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Couples accounts ... just curious

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If you're on this site as a couple, which of you posts on the forum, browses profiles, sends messages etc?
Is it more likely for one of you to take command of your time on here, or is it shared equally?
If you both post on here are you each aware of the other's activity?
Interesting question,
We both browse the site individually and at times together and are fully aware of each others activity. I (the fem) do most of the forum posts as he isn't doesn't tend to look at the forums and I answer our messages and chat the most coz you can't shut me up. He looks through profiles and checks out the chat rooms but doesn't tend to initiate conversation.
What made you ask?
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What made you ask?
Curiosity more than anything ... I get a few people peruse my profile and wondered which half of the couple it was more likely to be.
Or if I send a message to a couple, who would be more likely to type the reply (or not as the case may be :P).
BB rarely,if ever visits the site....she is however fully aware of my visits (we did meet here after all)
Most profiles usually says who does what with regards to couples activities on SH, who types in what colour etc etc.
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Most profiles usually says who does what with regards to couples activities on SH, who types in what colour etc etc.
Where does it say that? Can't say I've really noticed.
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Most profiles usually says who does what with regards to couples activities on SH, who types in what colour etc etc.
Where does it say that?
In the profile of the person/couple. This is where people write more info about themselves, rather than just ticking the boxes. It is a good insight to the person/couple
Dave_Notts
We have always had 2 accounts so that we can go into chat together
I use this account for most of my mad ramblings in the forum and to reply to pm`s and threads etc, BMW has his own account for his saner thoughts innocent
Although we both have couples accounts, we never use each others. We never have, not even sure why or if we even gave it a thought. Its just the way it is confused
It is me (Mrs) who mainly posts in the forum on this account. He has occasionally but tends to say that it is him if he does.
We did open another account which he uses for chat and he tends to use that account if he is going to post in here.
The other account is only used for chat and the odd post in here and wont be getting renewed now that couples can both use chat on the same account.
We dont send many messages. We both check messages and whoever opens them usually replies, even if its just a "the other half aint in right now, we'll get back to you" type message. If we send, receive or reply to any messages we never delete them until the other half has seen them.
So in answer to your question, we both use the site as much as each other and are both fully aware of what the other one is doing.
Me Mr Tweeky that posts and pretty much always has been. Think Mrs made one topic in the last 5 years. Bit different to everyone else as she pretty much does not know what goes on here. The reason for that is I only tell her about potential meets .... need I say more lol She will know if I/we are holding an event and on an odd ocassion will ask how many are on the list. Mrs simply does not take much interest in this site as she likes the business end of swinging. I never have much business to report from here.
we both have a couples account here but dont use each others accounts
we met here so thats why we both have accounts although they were single accounts then which we changed to couples accounts
gary rarely logs into SH nowadays, i wont say why cus its not polite smile
i pop in most days but im always on other sites at the same time as SH doesnt keep my attention for long
on the rare occasions gary does log in he goes into chat for a short time, as far as i know he hasnt added to the forums for a very long time
i occasionally add to threads and i use chat but not as much as i used to