Couples - do you also swing alone?

6 Nov 2004

I think this ones been done before, but as there are a lot of newbies on now I thought I'd bring it up again.
How many of you couples also swing on your own as singles, and does it work? I know one or two couples on here that definafely swing alone, but is it more usual for couples only to swing as couples?
Views from singles OK too!
Satin and I don't always swing together. I go to clubs with a non SH friend that I've known for several years now (quite a lot of you have met him too), and Satin also goes out on his own. I like the idea of Satin going out alone and picking up strange blokes, then texting me to tell me what he's just done :twisted: . I think it's a form of "voyeurism" at a distance :grin: . Last week he went cruising and the texted me at work to tell me he'd just sucked off two blokes and it was really horny... but frustrating cos I was at work at the time! :shock:
Anyways, am I just a big perv or do others do that sort of thing too?! :giggle:

6 Nov 2004

no i havent swung by myself apart from :swingingchair: in the kids playground lol

:lol:
although we both agree its an option its never happened yet........there again we are still new to this. hubby does have reservations about me with another man alone (only for safetys sake, he doesnt want me in a situation i cant handle and hes not there to help) but no problems if i want to meet another woman.
Kaz is taking bookings for swinging ladies.......... wink

:lol: :wink: :lol:

6 Nov 2004

we have never swung alone we find we realy enjoy the 4 sum all together and it realy turns each other on when all together
fantastic fun when with the right couple xx
but maybe with some couples this works avery one couple to there own its all about fun fun xxxxxxx 69position

jaky xxx

6 Nov 2004

We don't and i don't think that we ever views on swinging are that we do it together for our pleasure,so i don't think that we'll be doing that at all.

6 Nov 2004

ive never swung so in fantasy ooooooooo yeah
in reality no
but never say never :twisted:

6 Nov 2004

:laughabove: :rascal: :twisted:
Can i help with that one?

6 Nov 2004

Quote by redstilletto
ive never swung so in fantasy ooooooooo yeah
in reality no
but never say never :twisted:

Quote by midlandsman1970
Can i help with that one?

I'd join thatqueue

6 Nov 2004

We swing together that the thrill of it for us!!

6 Nov 2004

On a few occasions I've met guys who claim they swing with their partners, but I've only got their word for it. On these occasions they were on their own, hadn't met any females on their own that night, and seemed happy to find me instead!! redface

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I've never met a female by chance, who was out on her own looking for sex with strangers (although I know some do). I would imagine it's the safety aspect which is responsible for this, plus the fact that there are sometimes some very wierd males out there on their own cruising around. :shock: :shock: That's not an issue for me, but then I'm a guy and I have never once felt threatened or intimidated by them. duel

I've never had any problem, as a single bi male, in meeting with couples. It amuses me sometimes to see some of the totally crass adverts that some single guys post in Let's Meet Up. And they're surprised when they don't receive any replies................?? rolleyes

:roll:
Blue and Satin, I think you should go on a nationwide tour (purely in the interests of "research" you understand?). You could start down my way. I'd be more than happy to show you around. Course you'll need to bring your passports!!
:twisted: :twisted:

6 Nov 2004

Quote by dambuster
ive never swung so in fantasy ooooooooo yeah
in reality no
but never say never :twisted:

Quote by midlandsman1970
Can i help with that one?

I'd join thatqueue
oooooo red! greedy girl night by the looks of it? count me in too! :twisted: :lol2:
n x x x ;)

6 Nov 2004

We have always done things as a couple so far despite many offers by different guys to meet me on my own.
The thrill has been doing things together, but with another male/couple.
However, we have met a genuinely nice guy who has become a very good friend to us, both in terms of swinging and socially too.
He is divorced and since he doesn't have to rush off back to a wife, he often comes back to our place just for a meal or drink. We have a teenage son living at home and he has never caught on the to fact that S is anything more than a friend of his parent's wink

Jon and I have talked at length about him and what he means to us in terms of swinging etc. We have also had talks with him about what he wants from this lifestyle.
Upshot is that Jon has been happy to let me swing on my own on several occassions when he has not been able to be there and join in. Of course he gets to hear all the details when he gets home from work so not entirely left out :twisted:
It's not something that would happen as a general rule, but for him we make an exception :twisted: :wink:
Tracy-Jayne

6 Nov 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
ive never swung so in fantasy ooooooooo yeah
in reality no
but never say never :twisted:

Quote by midlandsman1970
Can i help with that one?

