I've replied to a few ads recently in the 'couples looking for a man' section.
In each case, we've swapped a few E-mails and then I've realised that what the couple want (or possible just the man!) is for another man to turn up and take the woman without her knowing it was going to happen.
eg. she is to be tied up and blindfolded, the third man to arrive and have sex, without the woman knowing which man it was.
Now this 'may' be a real fantasy. But, it could also be called !
In each case, I have asked to speak to the woman too, but when unable to, I have declined.
I repeat, a couple may well have this type of fantasy. But if so, they must BOTH agree to it and let the third person be aware that they are BOTH willing. For the husband to simply say that the 'wife wants it' isn't, to me, sufficient.
Does anyone else have any views?
Don