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Quote by winchwench
Is Jay giveable then? :rascal:
bolt
And I'd have been livid.

oooh yes, he gives very well wink
Quote by jaymar
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Well... it has happened to me apparently.. redface All I knew was that I was sat having a chat with a friendly young lady, supping my beer and all of a sudden... Hullo.. Mrs DD arives alongside of me with eyes blazing and sits on my lap (not a normal event for us outside of a bedroom!!) Wraps her arms around me and plants a huge lip-lock on...
When she finally finished the young lady had moved on elsewhere.. I asked Mrs DD what she was playing at and I was informed that the lady had been hitting on me big time.... Hey!, who knew?? dunno She didn't write me a letter asking me for a date so I just saw a friendly face!!
So... my question is, how come a woman can read the signs better than a bloke???
I can only read the signs from the outside so to speak. If I see someone trying to flirt with someone else I can tell. If they try it with me I have no clue. Don't know why.
H.x
Quote by H-x
I can only read the signs from the outside so to speak. If I see someone trying to flirt with someone else I can tell. If they try it with me I have no clue. Don't know why.
H.x

im like that to cant spot anyone flirting with me but if its dek or anyone else i notice straight away
I am quite cool with wor lass getting chatted up/eyed up etc. We have only ever been out in a vanilla environment together and we both get eyed up quite frequently by men and women.
I take it as a compliment and would be very disappointed if she didn't get eyed up at all, thankfully I can't imagine a day when she isn't as she beautiful.
And as for 'would I be so brazen' yes I probably would. If the person was returning eye contact with me then I would presume that their partner was cool with it and carry on. I am fairly good at reading the signals tho' so would know if their partner was not o.k. with it and wouldn't bother continuing.
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So... my question is, how come a woman can read the signs better than a bloke???

we just can - if anyone has ever read "women are from venus, men are from mars"... they'll understand wink
Quote by jaymar

Try this- look above the neck of the person in question! :thumbup:
Quote by jaymar

Not so much Mars.. more like a small planet somewhere in the vicinity of Betelgeuse....
Try this- look above the neck of the person in question!

Oh it was well above the neck!! If my dodgy memory serves it was a big pair of....
lovely blue eyes that I was gazing into!!
bolt
Quote by shark

Not so much Mars.. more like a small planet somewhere in the vicinity of Betelgeuse....
Try this- look above the neck of the person in question!

Oh it was well above the neck!! If my dodgy memory serves it was a big pair of....
lovely blue eyes that I was gazing into!!
bolt
lol yeah yeah whatever you say!... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?
(in hindsight, shouldn't really have asked that question rolleyes )
Quote by jaymar

OK but tell me how W knowI am flirting, and I don't. :!: :small-print:
Quote by shark
So... my question is, how come a woman can read the signs better than a bloke???

Well I can't! confused
Quote by shark
So... my question is, how come a woman can read the signs better than a bloke???

Signs? What signs are these then?
Quote by jaymar
... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
Quote by markz

... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. :roll:
Quote by flower411
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Both mrs f and myself are obviously very bad people :shock:
We flirt with strangers all the time and certainly wouldn`t feel we were doing anything wrong.
If another man flirts with mrs f, I certainly don`t feel insecure about my position.
This. I love it when blokes flirt or try it on with Shani. Worth popping to the loo and taking my time getting back to see whos flirting with her or vice versa... What an ego trip for me...
Quote by Shani_cpl
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Both mrs f and myself are obviously very bad people :shock:
We flirt with strangers all the time and certainly wouldn`t feel we were doing anything wrong.
If another man flirts with mrs f, I certainly don`t feel insecure about my position.
This. I love it when blokes flirt or try it on with Shani. Worth popping to the loo and taking my time getting back to see whos flirting with her or vice versa... What an ego trip for me...
dek does that to and i do the same with him but if we doing that we make a night of it and pretend we are strangers cool
Quote by winchwench

... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. :roll:
did that sound funny when you typed it..... :roll:
Quote by markz

... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. :roll:
did that sound funny when you typed it..... :roll:
No. It just sounded like keyboard key's being pressed. :roll:
Quote by markz

If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. rolleyes

did that sound funny when you typed it..... :roll:
It certainly made me giggle! *d++khead* :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by X_fanny_x
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Both mrs f and myself are obviously very bad people :shock:
We flirt with strangers all the time and certainly wouldn`t feel we were doing anything wrong.
If another man flirts with mrs f, I certainly don`t feel insecure about my position.
This. I love it when blokes flirt or try it on with Shani. Worth popping to the loo and taking my time getting back to see whos flirting with her or vice versa... What an ego trip for me...
dek does that to and i do the same with him but if we doing that we make a night of it and pretend we are strangers cool
Gawds, yeah!!! We've started to do this a little at couples and singles nights a bit. Shes gets so much more attention from the blokes when I'm not around...
Quote by Shani_cpl
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Both mrs f and myself are obviously very bad people :shock:
We flirt with strangers all the time and certainly wouldn`t feel we were doing anything wrong.
If another man flirts with mrs f, I certainly don`t feel insecure about my position.
This. I love it when blokes flirt or try it on with Shani. Worth popping to the loo and taking my time getting back to see whos flirting with her or vice versa... What an ego trip for me...
dek does that to and i do the same with him but if we doing that we make a night of it and pretend we are strangers cool
Gawds, yeah!!! We've started to do this a little at couples and singles nights a bit. Shes gets so much more attention from the blokes when I'm not around...
we do it on bog standard nights out last time we went though we were together and it doesnt stop the blokes hitting on me the lasses are a bit more reserved tho
Quote by winchwench

... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. :roll:
did that sound funny when you typed it..... :roll:
No. It just sounded like keyboard key's being pressed. :roll:
My work is done here............. :mrgreen:
Quote by markz

... makes me wonder tho, how would a man think if us women were to talk to your balls?

they do already...... rolleyes
If they, along with your penis, didn't protrude from your forehead it would be easier not to. :roll:
did that sound funny when you typed it..... :roll:
No. It just sounded like keyboard key's being pressed. :roll:
My work is done here............. :mrgreen:
:mrgreen: confused: :mrgreen: :?: :roll:
I go to bed fantasising about your :roll: ... don't leave me with the :mrgreen: at bedtime Markz... pullleeeese! blink
Quote by jaymar
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Take it as a complement, W always does, so do I. So calm down.
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Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Take it as a complement, W always does, so do I. So calm down.
I am calm. I have listened to various view points and the main thing is ... he's mine, all mine wink
Quote by X_fanny_x
we do it on bog standard nights out last time we went though we were together and it doesnt stop the blokes hitting on me the lasses are a bit more reserved tho

The women always are sad Thats next on the list though...
Quote by Shani_cpl

we do it on bog standard nights out last time we went though we were together and it doesnt stop the blokes hitting on me the lasses are a bit more reserved tho

The women always are sad Thats next on the list though...
good luck lol
Do you think the same feelings would have arose if it was a swinger eyeing up your fella and ignoring you? or is it cos she was a non-swinger in the middle of the chippy doing the blatant eyeing up thing?
Could I be so brazen? Probably have done without even knowing it, I'm a terrible flirt. redface
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Do you think the same feelings would have arose if it was a swinger eyeing up your fella and ignoring you? or is it cos she was a non-swinger in the middle of the chippy doing the blatant eyeing up thing?
Could I be so brazen? Probably have done without even knowing it, I'm a terrible flirt. redface

I don't really know to be honest . If for example we were in a swinging club and the same thing happened I'd probably react differently. It was basically because it was "in my face" and she knew I was there.
I'm actually NOT a jealous person so I cannot help but wonder where my little outburst came from on Monday, I still think it was the time and moment and I wasn't comfortable with it in any way shape or form.
lol
Quote by jaymar
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:

Wish someone pretty like that would eye me up.
Plim sad :(