Couples with Photos

21 Apr 2006

Quote by blonde
Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sadly, though we will send face pics privately, we would never, due to the nature of both our jobs and the fact that family (including Flidais kids) put them on here. As others have said, we all have our valid reasons for why we cannot post face pics and they need to be respected.
I didnt mention face pics ??????????????
I just agree that the photo's should have both halves of the couple in them ! Neck down is fine ........... but it should show both the male and the female if they are a couple IMHO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Your line about wanting to know 'what's between the ears' sounded like a reference to face pics..sorry if we misinterpreted biggrin

21 Apr 2006

And, sadly, we don't have any of us together...next time we find a 'third party' we shall have to get him/her to take a pic biggrin

21 Apr 2006

Well I have added a body shot of the 2 of us clothed on our ad biggrin

It wont affect the replies to the ad though as I dont think we have had one from our couples ad since August last year and we have never had one from our seeking single fem ever :lol2:
And no this isn't an invitation for you lot to start taking the piss :giggle:
Shireen
xxx

21 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
And, sadly, we don't have any of us together...next time we find a 'third party' we shall have to get him/her to take a pic

Same here flidais-media.
Maybe we should get together and take a few photo's wink

J n B

21 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sadly, though we will send face pics privately, we would never, due to the nature of both our jobs and the fact that family (including Flidais kids) put them on here. As others have said, we all have our valid reasons for why we cannot post face pics and they need to be respected.
I didnt mention face pics ??????????????
I just agree that the photo's should have both halves of the couple in them ! Neck down is fine ........... but it should show both the male and the female if they are a couple IMHO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Your line about wanting to know 'what's between the ears' sounded like a reference to face pics..sorry if we misinterpreted biggrin

no darling .......... i meant between the ears in an intellectual way :giggle:
But no probs :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

21 Apr 2006

Quote by blonde
Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sadly, though we will send face pics privately, we would never, due to the nature of both our jobs and the fact that family (including Flidais kids) put them on here. As others have said, we all have our valid reasons for why we cannot post face pics and they need to be respected.
I didnt mention face pics ??????????????
I just agree that the photo's should have both halves of the couple in them ! Neck down is fine ........... but it should show both the male and the female if they are a couple IMHO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Your line about wanting to know 'what's between the ears' sounded like a reference to face pics..sorry if we misinterpreted biggrin

no darling .......... i meant between the ears in an intellectual way :giggle:
But no probs :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
On one site we visit you have to post the level of education you have..now we've all met some pretty daft people with degrees and brilliant people who,left school at fifteen with nothing but guess it's a bit of a pointer in a direction of 'intellect'?

21 Apr 2006

I use my other half as bait all the time, you telling me thats now wrong?????
FFS!!!
/the Laird goes off to ponder a change in tact!

21 Apr 2006

Quote by the_Laird
I use my other half as bait all the time, you telling me thats now wrong?????
FFS!!!
/the Laird goes off to ponder a change in tact!

You're allowed to because you're 'special' lol

21 Apr 2006

Quote by the_Laird
I use my other half as bait all the time, you telling me thats now wrong?????
FFS!!!
/the Laird goes off to ponder a change in tact!

You mean the Lady is nothing but bait? :shock:
Thats another fantasy ruined.... sad

*wanders off muttering....The Lady is nothing but bait.....gibber*
lol

22 Apr 2006

Due to recent changes we have now removed all photos and renderd our profile almost useless.
Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies. This was when we were using photo ads but since moving to the forum this has not been such an issue, hence you have seen pics of Mr tweeky in various areas of the forum. We always had pics of Mr Tweeky in private and would send these to any users after a few mails.
On my own behalf I will say I have now lost quite a bit of weight smile

am now slightly fat with a average beer belly lol

Anyone wants to see it at Bristol later today !!!! just ask :)
Mr Tweeky

22 Apr 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
And, sadly, we don't have any of us together...next time we find a 'third party' we shall have to get him/her to take a pic

Same here flidais-media.
Maybe we should get together and take a few photo's wink

J n B
Sounds like a good idea :wink:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by the_Laird
I use my other half as bait all the time, you telling me thats now wrong?????
FFS!!!
/the Laird goes off to ponder a change in tact!

