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small regular meals and excersise. Eat what ya like but eat it in moderation. I ain't an expert not gunna pretend i am, but i have lost about 3 stone in as many months( having said that I did go from being pretty much sedentary to using a gym 5 or 6 times a week).
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i lost 10 1/2 stone but that was due to divorce :doh: in just over 12 mths, i need to lose 3 more grrr n on a bad diet ( so im told!!) but 1 thing i always follow is REALLYYYY cold water, your body has to heat the water before you get rid of it, therefore your metabolism works harder and uses more calories, just a small thing that may help biggrin xxj

no no no no no! lol I've been advised freezing water is the worst you can do to your body. Apparently it shocks the gut and can cause all kinds of problems. You are far better to drink warmer kinder water and work out more :lol:
Oh and razor.... flippin fantastic weight loss girl! well done kiss
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i lost 10 1/2 stone but that was due to divorce :doh: in just over 12 mths, i need to lose 3 more grrr n on a bad diet ( so im told!!) but 1 thing i always follow is REALLYYYY cold water, your body has to heat the water before you get rid of it, therefore your metabolism works harder and uses more calories, just a small thing that may help biggrin xxj

no no no no no! lol I've been advised freezing water is the worst you can do to your body. Apparently it shocks the gut and can cause all kinds of problems. You are far better to drink warmer kinder water and work out more :lol:
Oh and razor.... flippin fantastic weight loss girl! well done kiss
Oh fook :shock: I better get the kettle on then.
:lol: and thank you Jay xxj
Mar in support of you diet plan I know of two groups of rats. Both groups have the same amount to eat. One group can eat when they like, the food never being removed. The other have food three times a day for half an hour. The last group is the fattest.
So eat a little and often.
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Mar in support of you diet plan I know of two groups of rats. Both groups have the same amount to eat. One group can eat when they like, the food never being removed. The other have food three times a day for half an hour. The last group is the fattest.
So eat a little and often.

exactamondo my friend xx lol
Try green tea, apparently it increases your metabolic rate without the ill effects of caffiene or freezing water.
H.x
Quote by jaymar
i lost 10 1/2 stone but that was due to divorce :doh: in just over 12 mths, i need to lose 3 more grrr n on a bad diet ( so im told!!) but 1 thing i always follow is REALLYYYY cold water, your body has to heat the water before you get rid of it, therefore your metabolism works harder and uses more calories, just a small thing that may help biggrin xxj

no no no no no! lol I've been advised freezing water is the worst you can do to your body. Apparently it shocks the gut and can cause all kinds of problems. You are far better to drink warmer kinder water and work out more :lol:
Oh and razor.... flippin fantastic weight loss girl! well done kiss
So is it warm or feezing cold??? Quick, Im stood here wating with me water!!!!! :lol:
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i lost 10 1/2 stone but that was due to divorce :doh: in just over 12 mths, i need to lose 3 more grrr n on a bad diet ( so im told!!) but 1 thing i always follow is REALLYYYY cold water, your body has to heat the water before you get rid of it, therefore your metabolism works harder and uses more calories, just a small thing that may help biggrin xxj

no no no no no! lol I've been advised freezing water is the worst you can do to your body. Apparently it shocks the gut and can cause all kinds of problems. You are far better to drink warmer kinder water and work out more :lol:
Oh and razor.... flippin fantastic weight loss girl! well done kiss
So is it warm or feezing cold??? Quick, Im stood here wating with me water!!!!! :lol:
Warm water in the morning is exactly what you need to detox, I love it!.. then during the day just normal water from the tap but not freezing (or bottled that's been standing on bench)... that's what I was told anyway and I'm fine (well other than being a tad loopy :crazy: :lol: )
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Try green tea, apparently it increases your metabolic rate without the ill effects of caffiene or freezing water.
H.x

But does it taste horrid?
FB - going for the tea option 'cause she doesn't want to end up as loopy as Mar! :giggle:
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Try green tea, apparently it increases your metabolic rate without the ill effects of caffiene or freezing water.
H.x

