Couples with Photos

21 Apr 2006

Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that? confused

Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos? dunno

21 Apr 2006

Maybe the wife think she would never have any fun if people could see what she is shacked up with, so she chose to only post a pic of herself

21 Apr 2006

i agree completely. my profile has 10 pics of me, and two of him so at least they can see if they like the look of him. we never reply to adverts that only show the woman, after all - i like to know whats on offer for me lol.
i can understand that some guys need to be careful with who sees them on here, but a body pic hiding the face and any distinguishing marks would be enough.

21 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

Well, we agree in theory but we don't have any pics of Media as he isn't (like myself) going to show his face and we havn't (yet) taken any of his body (the ones of me are pre us getting together wink

)

21 Apr 2006

It's the same with just genital pics!
<<<<scratches head wondering why!!!!
I'd like to think we were being offered more than just bodies.

21 Apr 2006

Quote by well_busty_babe
i agree completely. my profile has 10 pics of me, and two of him so at least they can see if they like the look of him. we never reply to adverts that only show the woman, after all - i like to know whats on offer for me lol.
i can understand that some guys need to be careful with who sees them on here, but a body pic hiding the face and any distinguishing marks would be enough.

we do the same but I think there are 4 with paul in them.

21 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

Well... I have a theory! I suspect that a load of them are just males 'pretending' to be a couple to attract others. Then the others find out and don't tell other others e.g. Mods. I'm so sick of seeing 'couples' just posting pics of the woman, and usually the woman in all sorts of ungainly poses or with 'other' men!! rolleyes

:roll:
Just my opinion and I haven't done any form of research to back it up. It's the 'Bewitched' effect.
:P :P

21 Apr 2006

For us we do have some of me included.... not many I agree but thats purely because I take more of her than she does of me......
Besides she is far better looking and as its mostly guys browsing you have to attract the attention somehow eh.. I would be worried if a guy was attracted because of MY pics lol... You have to attract the browser to attract a couple.....
Mike xx

21 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Yep - it has been said before but not for a while and it usually ends up being other peoples opinions rather than the opinions that count... so, the question is...
Dear couples who are looking to meet other couples and females, who only post photos of the female half of the couple...
Why do you do that?
Why is the hubby/male partner left out of the photos?

I've said this before and agree 100% :thumbup:... it's almost like the female is being used as 'bait' to me... and of course it gives me nothing to perve at wink

I also agree with Jags - probably some naughty faggots trying to get a leg over :wink: .. I've heard of blow up dolls in dresses being used before now by gay blokes posing as a couple on web cam... and no Polo, it wasn't me lol

21 Apr 2006

Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

21 Apr 2006

Oh we would so love to be able to show â€˜properâ€™ pics of us both.
Unfortunately, as I have stated many times before rolleyes

a mixture of nosey online neighbours, an â€˜unawareâ€™ mostly online family, and a very sensitive job prevent us from doing so.
I am sure there are many more people on this site in a similar situation. As a small aside, it does seem a little amusing to me, that the last time this subject came up, some of the people who protested the loudest where those with N/A all over their profiles and no distance indicator dunno

21 Apr 2006

Quote by Robert1961
Maybe the wife think she would never have any fun if people could see what she is shacked up with, so she chose to only post a pic of herself

That's why Steve says he doesn't want his picture on there :lol2:
I do now have a body shot of Steve so I will put it on the ad.... He always maintains that most people are only interested in me anyway dunno

Shireen
xxx

21 Apr 2006

Quote by blonde
Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sadly, though we will send face pics privately, we would never, due to the nature of both our jobs and the fact that family (including Flidais kids) put them on here. As others have said, we all have our valid reasons for why we cannot post face pics and they need to be respected.

21 Apr 2006

i think a lot of people are agreed on not having face pics of either or both partners on the open site, due to privacy, jobs, family etc. its the same for us.
the difference is thet cpls who are happy to put a body (clothed or not) pic of the fem - but not the male. now FAIR ENOUGH it they are advertising for a single just to give the fem a good seeing when its a case of them advertising for a couple. they can hardly be surprised if the fem half of couples looking through the ads is not interested due to not seeing whats on offer.

21 Apr 2006

As a fem looking primarily for couples, I wont reply to ads or pm contact if there's no pic of the guy. There are several fems who interest me shall we say , but I hate this idea that she's being used as 'bait' and therefore on principal wont contact/ reply.
That said, I dont want cock shots lol

clothed body pics with face obscured are fine, I just want a basic idea of who's who and what's on offer :lol: Actual face pics are always good but very rarely found on the ad itself - if the ad and maybe the pics interest me then I will contact & ask for them (I dont have pics up either, but am happy to send them out privately, I expect the same courtesy in return or preferably before.
As things stand though, I usually meet people in person socially at a munch etc first anyway and thencheck out their ad :twisted: :lol:

21 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
Pololady
I totally agree with you ............... Our Ad is for a bi-fem which means she needs to want to get to know both of us :rascal:
So our Pictures are of both of us ........ fully clothed :shock:
Strangely enough ............ we want to know whats between the ears before we work our way down :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sadly, though we will send face pics privately, we would never, due to the nature of both our jobs and the fact that family (including Flidais kids) put them on here. As others have said, we all have our valid reasons for why we cannot post face pics and they need to be respected.
I didnt mention face pics ??????????????
I just agree that the photo's should have both halves of the couple in them ! Neck down is fine ........... but it should show both the male and the female if they are a couple IMHO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

21 Apr 2006

Women always have to be the one's to take the lead....men always seem to be camera shy...........unless it a pic of their......COCK! lol

21 Apr 2006

Funny you should say that da69ve because Steve is camera shy full stop... And he has never let me take a picture of his cock.... dunno

Shireen
xxx

21 Apr 2006

we got pics of us both on, was tempted not to put hubby on though everyone says he scary lol

prob why not had alot of luck :taz:

21 Apr 2006

Quote by fantasycpl
we got pics of us both on, was tempted not to put hubby on though everyone says he scary prob why not had alot of luck :taz:

Looks fine from where I'm sitting :twisted:

21 Apr 2006

:happy: aww thx hun made mr f's week now lol

21 Apr 2006

Quote by fantasycpl
:happy: aww thx hun made mr f's week now

wanna make his birthday too? :twisted: :twisted:

21 Apr 2006

ohh god that would set him up for life hun lol

he getting ever closer to the big 40 redface

21 Apr 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
Funny you should say that da69ve because Steve is camera shy full stop... And he has never let me take a picture of his cock....
Shireen
xxx

Also can camera shyness be linked to lacking confidence in yourself?
men do seem to lack confidence that women don't!
i myself hate having my picture taken!

21 Apr 2006

I would agree with you on that point da69ve.... biggrin

Shireen
xxx

21 Apr 2006

We dont have any pics of Mr NWC on our profile and to be honest, I hadnt even given it a thought. But then again, the profile is not on to arrange meets or anything, its just me that likes being a tart lol

But a ver good point and a good excuse to get the camera out and get some pics of him online!

21 Apr 2006

There are "one or two" of us individually kicking around the site, but I don't think there are any of us
But I'd struggle to find any of us together that would be "acceptable" to post
surprised

ops:

21 Apr 2006

I took 2 I think.................

21 Apr 2006

You did :idea:
Back in a bit

21 Apr 2006

You did :idea:
Back in a bit
Done.
Thanks for the reminder :thumbup: