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well its sunday morning ive just been reading the replys what the fuck you seen to be taking a swipe at me. fucking hell man all i did was make an observation and now i am getting a slating , but no point in adding fuel to the fire is there. i made my point and you lot made yr point lets move on
You made an observation that was unfounded and blatently untrue. I don't think what peple have said is slagging you off too much, I think they're very honest replies.... shows that people are interested in telling you the truth. Consider it a compliment. If you actually want to contribute to this forum in a postive way, people might have positive things to say about you. If you don't like this forum, what are you doing here?
i did nit say i did not like this forum did i . yr all too ready to jump onto the band wagon????
an observation was all that it was, it was not meant to piss people off, but hey how about dropping it
p,s i was only being honest i dont know how these sites work or dont work. is there an in crowd lol ffs
if ya gonna all jump on ,me what do you exspect lol. i am not here to argue anyway
off to buy a new car laters
:wanker: springs to mind for this guy.... dunno
Shireen
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seems like you lot have only one intent then , laters
You come on the site and say "This site is dead in the water". People disagree so you take your football and go home? What did you expect to happen? People aren't jumping on the bandwagon at all, they know for a fact that this site isn't dead in the water and they're responding to your original comment. We're still waiting for you to justify what you said? dunno
Steve
I think theres another thread related to this one...............'What is trolling?'
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I think theres another thread related to this one...............'What is trolling?'

Good point and well spotted.
Steve
Yes mate you are right! This site is dead in the water! Nobody ever gets to meet anybody never mind having sex together or just a laugh and a drink! May as well toddle along....go on now....find something better to do with your life....I mean it! There's nothing for you here....you are completely wasting your time! You're much better off without this site it's addictive anyway! You'd be better off trying a local singles club! It's a hit and miss affair but it's a damn site less hard work than being on here, I can tell you! You'd never fit in...there's too many cliques and in crowds for the likes of you. How could you survive in such a competitive environment! Far too much competition....so on your way.....and good luck!
LC wink
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Yes mate you are right! This site is dead in the water! Nobody ever gets to meet anybody never mind having sex together or just a laugh and a drink! May as well toddle along....go on now....find something better to do with your life....I mean it! There's nothing for you here....you are completely wasting your time! You're much better off without this site it's addictive anyway! You'd be better off trying a local singles club! It's a hit and miss affair but it's a damn site less hard work than being on here, I can tell you! You'd never fit in...there's too many cliques and in crowds for the likes of you. How could you survive in such a competitive environment! Far too much competition....so on your way.....and good luck!
LC wink

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Oh LC, i think you are telling porkies, you forgot i got the piccies to prove it lol
Gill & Del x
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Yes mate you are right! This site is dead in the water! Nobody ever gets to meet anybody never mind having sex together or just a laugh and a drink! May as well toddle along....go on now....find something better to do with your life....I mean it! There's nothing for you here....you are completely wasting your time! You're much better off without this site it's addictive anyway! You'd be better off trying a local singles club! It's a hit and miss affair but it's a damn site less hard work than being on here, I can tell you! You'd never fit in...there's too many cliques and in crowds for the likes of you. How could you survive in such a competitive environment! Far too much competition....so on your way.....and good luck!
LC wink

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Oh LC, i think you are telling porkies, you forgot i got the piccies to prove it lol
Gill & Del x
Yes, I know....but there's no convincing some people, photographic evidence will still be never enough! They'll probably say it's all faked or something! Sigh! rolleyes
LC :wink:
fuck me you take this so serious ffs lighten up
as i said this is the last one from me now it will give you hours to chat about i am sure but hey byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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I don't want to get into yet another argument about this site and I don't want to put you off.....but.....
You have only been registered since 1st September and this is your first post in the Cafe.
Please don't judge the site on the ads or because you've had no luck meeting you might need to persevere with the ads section or in "lets meet up".
The Cafe is full of wonderful people who respect each other, who like to have a laugh, who like to meet up with others etc etc but if you come here moaning or making accusationary statements on your first thread you won't get much help or luck i'm afraid.
There are lots of people in your position, and yes, it might be frustrating to contend with timewasters and the like but don't tar everyone with the same brush. There are decent people who want to meet others just like you do. Join in, have a laugh but don't take it personally if you get rejected or people are a waste of time..... just carry on and in the end things will come right. Patience and luck both have their part to play so bear with it and all will be fine.
You might find it helpful to look through past threads with advice on meeting people - I assume you are a single male. There are lots of advice threads on here so you can help yourself, as much as you are willing to.
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but i have had some asshole replys on here though where are the nice replys lol but i must move on
Let me be the first to apologise. I didn't realise that you expected us all to just forget our own personal opinions about the state of the site and accept your intilal comment. I really must learn to lighten up and treat comments like yours with the respect they deserve.
Steve
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fuck me you take this so serious ffs lighten up
as i said this is the last one from me now it will give you hours to chat about i am sure but hey byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

It's actually you that needs to lighten up! We use a lot of humour around here and if you can't handle that then that's another reason you won't like this site. People have tried to make you see how this site works and have given their time to write to you. Despite this you have failed to understand what has been said and have just taken a defensive position. You refuse to acknowledge your ignorance! Whilst others have come onto this site equally as doubtful as you, a lot of them have listened to the advice they were given and have stuck around. People have tried to make you see things in different ways, some using humour and some not! What more can we say, we have tried!
Do I take this site serious?..yes! Because it does work for those that are prepared to make it work! Yeah, I guess I do take it seriously! After all, I'm getting laid mate! On a regular basis! While you're still tossing yourself off on your lonesome! Funny that! rolleyes
I think the guy's winding everyone up.
Intentionally.
Look at his photo:

Looks like a reporter, probably local press.
Even if Jomu is onto something we have to say that some of the guys on here are brilliant.
The effort some of them put in to try to help the misguided is tangible and genuine.
It never ceases to impress us just how hard they will try to welcome newcomers and persuade them to stick around even though inevitably the cake shrinks and the gratitude received is MOSTLY zero.
Then again this assumes that the guys who post regularly on here do so primarily for sex which clearly isn`t the case....or if it was it certainly aint priority now.
I think that everything that needs to be said about this has been said several times, so I am now locking it.