is there anybody out there,who wants to talk about there cuckholding experiances, either being the bull, the cuck, or the wife,,would love to her your stories,thoughts,if you like it,love it,or loathe it,but are to far down the road to change things.
I've moved this into the Cafe because it's not really a chat room subject, but when you ask a question like this it always good to start the ball rolling by giving your thoughts first. ;-)
Quote by Benidorm007 is there anybody out there,who wants to talk about there cuckholding experiances, either being the bull, the cuck, or the wife,,would love to her your stories,thoughts,if you like it,love it,or loathe it,but are to far down the road to change things.
I don't really know much about it so would love to talk about it more. Can you give a bit of an explanation on cuckhold as a whole cause I'm sure I'm not the only one who would like to know more! :thumbup: To the forums btw! :mrgreen:
cant say am expert on the subject - but do have a couple of experiences I know one couple who are friends of mine - where the husband is more than happy for the wife to have several boyfriends - he doesnt get involved - but knows his wife has larger sexual appetite than he does - and is happy for her to indulge it. Another couple i know - hubby likes to watch his wife with her lovers - it was a bit strange at first - but then it became a real turn-on - knowing that we were doing something totally forbidden - she was quite prim and proper lady - but she really got off on screwing men in front of her husband - i remember him telling me once that i was the third guy to f*ck his wife that week - what a scream.
Quote by Benidorm007 is there anybody out there,who wants to talk about there cuckholding experiances, either being the bull, the cuck, or the wife,,would love to her your stories,thoughts,if you like it,love it,or loathe it,but are to far down the road to change things.
:welcome: to the forum - not something I've any experience about but am sure there are lots of stories about it over there <<<<<<<<<<<<
I have been seeing a couple for some time now.. Hubby never joins in but does video the action. Its not my place to ask their reasons.. sometimes she meets me alone with his knowledge, She has a high sex drive and its an alternative to her from dogging... at least she knows what she will get from me! It never looses is buzz for me and I hope its the same for them..
It's a real buzz to watch the wife with her 'friends'. She will not normally go with someone who is too much 'like me', so she can excuse it on her liking for variety. So, we have a small circle of trusted people - all are w/e or v/w/e. Most are black but all are reliable and good social company too. Why do I enjoy it? Because it is sexy to watch and her pleasure is my pleasure. I don't think I have any sub-agenda - I'm not bi (as far as I know). She is careful not to belittle me too much but, when she is being well-treated and multi orgasmic, the facts speak for themselves. Some gentle humiliation goes on from her and her friend. That seems to give them both pleasure. It's mainly about penis size and how deep the penetration or how broad the girth of her lover. We don't indulge too often - a few time a month - but it is great fun for us both.
Hi travlinmanukok. I've tried watching from behind the door and it can be a turn on. But Sarah needs to be relaxed with her lover for that to work. There are a couple of guys she is happy to be left alone with but for most she wants me around - in the same or next room. It can be a turn on to walk in while she is shagging or has just finished and/or hear her coming while I am not in the room. I do try to leave them alone for a while so they can start, finish or have a sexy chat without me there.
Mmmm Varca, I see from your profile that it's safe sex always for you. I respect that stance. I have to admit that the answer to your question is 'it depends' and that yes, cleaning up does, occasionally, figure in the action.
Quote by Cubes I've moved this into the Cafe because it's not really a chat room subject, but when you ask a question like this it always good to start the ball rolling by giving your thoughts first. ;-)
Sorry. I really am not a pedant in anyway, but I do have to just say because this thread is making me giggle all kind of unnecessarily and I don't want people to think I am laughing at them, it's not, it is the image in my mind... let me explain why... Cuck Holders are the things you store Gordon Ramsey, Anthony Worral-Thompson and Jamie Oliver in when they are not on TV or farting around in the kitchen. Cuckolds however are husbands who have a "hotwife" and who will happily let her have sex with whoever she likes and may even have a dominant male who humiliates him whilst having sex with his partner. Not my cup of tea (the humiliation part anyway... Not bothered about the sex bit, but if anyone tried humiliating me, they'd be eating their Jamie Oliver tarragon and turmeric turnip tureen through a tube in a hospital bed).
Given the nature of cuckoldry, I don't think you need to worry about avoiding people Varna. However, I think it is better not to knock or mock other people's sexual practices. That is the start of intolerance. We're all adults and, if we chose to indulge in what others see as risky activities, that is a matter for each individual.
My wife's recently started taking other lovers, with my full approval, though I haven't watched or joined in (yet!), and it really turns me on when she comes home and tells me what she's been doing! Our sex life has needed "spicing up" for years, and this has really done the trick - we're now looking to be more adventurous!
Perhaps I was being a bit over-sensitive. I don't criticise anybody else's life choices - if I don't like them, I don't join in. So I get concerned when someone appears to be making fun of our choices.
I don't think Varca was making fun really, she just said it wasn't for her. She even said she could see the appeal but for her, the overriding concern was one of sexual health and safety. If you are referring to my post, the bit that made me laugh (entirely through amusement) was the repeated mis-spelling of the word "Cuckold" and the implications of it. That's all. What you choose to do is your business alone my friend. I don't have to agree with it and as I made clear, there are certain aspects of it which I personally don't find altogether appealling, but that is the nature of a forum and when a point is made and opinions and comments sought. Nobody's said what Cuckold's do is wrong or making fun of your choices. I made fun of a spelling mistake and Varca and I made our opinions on the matter known. What you choose to do is entirely your choice, so don't end the thread, keep posting as I am sure there are a great many people who would like to hear the other side of the story.
