hi there
we have been to a few clubs in the north west and some of them on numerous occassions.
however we have found that at one club we go to on a couples only nite that other couples are goin but with the intention of playin just with the bloke.
let me explain.....
we were watchin a couple play they then invited us in to the room to join them. however it was only once we were playin that it became very clear that they only wanted to play with mr newnw.
naturally mr newnw stopped playin with this women and we had our own fun.
this is the 3rd time at the same club similar has happened........... does anyone else have similar problems?
to me is seems that if they just want to play with a single guy they shud be goin on mixed nites!!!
when i spoke to the owner of this particular club. they said there was nothin that they could do and that it was one of them things.
this has really annoyed me (mrs newnw)
does anyone have anything to add to this or are we just unlucky????
thanks
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II have only been to a club once and it was not for me so its hard to say if its common
personaly i think you was just unlucky and after looking at your profile i am sure there will be a time when some one will just want to play with you and not your partner.
Like the owner of the club said there is not alot they can do
The best way is to do what your partner did and stop as soon as you realise it is happening
everybody is different and looking for diffrent things out of swinging
the trick is finding a match
Dont let it put you off
Good luck
personaly i think you was just unlucky and after looking at your profile i am sure there will be a time when some one will just want to play with you and not your partner.
Like the owner of the club said there is not alot they can do
The best way is to do what your partner did and stop as soon as you realise it is happening
everybody is different and looking for diffrent things out of swinging
the trick is finding a match
Dont let it put you off
Good luck
Quote by Newnwcouple
well perhaps i dint make myself clear.
we are regulars on the scence now and my point was more.... why do ppl lie about who/what they want on the scene. if they wanted to play with just mr newnw then they shud of said! and not falsly ask a couple to play.
thanks for pm blonde
so what your saying is ...you met a couple went off to play with them.....then was left on the sidelines.....because they only wanted your husband to play with them......now thats quite rare......didn't you ask them before you all went off to play what they were into?
too be honest this seems quite rare......anyway perhaps the only reason they could only go on that particular night could be for many reason.....babysitters,work etc
Had it the other way round - also had it in a group situation where one of the guys took it on himself to get in the way of the others and try to and keep the women to himself. So we just left.
People are people - you might have one thing in common but one thing (And it's usually a good thing) is that people who swing come from nearly every background, job and personality there is.
People are people - you might have one thing in common but one thing (And it's usually a good thing) is that people who swing come from nearly every background, job and personality there is.
Sex God
We had a similar(ish) experience in a club on a couples only night.
Blue and I were playing in an open area alongside another couple when we got light touches over us from a couple wishing to join in. It was mainly the girl touching me. But they seemed perfectly happy. So we started getting it on, swapping partners. Mid flow with him I glanced across and saw Blue not getting any real action, she refused to do oral rather bluntly or penetration and continued to wank him with the most disinterested look on her face. it was all very polite and I suppose being our first club experience, we were just trying to be open minded about people all being different.
I know it's different playing at a club rather than meets in terms of agreeing boundaries, but surely it's a little weird to have a couple so different. After all it was SHE that started it all off. Blue reckoned she wanted me rather than him which I suppose is possible. Reading this thread maybe it was me they were both after.
pink x
Blue and I were playing in an open area alongside another couple when we got light touches over us from a couple wishing to join in. It was mainly the girl touching me. But they seemed perfectly happy. So we started getting it on, swapping partners. Mid flow with him I glanced across and saw Blue not getting any real action, she refused to do oral rather bluntly or penetration and continued to wank him with the most disinterested look on her face. it was all very polite and I suppose being our first club experience, we were just trying to be open minded about people all being different.
I know it's different playing at a club rather than meets in terms of agreeing boundaries, but surely it's a little weird to have a couple so different. After all it was SHE that started it all off. Blue reckoned she wanted me rather than him which I suppose is possible. Reading this thread maybe it was me they were both after.
pink x
Sex God
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however personally if it was me i'd have gone and left my hubby to have fun with them if they only wanted him but each to their own eh ;)
Yeh but doing a runner and leaving him there doesnt quite mean the same thing now does it NN
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however personally if it was me i'd have gone and left my hubby to have fun with them if they only wanted him but each to their own eh ;)
Yeh but doing a runner and leaving him there doesnt quite mean the same thing now does it NN
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:PMSL you know me to well
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
however personally if it was me i'd have gone and left my hubby to have fun with them if they only wanted him but each to their own eh ;)
Yeh but doing a runner and leaving him there doesnt quite mean the same thing now does it NN
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:PMSL you know me to well
Shhhhhhhhhh dont tell everyone
before we played we asked wot they wanted and they said full swap - that is why we decided to play with them. perhaps if they had of been honest mr newnw might have played with them.
when i was left out mr newnw though was unfair and he decided to stop playin with the girl! i wud of let him carry on as i have on prev occassions when this has happened!
we are open minded ppl and prefer the truth
im just not sure why ppl feel the need to mislead others.
as for the comment -------- anyway perhaps the only reason they could only go on that particular night could be for many reason.....babysitters,work etc ---------- if this was the case they still did not need to mislead us!
i guess the thread is more about lies and misleading ppl rather than me being left out!
when i was left out mr newnw though was unfair and he decided to stop playin with the girl! i wud of let him carry on as i have on prev occassions when this has happened!
we are open minded ppl and prefer the truth
im just not sure why ppl feel the need to mislead others.
as for the comment -------- anyway perhaps the only reason they could only go on that particular night could be for many reason.....babysitters,work etc ---------- if this was the case they still did not need to mislead us!
i guess the thread is more about lies and misleading ppl rather than me being left out!
Sex God
Hope it works out for you, if not just walk away.
Master of Sex
yer we have all been in this position but like gem said just walk away if ur both not happy.
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thanks lil gem and l&a
yer we go as a couple play as a couple and leave as a couple. we know wot the other one wants and can tell if the other is not happy or comfortable.
neither of us have a problem with the other playing on there own if that is wot the couple asks for.
im not bothered that it was me push to side lines it was more the fact that it happened after they said they wanted full swap and that the manager wasnt even interested to know who it was incase they done it agen!
oh well. nothin stops us anyway we have had a lot worse, trust me! :shock:
thats life
xxxx
yer we go as a couple play as a couple and leave as a couple. we know wot the other one wants and can tell if the other is not happy or comfortable.
neither of us have a problem with the other playing on there own if that is wot the couple asks for.
im not bothered that it was me push to side lines it was more the fact that it happened after they said they wanted full swap and that the manager wasnt even interested to know who it was incase they done it agen!
oh well. nothin stops us anyway we have had a lot worse, trust me! :shock:
thats life
xxxx