That pic on your avatar (and your fine taste in music) has always been 'bait' enough for me wink

22 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

I suppose it's because most couples are looking for bi fems rather than single males so the Mrs pic will get more response that the Mr todger on show. For those looking for other couples, I think it's aimed more at the bi fem of that couple.

22 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

I suppose it's because most couples are looking for bi fems rather than single males so the Mrs pic will get more response that the Mr todger on show. For those looking for other couples, I think it's aimed more at the bi fem of that couple.
Course it could just be that naked women look so much better than naked men wink

We could post a pic (if we had one) of ourselves, fully clothed but, without our heads showing, surely it would be a little dull? :shock:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
Course it could just be that naked women look so much better than naked men
:

You could be right there hunni :thumbup:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by tweeky
Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

22 Apr 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

True and as soon as we get a pic of the two of us taken it will be on our profile biggrin

22 Apr 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

..................... and I think you might be surprised, Mr T at just how many of our girlies prefer the larger framed type of guy to the stick insect or beefcake body builder.
Really.
......... and of course, I'd echo the Rotty's sentiments about honesty :thumbup:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by dambuster

Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

..................... and I think you might be surprised, Mr T at just how many of our girlies prefer the larger framed type of guy to the stick insect or beefcake body builder.
Really.
......... and of course, I'd echo the Rotty's sentiments about honesty :thumbup:
Well, I do for certain, I love a man I can get a good grip on :wink:
Bodybuilder types? Just find them plain daft, they usually fancy themselves more so than anyone else rolleyes

22 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
Well, I do for certain, I love a man I can get a good grip on

I'll drink to that! drinkies

I do like the bodybuilder type too though, and will make a beeline for them - especially if I think I can wipe the floor with their 'i'm so good, I'm so stunning, you should be grateful' attitude :twisted: You might be alble to ponce about in the gym doing weights all day luv but can you handle 6 hours in the bedroom with me? usually not, no.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
As for the honesty thing, I've done that - chatted on msn, done the whole phone call thing, exchanged photo's, even seen them on cam ..... agreed to meet, got to hotel, realised that pics were either fairly old or been taken in such a way that hides a mulitude of sins, and the lamp-on-not-full-light on cam was a really clever trick and that both of them were NOTHING like I expected or was looking for - and then got branded a timewaster becuase i had to say 'I'm sorry, I cant go through with this, see ya' lol

Hence why those who are on my 'potential to do list' are those I've met socially at Munches etc first :wink:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by dambuster
..................... and I think you might be surprised, Mr T at just how many of our girlies prefer the larger framed type of guy to the stick insect or beefcake body builder.

There's hope for me yet then Dammy.......
biggrin

22 Apr 2006

I like to see faces, sorry guys, but you've seen one cock, you've seen them all.
Faces, eyes, teeth.....
Fanny and cock shots just don't do it,
Yes, its about shagging, but when you meet, you chat first don't you ? If they don't do it for me on that level, its not going to work in the bedroom.
C
xx

22 Apr 2006

Quote by Cumclaire_again
I like to see faces, sorry guys, but you've seen one cock, you've seen them all.
Faces, eyes, teeth.....
Fanny and cock shots just don't do it,
Yes, its about shagging, but when you meet, you chat first don't you ? If they don't do it for me on that level, its not going to work in the bedroom.
C
xx

Yes, but as so many of us have said we cannot, for all sorts of reasons, put our face pics on here. So, it's either body pics or more can be said?
And yes, if it's a 1-2-1 meet we would chat offline and exchange pics but have to say we've shagged people in clubs and havn't a clue about them..don't even know their names quite often, let alone if they can string a sentence together wink

:lol: :lol:

22 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

Its the ultimate 'proof of life', but swinging related obviously........................ :?

