courtesy of wikipedia......
The term has acquired additional meanings within certain sub-cultures, referring to couples where a dominant female takes on additional partners, while a submissive male is either monogamous to her, denied sex altogether, or only allowed to perform a restricted range of sex acts with her and sometimes also her lover.
Cuckolding among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are voluntarily "cuckolded" by their wives, as part of the husband's sexual fantasy of gaining sexual pleasure from being humiliated by his wife; indeed, the husband may even be the instigator of this practice, raising questions about who is truly the dominant partner. This is a common theme in letters to erotica magazines.
In the fantasy realm, the wife of a cuckold is sometimes referred to as a hotwife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and bull is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behaviour; the male third party, or bull representing an aggressive alpha male and the cuckold suggesting weakness, fear and vulnerability. There some who consider the use of the term "bull" to be offensive, and this term is not commonly used in the BDSM community.
In cuckoldry the cuck can submit to humiliation, called serving with common themes including: feminization and oral sex with the hotwife or bull following their intercourse, called a creampie or cleaning up.
So if theres a couple and the guy liked the thought of his other half going with other guys but didnt wish to see or partake in the activitys and then hear about them after, would he be seen as a cuck still.
Louise xx
hence why in some cultures, particularly Spain the phrase 'poner los cuernos' means to put the horns on someone. This is depicted by the holding up of forefinger and little finger to denote bulls horns. basic dergodatory message is i've shagged your missus mate.
I have been 'into' this type of scenario ever since I learned about it some years ago. However my being a female ads a little twist to the traditional cuckold scenario. It's not the same as a man enjoying seeing his wife with another man/woman, it's where the man is submissive and takes some form of gratification from knowing that his wife is unfaithful and cannot satisfy her.
Hi just like to say that true cuckold is where the hubby is forced to watch his wife fucked by another guy or guys and if he is good he may be asked to clean his wife of her lovers cum wherever it has been shot. But in reality its whatever the lady and or her lover or even better the couple themselves want to do or try whatever turns them on is whatever cuckold means to them. Try it and if you enjoy try more and if you dont remove the bit you didnt like and try something new. This is my opinion and my brief overview some may or may not agree but this is it in its simplest form
Mark
Hi and ty for the welcome to the forum. I try to speak openly and honestly in all i write. If it works for you why bother if it fits in a particular pigeon hole. if anyone wishs to ask me any more information or ask my opinions please feel free to message
Hi in past I have played with many couples as a cuckold master and like most things there are no set rules,I have had couples in which the husband is happy to just sit watch me with his wife, but at the other end of the scales, I have spent time with couples where the husband is not happy unless he is totaly abused, both physicaly and mentaly,bondage s/m the full works, and then there are those who play at ever level some where in the middle, so it is realy what you are happy with be it mild to wild , good luck in your serch shame Im so far away.J
Hi all,
I hope I'm not going too far off the subject here but I much prefer sex with married women. I've never really understood why but it seems that being with someone else's wife is a real turn on for me. It's nothing to do with the risk of carrying on 'behind someone's back' as I prefer the husband to be there, and it's usually better it he takes part.
Does anyone have any opinions as to why I feel this way?
I know this doesn't really add to the topic but I thought I'd air my views anyway.
Keep having fun,
Bob xxx
I get the general thing of what cuckolding is about, but would love to understand exactly what people enjoy about it, especially what a woman gets from it. Please excuse me from being naive about it, but if you dont ask you dont get. Is cuckolding very personal to your requirements or is there a sort of general way of doing things.
