I've replied to a few ads recently in the 'couples looking for a man' section.
In each case, we've swapped a few E-mails and then I've realised that what the couple want (or possible just the man!) is for another man to turn up and take the woman without her knowing it was going to happen.
eg. she is to be tied up and blindfolded, the third man to arrive and have sex, without the woman knowing which man it was.
Now this 'may' be a real fantasy. But, it could also be called !
In each case, I have asked to speak to the woman too, but when unable to, I have declined.
I repeat, a couple may well have this type of fantasy. But if so, they must BOTH agree to it and let the third person be aware that they are BOTH willing. For the husband to simply say that the 'wife wants it' isn't, to me, sufficient.
Does anyone else have any views?
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'Couples' ads without woman knowing.....
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If you know which ads, please let us mods know so we can make a judgement call. The thing is, some do like this idea and as long as the wife is aware, there is no problem with the ad. When we know of an ad which says she doesn't know, we delete it. Useful to talk to the wife to clarify, but often that breaks the illusion of knowing who it is (from their point of view), but if you are uncomfortable with that, stick to your guns and find someone else.
Hope that helps.
Mal
Hope that helps.
Mal
Sex God
That's just pathetic - scary, too! No problem if that's genuinely the wife's fantasy as well, but it certainly doesn't sound consensual. I think you're spot on in asking to speak to the wife...a very wise and thoughtful course of action indeed. Who knows? The husband's own fantasy might extend to "defending his missus from her aggressor" as well! Good on you for seeing past this dodgy scenario and approaching it sensibly!
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A similar ad cropped up not so long ago, and similar reservations were expressed.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11544.html
mike.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11544.html
mike.
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