conversation (if you can call it that):
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: hello
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: this is wet for sex
caffeinekid: do I know you?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: not yet
caffeinekid: so who are you?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: wet for sex
caffeinekid: literally, or that is your name? lol
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: no- John and Jean
caffeinekid: nice to meet you, jonh and jean - I guess you are from swingers heaven? :)
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: we are trying
caffeinekid: you havent had much luck as yet?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: we have met up with people
caffeinekid: where abouts in the uk are you, your profile is empty?
caffeinekid: what are you looking for?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: we are not in the UK
caffeinekid: oh right
caffeinekid: where abouts are you?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: illinois
caffeinekid: did you get my contact details from the swingers site? I am in the uk.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: i didn't catch where you were from o nthee
caffeinekid: I guess there is a wakefield in the usa also? :)
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: wakefield???
caffeinekid: that is my name on there isnt it andy_wakefield
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: no- thebest513
caffeinekid: I have never heard of that name I'm afraid.. what site is that on?
caffeinekid: my name is andrew and im in the uk in yorkshire near wakefield
caffeinekid: hello? what site did you get my id from.
caffeinekid: hello?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: WHAT??
caffeinekid: what site did you get my id from please
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: if this is not "thebest" from AFF - we do not want to talk to you
caffeinekid: if you let me know what site I am supposed to be on then we can clear things up, you are the second person who has asked me if I'm thebest
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: then someone is giving out your email
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: if you do not know what AFF is- then goodbye
caffeinekid: thats not very helpful, and not very polite
caffeinekid: im sorry im not who you are looking for but if you give me more information we can clear it up and perhaps you can track them down
caffeinekid: or you could decide to be completely ignorant
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx: i'm completely ignorant- cause you are not who i thought you wer
caffeinekid: do i obviously dont deserve any respect or common curtesy obviously?
caffeinekid: i hope you speak nicer to thebest if you ever find them - with an attitude and interpersonal skills like those perhaps they will not wish to talk to you
If the mods feel that this shouldnt be here then I will understand if the thread is deleted, I just didnt want to keep my hurt to myself - its better out than in they say.
. You've made a good point actually. I stopped using messenger services such as MSN quite a while ago as I ended up with a huge list of poeple who had added me to their list without even knowing my gender (no suprise there then 
). Some got shitty if I said I was female as they thought I was lying, others got shitty if I said I was male as they thought I was lying :shock: , others got shitty when I wouldn't tell them either way, and some even got shitty when I tried to be honest and establish a conversation, like Andy_W did. 