But does it taste horrid?
FB - going for the tea option 'cause she doesn't want to end up as loopy as Mar! :giggle:
yeah it tastes like shite lol
Quote by jaymar
i lost 10 1/2 stone but that was due to divorce :doh: in just over 12 mths, i need to lose 3 more grrr n on a bad diet ( so im told!!) but 1 thing i always follow is REALLYYYY cold water, your body has to heat the water before you get rid of it, therefore your metabolism works harder and uses more calories, just a small thing that may help biggrin xxj

no no no no no! lol I've been advised freezing water is the worst you can do to your body. Apparently it shocks the gut and can cause all kinds of problems. You are far better to drink warmer kinder water and work out more :lol:
Oh and razor.... flippin fantastic weight loss girl! well done kiss
i'd go with the cold water theory actually, i will see if i can find the stuff i read up about it...i drink about 4-6 litres a day and have been following a low GI diet and ive lost 6 and a half stone :shock:
Quote by Freckledbird
Try green tea, apparently it increases your metabolic rate without the ill effects of caffiene or freezing water.
H.x

But does it taste horrid?
FB - going for the tea option 'cause she doesn't want to end up as loopy as Mar! :giggle:
No, but it is like wine, there are so many to try.
Bloody hell, well done to Naughtynympho, Sexkitten and Razorwire. :thumbup:
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But does it taste horrid?
FB - going for the tea option 'cause she doesn't want to end up as loopy as Mar! :giggle:

No, but it is like wine, there are so many to try.
True. I like the taste, but then I don't like regular builders tea (strong, milk, two sugars biggrin ). There are lots of flavoured ones you can get, you're bound to find one you like. If not, hold your nose and gulp it down, it's good for you lol
H.x
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Bloody hell, well done to Naughtynympho, Sexkitten and Razorwire. :thumbup:

thank you biggrin i'll stop going on about it now eh lol
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Bloody hell, well done to Naughtynympho, Sexkitten and Razorwire. :thumbup:

thank you biggrin i'll stop going on about it now eh lol
Nooooooo, shout it from the rooftops, you've done really well!
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Bloody hell, well done to Naughtynympho, Sexkitten and Razorwire. :thumbup:

thank you biggrin i'll stop going on about it now eh lol
if you've done somthing your proud of tell everyone, theres enough people about to put you down so show ur good points ;)
No diet advice to add to the thread (yeah youve seen my profile pix -go figure!! lol )
But just wanted to say a HUGE good luck to Fire in her quest to lose her weight, and a BIG well done to all those of you who have and are continuing to lose weight.....SH is getting lighter by the day because of you :lol:
May your willpower always be strong, your lapses few, and your tooth not too sweet.
:inlove: :inlove: :inlove:
The only thing I can add is dont completly deny yourself anything it will make you crave it more!! Just eat less of it less often. I lost 2 1/2 stone with slimming world, it does work!. But I got preggers and it all went back on just wish I could find the willpower to kickstart it again lol.
Green tea has lots of health benefits, but as the man said they can be very different. I can't stand Twinings- but really quite like asda's. However, I don't like to drink it hot, I find it tastes much nicer when it's really cool. Never let it over stew though- see how long it says on the label. :thumbup:
mrs A has been following weight watchers and has dropped 4 stone this year. she is fit and healthy so make sure any diet you follow is a healthy one rather than try a 'quick fix'
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although I find that I look forward to someone all week

that's a a great feeling wink lol
cant belive I wrote that.......dont know what I was thinking redface
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although I find that I look forward to someone all week