Hi Resonance. No, it wasn't your post - I appreciated the humour and it was something to laugh about, not at, if you see what I mean. But I do enjoy the very positive tone of the postings in all these forums. I, for one, would rather keep quiet than to change that tone. I don't think cuckoldry is something one makes a conscious decision to go into, it just happened and I found it enjoyable. And, most importantly, so does the wife!
Quote by sarmic Hi Resonance. No, it wasn't your post - I appreciated the humour and it was something to laugh about, not at, if you see what I mean. But I do enjoy the very positive tone of the postings in all these forums. I, for one, would rather keep quiet than to change that tone. I don't think cuckoldry is something one makes a conscious decision to go into, it just happened and I found it enjoyable. And, most importantly, so does the wife!
YAY ! I have a convert! Can I quote you endlessly on that?! ;-) Thanks for the reply! I must admit, I don't know if I am half a cuckold or not. I do enjoy seeing the wife with another man a great deal... However I have no inclination to be humiliated in any way or be a submissive, inactive part of it. I always feel I am part of it, even if I am not doing something at one time or another... I have no desire to play with the man in question, I'm happy to play with my wife with him, or with his wife/girlfriend with him in a MMF situation, but it wouldn't be as a cuckold, but an equal... So I don't know what that classes me as... Got me thinking though...
Hi Sarmic, Im sure Varca will be along to explain her post at some point, but I read it to mean she would know who to avoid because of the bareback element not the cuckhold side of things. And dont you dare keep quite your posts have made some really interesting reading It is not something we have tried (well, not the humiliation side of things) and have to say that I dont have an interest in that side of it, but being watched by my hubby when I am playing is one of the most exciting, erotic things I have ever experienced (but then again, it came very close to watching him play which was also very exicting) :wink:
A variation of cuckolding is something I would like to try. I would like to be forced to watch my 'partner' have sex with another man, I wouldn't be humiliated by her, but taunted, teased, the constant looks across at me, the constant comments of how she is enjoying it, how he is giving her pleasure, how he is fucking her, and I am forced to watch, I am forced to listen, I am forced to be the good boy she wants me to be. It all ends with him leaving the room (in this instance a hotel room) and now she turns her attentions on me, touching me, stroking me, talking into my ear, going over in very graphic detail what he did to her, what the sex did to her, and how I couldn't be part of it, and pushing me, trying to break me, trying to get me to beg for the pleasure that she gave him, that he gave her, how much I want her, how much I want to please her..... Not given it much thought really.
Essex, that's interesting. More than one of my female partners over the years has mentioned the fantasy of being forced to have sex with someone and ending up enjoying it. I've thought long and hard about how one could build this into a mutually satisfying session but there are so many boundaries to respect. Even now, the wife responds to having one arm pinned to the bed. To the outsider, it's a bit distasteful and you would need people you can trust. I think I could enjoy the same scenario but how?
I don't see why humiliation seems to be assumed, though I know that aspect exists. I don't feel the least bit humiliated...in fact I think a big turn on for me is the fact that other men find MY wife sexy. It's made an incredible difference to our sex life since we started exploring that side of things. In fact, she's been out all afternoon/evening with another guy, while I've been out for a drink with my mates, and I can't wait for her to get home and tell me all the details of what she's been up to!
Quote by essex34m A variation of cuckolding is something I would like to try. I would like to be forced to watch my 'partner' have sex with another man, I wouldn't be humiliated by her, but taunted, teased, the constant looks across at me, the constant comments of how she is enjoying it, how he is giving her pleasure, how he is fucking her, and I am forced to watch, I am forced to listen, I am forced to be the good boy she wants me to be. It all ends with him leaving the room (in this instance a hotel room) and now she turns her attentions on me, touching me, stroking me, talking into my ear, going over in very graphic detail what he did to her, what the sex did to her, and how I couldn't be part of it, and pushing me, trying to break me, trying to get me to beg for the pleasure that she gave him, that he gave her, how much I want her, how much I want to please her..... Not given it much thought really.
I have to say - found this conversation interesting - esp from the husbands pt of view. I dont have much experience - but speaking from the other mans point of view (the third man in the MMF) - there is something very horny about being with a hotwife while her hubby watches - its the forbidden thrill of it all. The fact that her husband allows her to take other lovers - makes it even mroe exciting. What cuckolding is - just depends on the couple. One couple i know, her husband never got involved at all - for all intents and purposes i was his wife's boyfriend, we used to go out for meals - before going back to my place. he was just happy to hear the details later - but for another couple - husband was really into watching/participating. Either way, it was all good!
Quote by westman I have to say - found this conversation interesting - esp from the husbands pt of view. I dont have much experience - but speaking from the other mans point of view (the third man in the MMF) - there is something very horny about being with a hotwife while her hubby watches - its the forbidden thrill of it all. The fact that her husband allows her to take other lovers - makes it even mroe exciting. What cuckolding is - just depends on the couple. One couple i know, her husband never got involved at all - for all intents and purposes i was his wife's boyfriend, we used to go out for meals - before going back to my place. he was just happy to hear the details later - but for another couple - husband was really into watching/participating. Either way, it was all good!
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your posts have made some really interesting reading 
