If you're on this site as a couple, which of you posts on the forum, browses profiles, sends messages etc?
Is it more likely for one of you to take command of your time on here, or is it shared equally?
If you both post on here are you each aware of the other's activity?
Interesting question,
We both browse the site individually and at times together and are fully aware of each others activity. I (the fem) do most of the forum posts as he isn't doesn't tend to look at the forums and I answer our messages and chat the most coz you can't shut me up. He looks through profiles and checks out the chat rooms but doesn't tend to initiate conversation.
What made you ask?
BB rarely,if ever visits the site....she is however fully aware of my visits (we did meet here after all)
Most profiles usually says who does what with regards to couples activities on SH, who types in what colour etc etc.
It is me (Mrs) who mainly posts in the forum on this account. He has occasionally but tends to say that it is him if he does.
We did open another account which he uses for chat and he tends to use that account if he is going to post in here.
The other account is only used for chat and the odd post in here and wont be getting renewed now that couples can both use chat on the same account.
We dont send many messages. We both check messages and whoever opens them usually replies, even if its just a "the other half aint in right now, we'll get back to you" type message. If we send, receive or reply to any messages we never delete them until the other half has seen them.
So in answer to your question, we both use the site as much as each other and are both fully aware of what the other one is doing.