that's a a great feeling wink lol
cant belive I wrote that.......dont know what I was thinking redface maybe your mind was elsewhere confused: :wink:
Good lcuk Fire and well done to everyone else smile :)
My donut diet doesnt work, so i shant recommend it to you :lol2: :lol2:
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Green tea has lots of health benefits, but as the man said they can be very different. I can't stand Twinings- but really quite like asda's. However, I don't like to drink it hot, I find it tastes much nicer when it's really cool. Never let it over stew though- see how long it says on the label. :thumbup:
Cold tea, that takes me back to Summer Holidays and corn cart on the farm. Cold tea on the side of the field. Dust, thunder bugs, why did I enjoy it so much? 1st love, that must have been it.
I did well and lost just over 2 stone this last year or so. I've been on holiday and fantastically gained only 1 lb (woohoo).
I'm just about to embark on phase 2 and lose another 2 stone (I find I work best on that basis).
Starting eating sensibly again (porridge for brekkie), light lunch and a decent veg/meat dinner.
Drinking loads of water and fruit for hunger pangs/snacks.
I'm also rejoining the local gym and intend to go 3 times a week after work (thankfully over the road).
I'll keep you posted but I'm determined to be a skinny minny by Christmas.
Cx
Im not a dietitian or doctor but being into competitive bodybuilding I know a few things about dieting.
The main point is this.
What works for one person will NOT work for another!!!!
And most importantly.....
if you are happy with the way you are, generally fit and well and are not within dangerous weight limits for your BMI then unless you are really committed DONT DO IT!!
The psychological effects on your emotional happiness and the commitment needed sometimes aren't worth the struggle.
Here goes.......
There are different samatotypes : ectomorphic (naturally very little bodyfat and with little lean
muscle)
Mesomorphic(naturally muscular small to medium bodyfat)
and Endomorphic (shorter people USUALLY with high percentage of badyfat)
People of each specific samatotype will all have to do something different to reach certain goals in weight - management.
There are also other related factors:
Biological (over active or under-active thyroid being the most common)
Activity levels
Job
Stress Levels
Time Availabilty (a really big one believe it or not)
And above all the most important one of all
Will Power vs Desire.
It is hard to lose weight properly and safely, do it too quickly and you will put yourself under serious strain and also inevitably put the weight back on when your body comes out of "crash mode"
The best advice I can give to the original poster without a proper assessment of their lifestyle, goals and other relevant stuff is this......
Don't skip meals, eat little and often but only a handful sized amount (it takes some getting used to but if you are determined enough it is the best way to control calories in, compared to calories used).
Eat sensibly and try to give yourself treat or cheat meals twice a week.
Instead of snacking on biscuits, cakes or crisps eat water based fruits like melon or apple or oranges and avoid fizzy drinks and tea and coffee for water.
I know this all sounds boring but it has to be done in order for weight to be lost.
Good Luck with it.
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What works for one person will NOT work for another!!!!

thats so true, ive gone from a size 22 to a size 12 in 10 months so my weight loss is quite obvious and almost everyone i see comments and asks how i did it so i tell them, i eat once a day and go to the gym 6 times a week to which most reply....oh you not loose weight like that youe supposed to eat 3 meals a day :shock:
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The main point is this.
What works for one person will NOT work for another!!!!

Definately!
Some people have said throughout 'don't deny yourself any food' 'make sure you treat yourself' etc etc.
I find that when I'm on a training diet, it really has to be all or nothing!
This is mainly because a training diet would just mean cutting out alcohol and take aways, i eat fairly healthily otherwise (my mum is a dietitian!) and I find a complete abstinence from these works best.
I often find that it's other people who have a problem with me cutting out!
When I stop drinking, I don't have a problem going out sober, but I find my friends will make comments like 'Go on, you can have one or two glasses' etc
The problem with this is who do I say no to? If I drink at one night out, I'd get the same at the next event, so for me I find it easier to have a blanket ban on certain things.
I always say to myself that it's not as if I'm never going to drink again, or that I could have a chocolate cake any time I wanted, just not now!
Having a complete ban on certain 'bad foods' doesn't make me crave them in the long run and binge later either, so as srne said, what works for one, won't for another!
I think it's good to have lots of advice and try different things and find what is best for you, but the one thing everyone should do without fail is aim to raise their heart rate for 30 mins a day with activity.
I like RPMS advice on the squats in the shower- i'd never thought to do them there and just tried it!
I'm always telling patients that the ideal time to exercise is when you're waiting on the kettle to boil, or when you're at the sink washing hands/face/dishes etc.
Another couple to add are:
Heel raises- Rise slowly up onto your tiptoes, lifting heels off the floor and then slowly lower back down, repeat5-10-20 times if comfortable.
Leg curls: stand facing counter/sink and put your hands on to steady balance. Keeping your knees in line, bend one knee, lifting the foot off the floor, in the direction of the heel kicking your bum (only bend the knee to about 90 degrees though!) Then straighten the leg back out and repeat with the other leg.
You can also try the bum clench- imagine a £50 note in between your butt cheeks, and someone is trying to pull it out, you need to clench your bum muscles so it stays put for 10 seconds!
You can do this one anywhere!
M xx
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