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I was pondering....:shock: again!! youd'd not think I had other stuff to do such as chores, voluntary work, feeding kids or a huge menagerie of animals.....
but yes, I found myself pondering, as i do a lot since I joined SH.......
do people swing during the day, and if so do they feel any different that doing a night time meet.
The reason I asked (see FB, and providing my own opinions in OP lol lol) is that i fancied a quickie the other day while Mr Bone was out, so had a guy round, during the day, and it felt really sexy....like i was doing something more naughty by doing it in the day when all the neighbours were going about their daily business.
And it felt different cos our street was much busier during the day, (obviously)than when i usually do my swinging after midnight at home or going out to someone elses house, and it felt like someone might knock on my door any minute.
I dunno i just found it very horny...but a different kind of horny than swinging sex at night time. It felt more risque, and well, more dirty (but dirty in a nice way lol) and its something I would definately do again.
anyone else know what on earth im going on about??
Quote by Bonedigger
I was pondering....:shock: again!! youd'd not think I had other stuff to do such as chores, voluntary work, feeding kids or a huge menagerie of animals.....
but yes, I found myself pondering, as i do a lot since I joined SH.......
do people swing during the day, and if so do they feel any different that doing a night time meet.
The reason I asked (see FB, and providing my own opinions in OP lol lol) is that i fancied a quickie the other day while Mr Bone was out, so had a guy round, during the day, and it felt really sexy....like i was doing something more naughty by doing it in the day when all the neighbours were going about their daily business.
And it felt different cos our street was much busier during the day, (obviously)than when i usually do my swinging after midnight at home or going out to someone elses house, and it felt like someone might knock on my door any minute.
I dunno i just found it very horny...but a different kind of horny than swinging sex at night time. It felt more risque, and well, more dirty (but dirty in a nice way lol) and its something I would definately do again.
anyone else know what on earth im going on about??

Yes I do! lol
Day or night doesn't really make any difference, but daytime liasons do feel slightly more risky, or dangerous.
When I think about it I think I prefer daytime meets, because of that extra frisson.
:smitten:
frission.......thats the word that was eluding me!! thanks BBW_love......sexy AND intelligent lol
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frission.......thats the word that was eluding me!! thanks BBW_love......sexy AND intelligent lol

You too hun.
kiss
Do you know Mrs B you beat me to it, was gonna post the very same question! We've always had evening meets but next week we have our first daytime meet, and I can't decide whether it will feel as sexy cos my usual daytime wear and mindset is different or will it feel horny for the reason you said, it is naughty, risky lol
Hmmm still undecided so shall report back after the scientific experiment has been performed wink hump
pink x
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Do you know Mrs B you beat me to it, was gonna post the very same question! We've always had evening meets but next week we have our first daytime meet, and I can't decide whether it will feel as sexy cos my usual daytime wear and mindset is different or will it feel horny for the reason you said, it is naughty, risky lol
Hmmm still undecided so shall report back after the scientific experiment has been performed wink hump
pink x

ooooooooohhhh :shock: how spooky is that :shock:
maybe we are in tune Pink....would like to hear of your experience, and what you thought of it., as I say I loved mine and would definately do it again biggrin
We have never had a day time meet so I can`t really comment on whether its sexier or naughtier etc but........ yesterday mr lyns rang me as I was getting in from doing the school run and basicly wondered if I fancied a shag :lol2:. Men they put it so delicatly!!.
To cut a long story short mr lyns popped home from work and we did the deed hump.
Before I could blink he was gone again and I felt so naughty redface . It was fun tho :giggle:
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We have never had a day time meet so I can`t really comment on whether its sexier or naughtier etc but........ yesterday mr lyns rang me as I was getting in from doing the school run and basicly wondered if I fancied a shag :lol2:. Men they put it so delicatly!!.
To cut a long story short mr lyns popped home from work and we did the deed hump.
Before I could blink he was gone again and I felt so naughty redface . It was fun tho :giggle:

mmmmmmmmmm lyns, sounds like u had fun lol lol
ooh defo daytime meets most of the meets i have on my own are daytimes and loads more horny and always a nice story to tell dek when he gets in from work.
lol lol lol lol lol lol
its very risque as most of my neighbours are very friendly and will just walk in without knockin so have to remember to lock door etc which makes it even more naughty specially when u can hear em trying the door :shock: then lata when they say i tried before but u were not in, makes u have a little "in the know" giggle to yourself
Daytimes have always worked well for me.
Not entirely sure that I have a preference in that direction - but maybe there is an extra 'buzz' from playing when you should be working. As I'm self employed I have to 'catch up' in the evening or at night - so there is a self imposed cost to my daytime pleasure - which probably ticks the reward/punishment box.
The other thing I've found with daytime meets is everyone is generally sober, and as someone who is a light drinker and doesn't play with people who are heavily intoxicated, that suits me fine.
Lots of other scenarios to get involved in as well - as to time, place etc.
Ring the changes - it can only be healthy! lol
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Daytimes have always worked well for me.
Not entirely sure that I have a preference in that direction - but maybe there is an extra 'buzz' from playing when you should be working. As I'm self employed I have to 'catch up' in the evening or at night - so there is a self imposed cost to my daytime pleasure - which probably ticks the reward/punishment box.
The other thing I've found with daytime meets is everyone is generally sober, and as someone who is a light drinker and doesn't play with people who are heavily intoxicated, that suits me fine.
Lots of other scenarios to get involved in as well - as to time, place etc.
Ring the changes - it can only be healthy! lol

