Couples,please help the singles troubled heaven males!

17 Jul 2010

Quote by BIoke
Kents, I agree - your 'Mrs' looks lovely and you are ugly but there are some really shit hot, decent blokes around. We just never hear from or see any of them publicly on here as they are too busy shagging I guess

Fecki off ya cheeky fecker. wink

Mrs777 looks for a certain kind of guy....slim, shaved, can do Sat nights and is single.
Now we get messages from guys that are five zillion miles away, or are LARGE, or are hairy.
It clearly states in our advert what we are looking for, and it really fecking pisses me off when somebody answers our advert, but obviously has not read what we are looking for.
Over the last couple of months I have re-submitted our advert five times.....how many replies? One, fucking one reply from someone in Manchester ffs.
We know many people who do not even bother with this site for meets, as they say it is a waste of time, and I now agree with that. People I know tend to now go to clubs for their meets.
We used to go to the best we had been to in Skinnydippers, but that is now closed and have not been to another one since, as to be honest not really our cup of tea.
We have met some lovely guys and some couples along our journey in this scene, but certainly over the last 18 months the ammount of genuine guys on here has dropped......my opinion on the non success of our advert.
Still not losing any sleep over it as we do have a couple of regular guys we meet up with from time to time.
If another one comes along great....if not then we will not be greatly bothered by it, as we are not desperate and Mrs777 does not shag anything simply because he has a cock. lol

We do have a good life outside of this scene ya know.

17 Jul 2010

SO must say that am like Steve, who has been sending 32 messages, I'm always reading adverts,profiles every day here, and ONLY reply to those can make it or to those think am sort kind of guy suitable to them! Never reply to adverts far away up to 25 miles or to those am unsuitable, and being honest now, reply to some adverts just 2 miles away from my home(maybe they know me by sight) and then no reply, so really don't know how the couples finding single males as we heard lots of singles don't even get " sorry but not thanks"! Think should have a singles chat room,then if any couple fancy a single guy or girl,they would find that in the singles chat room,also am amazed with some couples moaning that they can't find the right guy or a genuine single male? How come? If singles here and anywhere are the majority( 160 to 1)! Today been reading 16 profiles and 38 adverts and you know what? Didn't reply to any,because i know that am not kind guy they are looking for,so won't wasting mine and theirs time,as simple as that,please keep going and leave more comments,have a nice weekend all!

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Bluefish2009
Kenty does have a point with his last post. We are full members here as we like it here best, but we are free members on anther site, if we put an add on here and one on the other we have a far higher response on the free site. Our uptake on meets resulting from the messages are about the same on each site though.

we found the same and the only thing we could put it down to was this site has good chat and easy to use forum so it becomes more of a social site whereas the other site we use has useless chat and not as good a forum so peeps spend their time there looking for meets so is more of a swinging site
we find 85% of our meets contact us on the other site and they funny thing is maybe 30% of those are on here too like us but contacted us there not here
steve sorry to hear ya not getting replies hun thats just rude we always always reply even if they have obviously not even read out profile
keep perservering though hun don't give up you'll find fun out there somewhere

19 Jul 2010

I wont hold my breath :lol2:

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Steve
I wont hold my breath :lol2:

You have a PM! kiss

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Sappho
I wont hold my breath :lol2:

You have a PM! kiss

And what a delightful PM it was too :kiss:

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Bluefish2009
Difficult to answer that one, I suspect many have a group of people they meet and are not looking for anyone new, but forget to update their profiles.

It sounds like I'm constantly trying to prove you wrong here but I'm not....Honest :lol2:
I only send messages to profiles that have a current ad on their profile for the very reason you outline...
A profile can become outdated quickly whereas an ad or a forum post is up to date..
Clearly they plain rude then Steve
I would say exactly that. We reply to every message even if they have obviously not read our profile and are not what we're looking for. Even if its a smutty message, I refuse to lower myself to their level ... Manners cost nowt!!
Its not hard to say "Thanks for your message but you're not what we're looking for" is it?

19 Jul 2010

Quote by bouncy332
Kenty does have a point with his last post. We are full members here as we like it here best, but we are free members on anther site, if we put an add on here and one on the other we have a far higher response on the free site. Our uptake on meets resulting from the messages are about the same on each site though.

we found the same and the only thing we could put it down to was this site has good chat and easy to use forum so it becomes more of a social site whereas the other site we use has useless chat and not as good a forum so peeps spend their time there looking for meets so is more of a swinging site
we find 85% of our meets contact us on the other site and they funny thing is maybe 30% of those are on here too like us but contacted us there not here
steve sorry to hear ya not getting replies hun thats just rude we always always reply even if they have obviously not even read out profile
keep perservering though hun don't give up you'll find fun out there somewhere
:thumbup:
We have came on here looking for single guys, we have put ads on and get nothing. Even the single guys who we arrange to meet, eventually make up an excuse before they are supposed to come round. Ok some reasons may be genuine but some obviously bottle it!
On 'the other site' wink

we put a status thing on and within 2 hours we've had a guy round!!
Madness!!

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Funlovers2009
On 'the other site' we put a status thing on and within 2 hours we've had a guy round!!
Madness!!

I think you've 'hit the nail on the head'.. partly! - i.e. spontaneous is good - they don't have time to think about it too much and they are horny and ready to rock. With ads. the urge has sometimes has gone as the time approaches and/or they've gunked their load and just wanna sleep..let alone leave the house! smile

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Funlovers2009
We have came on here looking for single guys, we have put ads on and get nothing. Even the single guys who we arrange to meet, eventually make up an excuse before they are supposed to come round. Ok some reasons may be genuine but some obviously bottle it!
On 'the other site' we put a status thing on and within 2 hours we've had a guy round!!
Madness!!

Only because I'm bloody miles away ;-)

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Steve

We have came on here looking for single guys, we have put ads on and get nothing. Even the single guys who we arrange to meet, eventually make up an excuse before they are supposed to come round. Ok some reasons may be genuine but some obviously bottle it!
On 'the other site' we put a status thing on and within 2 hours we've had a guy round!!
Madness!!

-- Just aquestion please,where is this site? Can you leave the address in my inbox please? Sounds that people are getting real meets there? Maybe it is a goood site for real meets?

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Fun_Laughs
-- Just aquestion please,where is this site? Can you leave the address in my inbox please? Sounds that people are getting real meets there? Maybe it is a goood site for real meets?

I was thinking the same thing :lol2: