :dry:
Not telling you lot how far though :dry:
Sex God
Trying to move out of mine but a big elastic band keeps pulling me back into it :cry:
the longer im single the more scared of coming out i get... i dont mean in a gay way although i like a munch i mean, out me zone.. ive got so used to doing my own thing that when i meet.. if i meet.. i get locked down petrified and i end up having vanilla sex.. im not vanilla not in any way.. but the longer i go without the less of me i feel.... ?! did that make any sense..!!!!!
i think if i was an old man id be gettin somenone to pass me my pipe an slippers!!!! ...
god i think i need a slap!!!!!
i think if i was an old man id be gettin somenone to pass me my pipe an slippers!!!! ...
god i think i need a slap!!!!!
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Trying to move out of mine but a big elastic band keeps pulling me back into it :cry:
you got the same elastic band as us lol
