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I have just looked at the profile of a lady on this Site who rightly speaks of the importance of condoms. However, the profile goes on to hint at an understanding of the problems that some men have with these "skins".
Back in the 60's and 70's when I had more use for them than today, they tended to come in one size and one shape "to suit all" - I had problems with them not fitting properly (now you can take that two ways, can't you, but I'm not telling).
Nowadays, it's Last of the Summer Wine time and I get put off by the wretched little things.
Any other views out there?
Luv - Plim rotflmao
I actually don't mind them...they don't really bother me anymore...I never used to like them cause it felt a little artificial when the man was wearing one but I have always known that it's pretty essential as far as I'm concerned.
Obviously I don't use them with my Partner but he's the only one that I dont use them with...I use them with everyone else.
I know that, for men, they can have problems cause of the whole drooping thing or lack of romance...but without can cause so many problems...but of course everyone has their own opinion about that.
These days you can get them in many sizes, colours, flavours :P etc etc, so there is some thing for all out there.
And they are a must for swinging as far as I am concerned.
(ps I don't like the chocolate ones!)
As a receiver I hate them, I actually get thrush like symptoms a few days after because I have a 'slight' intolerance to them, however they are a must in our play so I tolerate that.
Jay hates them because it does make him lose the feeling slightly but again it's a must so he just gets on with it.
I don't think the younger kids are as sensible as us "older/maturer" people as STD's are on the increase again.
Quote by jaymar
As a receiver I hate them, I actually get thrush like symptoms a few days after because I have a 'slight' intolerance to them, however they are a must in our play so I tolerate that.
Jay hates them because it does make him lose the feeling slightly but again it's a must so he just gets on with it.
I don't think the younger kids are as sensible as us "older/maturer" people as STD's are on the increase again.

You know what kids are like - they think they're invincible. I know I did when I was a young 'un - "it won't happen to me"
But you're absolutely right - the under 25's are the most at risk.
Something I posted elsewhere:
Quote by Marya
The news today says there has been yet another increase in STIs. Unreal isn't it? In this day and age, etc etc ... makes me mad though mad
"Today's figures serve as a reminder for people to take responsibility for their own sexual health"
Professor Peter Borriello, of the HPA

UK STI stats
Chlamydia is apparently the most common but the symptoms may easily be mistaken for much lesser infections - like cystitis which is probably why lots of people aren't even aware they have it never mind seek treatment but there are plenty who are maybe just too embarrassed to go to the docs or a clinic???

I've been lucky I guess that the majority of guys I've played with haven't had an issue using condoms - I mean, they've always managed to keep an erection and continue to function, as it were! lol
I do sympathise with guys that have problems but when it comes down to it, it's kinda tough shit really.
If you can't wear a condom then you don't get a shag, simple as.
If it's an ongoing problem, then that's something for the guy to sort out. Find some that feel good to you, have a few posh wanks so you know you're physically capable of using them and then it's just the emotional barrier to deal with?
Quote by Marya_Northeast
As a receiver I hate them, I actually get thrush like symptoms a few days after because I have a 'slight' intolerance to them, however they are a must in our play so I tolerate that.
Jay hates them because it does make him lose the feeling slightly but again it's a must so he just gets on with it.
I don't think the younger kids are as sensible as us "older/maturer" people as STD's are on the increase again.

You know what kids are like - they think they're invincible. I know I did when I was a young 'un - "it won't happen to me"
But you're absolutely right - the under 25's are the most at risk.
Something I posted elsewhere:
Quote by Marya
The news today says there has been yet another increase in STIs. Unreal isn't it? In this day and age, etc etc ... makes me mad though mad
"Today's figures serve as a reminder for people to take responsibility for their own sexual health"
Professor Peter Borriello, of the HPA

UK STI stats
Chlamydia is apparently the most common but the symptoms may easily be mistaken for much lesser infections - like cystitis which is probably why lots of people aren't even aware they have it never mind seek treatment but there are plenty who are maybe just too embarrassed to go to the docs or a clinic???

I've been lucky I guess that the majority of guys I've played with haven't had an issue using condoms - I mean, they've always managed to keep an erection and continue to function, as it were! lol
I do sympathise with guys that have problems but when it comes down to it, it's kinda tough shit really.
If you can't wear a condom then you don't get a shag, simple as.
If it's an ongoing problem, then that's something for the guy to sort out. Find some that feel good to you, have a few posh wanks so you know you're physically capable of using them and then it's just the emotional barrier to deal with?
rotflmao posh wanks!
You are quite right, when I was between 18 and 21 I did the unthinkable, and I got caught out with a non standard STD, not a major one but stupid I know but it did make me sit up and realise just what a risk I was taking.
Quote by jaymar
rotflmao posh wanks!
You are quite right, when I was between 18 and 21 I did the unthinkable, and I got caught out with a non standard STD, not a major one but stupid I know but it did make me sit up and realise just what a risk I was taking.

I've been really lucky in that respect. In the first few years of sexual activity I was damn bloody careless but I never got caught out (thank god, allah and whover else!) but I was lucky!
When you're young, you just don't really appreciate your health though do you? As long as you're having fun, who cares?
Anyway, missy, nowt wrong with posh wanks! lol
Thanks for your replies to date - nice to see jaymar and Marya have got a good dialogue going. Speak to you all again soon.
Plim biggrin
Quote by Plimboy
Thanks for your replies to date - nice to see jaymar and Marya have got a good dialogue going. Speak to you all again soon.
Plim biggrin

Ooops! Sorry for the hijack! redface
Happy posh-wanking! wink
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Thanks for your replies to date - nice to see jaymar and Marya have got a good dialogue going. Speak to you all again soon.
Plim biggrin

Ooops! Sorry for the hijack! redface
Happy posh-wanking! wink
Oh no, you mis-understood me, I meant that it was GOOD, I enjoyed the exchange.
Plim :D
condoms are good they make you last longer.......try putting on two and go all night..... rolleyes