I've fairly recently discovered the pleasure of delayed orgasm i.e. getting right to the edge and then DEAD STOP :!: for about 10-15 minutes.
By repeating this a few times over the space of a few hours my orgasms end up being incredibly powerful. It takes a huge amount of will power and concentration to get the moments just right but it's really rewarding. I haven't refined it enough yet to say what the optimum times and gaps are. Has anyone researched this more?
And just wondering does this work for women as well?
it might do... but why bother when a woman can have 20 orgasms or more..... :smile2:
(actually it does increase the intensity but, for me personally, I can do that by combining the various orgasms to have them simultaneously)
So unfair, but I'm not jealous :mrgreen:
thats a bit like tantric sex..........i think......
thats all i know!
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I delay my first orgasm all the time, it makes so much difference.
I really enjoy using orgasm denial as part of D/s play. There's nothing quite like hearing a breathless woman begging you to let her cum this time.
we have been trained in tantric massage- where you can delay the big o and then turn it into a full body orgasm which leaves you with a silly grin for a week! works on both male & female