I'd join thatqueue
oooooo red! greedy girl night by the looks of it? count me in too! :twisted: :lol2:
n x x x ;)
:twisted:

6 Nov 2004

We swing as a couple when we meet bi guys or couples but if i meet a fem i like the pleasure to be all mine. :twisted: Just a greedy bitch i guess biggrin

Gill x

6 Nov 2004

Quote by Eagerslut9

I've never met a female by chance, who was out on her own looking for sex with strangers (although I know some do). I would imagine it's the safety aspect which is responsible for this, plus the fact that there are sometimes some very wierd males out there on their own cruising around. :shock: :shock: That's not an issue for me, but then I'm a guy and I have never once felt threatened or intimidated by them.

I've done it and to be honest never had a problem.
So, most of you guys on here only swing as couples. Maybe I am just a randy perv then :giggle:

6 Nov 2004

Quote by bluexxx
I've done it and to be honest never had a problem.
So, most of you guys on here only swing as couples. Maybe I am just a randy perv then :giggle:

To be honest Blue - if you did encounter a problem - my money would be on you!
They wouldn't stand a chance! :shock:

6 Nov 2004

Quote by Alexandra

I've done it and to be honest never had a problem.
So, most of you guys on here only swing as couples. Maybe I am just a randy perv then :giggle:

To be honest Blue - if you did encounter a problem - my money would be on you!
They wouldn't stand a chance! :shock:
Well, I think it's down to common sense really. Now I'm older I am much more aware of safety issues and am always aware of possible escape routes etc. But when I was very young, aged between about 14 and 18 I was much much more prepared to take risks cos it was all part of the buzz rolleyes

. I spent the bulk of my teenage years wearing short skirts and no underwear and being rude and suggestive in parks and the like - but the biggest buzz was on the roads, walking along or cycling :roll: :roll: :roll: . It was a sexual buzz that didn't really invole other people, though sometimes guys in the park got lucky with a BJ :twisted: . Anyways, there were times then when the situation got out of hand. But I have to say that proper cruisers were always polite, I had the most trouble from dickheads on the street or with them trying to drag me into their car :eeek: . So, when I say I've never had a problem I mean in recent years. But I could always handle myself, and funnily enough they always came off worse. I've been lucky I guess, but it was all part of a game at the time.... then I grew up confused

. Although I still scout round parks on my own now it isn't the same sort of buzz as it was then. I think the main thing in a troubled situation is not to panic - that's why Hayley's advice in the dogging section is pretty good cool

8-) 8-)
Hum, just hijaked my own thread now :roll:

6 Nov 2004

For us itâ€™s an enjoyment we want to share together so only meet as a couple
Sussex2
xxx

6 Nov 2004

again we do it together,sharing the pleasure,the moment,and also the security it brings,dont really think we could do it without each other,just wouldnt be the same

6 Nov 2004

We're another couple who only do things 'together'.. we get the pleasure out of actually watching each other doing whatever.. and knowing the other is watching us iykwim... At a push I wouldn'y mind R going off on his own to do anything.. although I wouldn't get any pleasure out of it so it kinda defys the point.

6 Nov 2004

Quote by kazswallows
although we both agree its an option its never happened yet.......

We're pretty such the same...
Our main interest is to meet other couples, to make friends and have fun with them..
We have the agreement that IF the opportunity ever arose, as long as all parties are ok with it at that time, we wouldn't automatically rule it out..
Hope that makes sense

6 Nov 2004

My boyfriend and I when we are together don't swing alone right now, only as a couple because we don't get much time together anyway so we make the most of what we do have.
When we are apart (with living in sepparate countries) we do swing alone........ but as a part of a swinging partner "couple".
He has a gorgeous bifem swinging partner with whom he plays. :twisted:
I like to have to the other person to consider and think about. This often takes me/us to places I/we had not considered before which leads us both to new experiences and pleasure.