22 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
And yes, if it's a 1-2-1 meet we would chat offline and exchange pics but have to say we've shagged people in clubs and havn't a clue about them..don't even know their names quite often, let alone if they can string a sentence together :lol: :lol:

Totally agree, if you meet somenoe in a club its a completely different kettle of ball games!
in a club, you're there and you either like the look of someone or you don't. With an arranged meet it's different (for us), we need to get on with someone before playing. Think its because in a club you can just play and go its more anonymous, but a meet IS a social thing in a way. Thats not to say that the only club meet is of the type described above tho!
Anyway waffling now!
biggrin

25 Apr 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
Or is it in fact due to past experience we once swang with a fat guy who if we had seen the pics before hand may never have botherd with? Maybe at that time we wished to give anyone interested the chance to get to know us first before dismissing us confused

: As for telling interested partys the truth? what like I lied? the information was always there in the profile, including drinks every night (which has now also changed) as I dont anymore. If anyone makes the choice to respond to that ad then that is up to them, plain and simple.
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
Great dont reply to ads with only pics of half the couple, we didnt ask you too did we?
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

Hence this is why my pics have been on the forum ooo errrr as I have been educated since being here smile

Since posting pics here we have now chosen to remove all pics and info from our profile. Its hard to judge people its an ever changing world in which we live in. :
Getting slightly annoyed at having small parts of posts quoted without the rest of the relevent text. Not just refering to those of you on this thread but in general for all :wink:
Mr Tweeky

25 Apr 2006

we agree.....we always want to see the guy as well.......
want to look at the cpl as a whole biggrin

:D :D :D

25 Apr 2006

Quote by tweeky

Before our public pics were just of Mrs Tweeky and the first reason was quite simply that she is by far the more attractive. Put your best foot foreward as they say. At the time the account was made Mr tweeky was how shall we say "fat with a large beer belly" stick that on a profile and you dont get many replies.

but isnt this what we mean about using the fem as 'bait' because you think that having pics or a description of you that show you as being "fat with a large beer belly" puts people off? and you get a far better response by using her in the pics, than telling any interested parties the truth BEFORE they spend time responding to you?
Or is it in fact due to past experience we once swang with a fat guy who if we had seen the pics before hand may never have botherd with? Maybe at that time we wished to give anyone interested the chance to get to know us first before dismissing us confused

: As for telling interested partys the truth? what like I lied? the information was always there in the profile, including drinks every night (which has now also changed) as I dont anymore. If anyone makes the choice to respond to that ad then that is up to them, plain and simple.
me, I'd rather have a straight up honest description and make my choices based on that, than be 'reeled in' based on only half the facts.
Great dont reply to ads with only pics of half the couple, we didnt ask you too did we?
And as it happens, personally, I'd be highly likley to respond to an ad or pics that are honest and 'here it is like it or lump it' because that to me speaks volumes about the actual people themselves wink

Hence this is why my pics have been on the forum ooo errrr as I have been educated since being here smile

Since posting pics here we have now chosen to remove all pics and info from our profile. Its hard to judge people its an ever changing world in which we live in. :
Getting slightly annoyed at having small parts of posts quoted without the rest of the relevent text. Not just refering to those of you on this thread but in general for all :wink:
Mr Tweeky
you know, sometimes I wonder why I feckin bother. rolleyes

:banghead:

25 Apr 2006

I think ads by couples should have a pic of both parties in it, faces don't have to be shown, but the pic should at least be a fair representation to the viewer. There are far too many pictures of indeterminate body parts for my liking!
We hope that our ads give an honest view of us, and the reason there are more pics of the Mrs is
A) She is far more photogenic than me,
B) She loves to dress up and pose
C) We're ideally looking for a single bifem for my wife to play with, so her pics are more relevent than pics of my tackle!

25 Apr 2006

Quote by Jenna-Rocko
C) We're ideally looking for a single bifem for my wife to play with, so her pics are more relevent than pics of my tackle!

Oh god... no tackle shots lol
I love "arty" body shots to perve over though and it doesn't have to be a perfectly smooth and tanned six pack to get my attention either.
As a single bi fem in the past and now as a couple I tend to dismiss couples ads with no pics of the male half on. A holiday snap with blurred faces will more than suffice. Having said that feklar and I haven't got any pics of us together... any volunteers to take one for us? lol