I wondered, has anyone here ever corrupted a non swinging couple? For example did you manage to convince non swinging friends to join you?
I can see couples getting a single male friend to join them quite easily, but I think it would be harder to get friends who were a couple to swing.
If this did happen, did it ruin the friendship afterwards?
we brought up in a game of truth or dare to a long term friend that we were swingers!...she then talked about it to her boyfriend...who was obviously keen to go to a club...he had a fantasy of seeing her with another woman,so we took them to a club and introduced them to the see...but we never played with them...that was a big no no from both sides!
When i very 1st started out in swinging... i started with the fantasy and curiosity of what it would be like with another fem. So.. i tried it, but never said a word to anybody..not even my best mate.
It wasn't that i couldnt talk to her about anything, i just wasn't sure of the reaction.
Anyhow a few months later.. she met a guy and they chatted about fantasy's.. In a conversation between her and myself, she told me she was curious about the fem fem thing also. So with this.. I told he all about what i had done... And introduced her to the site where i began looking.
We never ever did anything between ourselves.. as it wouldn't of been right.. but her and her fella went on to meet other women for 3sums.. and she thoroughly enjoyed it.
I'm not sure that corruption is applicable in the swinging world. Most prospective swingers are on the verge of makng a decision. As I said before, if you recognise this and tip the balance its generally considered okay.
So seduction and persuasion, bullying, mockery etc, are probably all employed by some people at some time. But there is usually a way out at some point.
Not so with corruption. You're stuffed from the moment you start.
True corruption originates from those who are already corrupt. These are practitioners in the darker areas of sexual predators. If you've arrived there, you know what it's about all right.
I don't think corruption is the right word. Corruption implies that there's something wrong in what we are doing, and that's what we are trying dispel, isn't it? 'Introduction' would be a better word.
I belong to a number of sites with a range of activities all of which are more or less sexually-motivated. They range from dating sites through adult sex sites to punting and escort sites. As far as my friends are concerned, those that I have met through one or other of these sites are all pretty open to discussion of any of the others. Whereas those friends who belong to the other parts of my life, or who know me less well, might be surprised at what I get up to.
I find that dating, and in particular internet dating, is generally an acceptable topic in all situations, and having been to social meets connected with dating sites, it is easy to explain otherwise unexplainable friendships by saying, 'Oh that's someone I met at a dating social'.
I have two friends who quiz me from time to time about my dating activities, and they are more amused than appalled that I am rather promiscuous in my dates and that they don't turn into relationships.
As for swinging I have twice invited sexually-adventurous ladies to come with me to swinging parties, but both declined.
It's the way I talk. The way I use the English language.
Hello all.
Firstly I'd love for someone to corrupt me, so please feel free! lol
Secondly, I chatted before about this to a female friend who tells me she quite liked the idea of her and her husband being brought into the scene, but she could not get up the gumption to mention it to him. Knowing them both very well, I offered to drop subtle hints to him. It didn't work! Like most blokes he completely missed the point and thought I was trying to chat up his wife! At that point I didn't feel I could mention it any more, at risk of a punch in the gob!
When I mentioned it again to my friend she just said "typical". I don't think that they ever did anything about it though, cos she still mentions it now?
I think more than subtle hints are needed.
He is a guy, so if she just comes out with it I imagine he will be quite keen. She just needs to wave the carrot of MFF in front of him. No man can resist!!!
There is no need to apologise Wench. hmmm maybe I have spent too much time with swinging couples. I have obviously had my view distorted (see I didn't use the C word)
Its amazing the diversity on this site.
I think he was just one of life's thick skinned people and whilst he absolutely adored his wife, he was content that she was there and just with him? I don't think it crossed his mond for anything else.
I did once lend him a "threesome" video as an incentive which he loved, but the penny never dropped?
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