I agree! It makes for a much better shag :shock:
redface
But what the hell am I gonna wear? Evening I always dress up, skirts, heels, stocking etc will htat be overkill in the day or do I go the sexy jeans/t-shirt route for the girl next door kinda shag?
pink x
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But what the hell am I gonna wear? Evening I always dress up, skirts, heels, stocking etc will htat be overkill in the day or do I go the sexy jeans/t-shirt route for the girl next door kinda shag?
pink x

Hmm, tis autumn already......wear a long coat & boots with very little underneath......:rascal:
i wore one of my bones shirts and nothing else, but then again it was in my house lol
I always meet under the cover of darkness, so wouldnt know about daytime meets.
Too much light involved :shock:
lol
Louise xx
We've swung during the day, yes. Which do I prefer? probably the nighttime as I'm a night person, candles, atmosphere etc., and a glass of mind to get you in the relaxed mood (nerves still get me!), so it's not quite the same during the day in that respect wink
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We've swung during the day, yes. Which do I prefer? probably the nighttime as I'm a night person, candles, atmosphere etc., and a glass of mind to get you in the relaxed mood (nerves still get me!), so it's not quite the same during the day in that respect wink

Ooh I could just do with a glass of that right now :silly:
I quite like a day time shag too. I like being mischeivious (sp)
Fire xx
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We've swung during the day, yes. Which do I prefer? probably the nighttime as I'm a night person, candles, atmosphere etc., and a glass of mind to get you in the relaxed mood (nerves still get me!), so it's not quite the same during the day in that respect wink

Ooh I could just do with a glass of that right now :silly:
I quite like a day time shag too. I like being mischeivious (sp)
Fire xx
rotflmao what the hell??? :silly: yes ok, I meant Wine! lol
shagging in the day is good as it don't wake the neighbours..... biggrin
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shagging in the day is good as it don't wake the neighbours..... biggrin

It would mine, he's a night shift worker! rotflmao
Sorry Markz :doh:
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But what the hell am I gonna wear? Evening I always dress up, skirts, heels, stocking etc will htat be overkill in the day or do I go the sexy jeans/t-shirt route for the girl next door kinda shag?
pink x

Hmm, tis autumn already......wear a long coat & boots with very little underneath......:rascal:
Good idea winchy, you're a gem wink time to get the boots out again me thinks :grin:
still feeling unsure about this daytime business though confused
Bit of a rough diamond perhaps wink
I remember getting lost on the way to a daytime meet, wearing a trenchcoat and some kinky lingerie......
I stopped to ask a couple of policemen the way, and they insisted on showing me! I was trying to follow their car, and I could barely drive for the tears rolling down my cheeks rotflmao
:karaoke:..."but I know you ain't wearing nothin underneath that overcoat....and it's all on show....":karaoke:
(name that tune lol)
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:karaoke:..."but I know you ain't wearing nothin underneath that overcoat....and it's all on show....":karaoke:
(name that tune lol)

I googled it - thankfully I didn't know it!
(or won't admit to it! lol )
Don't smackbottom Diss smackbottom Aerosmith! smackbottom lol
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But what the hell am I gonna wear? Evening I always dress up, skirts, heels, stocking etc will htat be overkill in the day or do I go the sexy jeans/t-shirt route for the girl next door kinda shag?
pink x

Personally I quite like a woman in nice close fitting jeans and a skinny type t-shirt :rascal:
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But what the hell am I gonna wear? Evening I always dress up, skirts, heels, stocking etc will htat be overkill in the day or do I go the sexy jeans/t-shirt route for the girl next door kinda shag?
pink x

Personally I quite like a woman in nice close fitting jeans and a skinny type t-shirt :rascal:
Well Mallock, that's my usual kinds daywear really, but surely most guys prefer skirts for meets? We once met a couple in a hotel where she turned up in jeans and Blue just felt it wasn't as sexy as making an effort to dress up (ok this was an evening)
Still undecided folks... confused
Mr W has a thing for shapely women in tight jeans too. I wouldn't entertain wearing jeans to a meet though- I wouldn't feel like I'd made the effort if I was wearing something I'd go to Tesco's in.
confused
OK so after our daytime meet this week, I can say that I still prefer evening ones. Dunno why, the ambience maybe dunno
Was kinda weird and naughty being nicely dressed up dropping kids off at school then driving on to a meet.
Best thing was the shag/lunch/shag bit, and rather surreal sitting in their conservatory in a babydoll, heels and a smile eating lunch! :lol2:
pink x
ooooooohhhh Pink, it sounds fab hun lol am dead jealous now hun lol
glad you had a good time biggrin
Night time for me I think. I dont wake up till then confused
Does that make me a creature of the night I wonder?