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Sex God
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A little bijou dicussionatte has taken place resulting in me throwing the subject into forum for discussion. Here goes...
Is there a difference in how other women go down on women to how men go down on women? There is a point of view that women tend to be less intent on getting their tongue deep and being more intent on the clit and surround, whereby men go for far more tongue penetration.
J and I think this bares out though of course is not meant to mean in every case. What do you guys think?
The discussion could also ask the same of guys going down on guys or women going down on guys. Is there a difference, usually?
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i have been with a guy who was to much interested in my clit, and was almost chewing it off in a bid to make me orgasm....poor deluded fool....i should have warned him that im more than a challenge to bring to orgasm....in the end he gave up!!
I think women know what women like, so therefore have a better idea of what to do when going down on a woman...whereas guys i think have to rely on the reactions and noises made by the female to see if what they are doing is right!
does that make sense dunno
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My (limited) experience is that oral given by guys is all a bit 'furious', whereas women are more sensuous...
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Quote by Bonedigger
i have been with a guy who was to much interested in my clit, and was almost chewing it off in a bid to make me orgasm....poor deluded fool....i should have warned him that im more than a challenge to bring to orgasm....in the end he gave up!!
I think women know what women like, so therefore have a better idea of what to do when going down on a woman...whereas guys i think have to rely on the reactions and noises made by the female to see if what they are doing is right!
does that make sense dunno

Exactly what i was gonna say.
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I have found (some) men tend to hunt for the clit straight away, then go for gold...sucking, chewing and basically trying to eat the god damn thing in an attempt to get me to orgasm..... confused rolleyes
Women tend to know that that ^^^^^^^^^ is only gonna have me squirming to get away in the opposite direction and therefore take their time, to build up to putting their tongue anywhere near the clit, meaning when it gets there....a little lick can be enough to drive me crazy wink
Thats just my experience tho lol
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Can't say I've ever really gone for trying to make an impact by using my tongue for penetration. Instead I prefer to use my tongue on the clitoris and its environs and my mouth, tongue and teeth on the lips and other sticky-out bits.
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someone once told me I went down like a girl (thier words)
not sure whether it was compliment, or whether they were refring to an earlier trip-hazard that had me stumbling and screaching in an aisle of crisp-crunch biscuits
lp
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Quote by __random_orbit__
someone once told me I went down like a girl (thier words)
not sure whether it was compliment, or whether they were refring to an earlier trip-hazard that had me stumbling and screaching in an aisle of crisp-crunch biscuits
lp

I wonder how one would go about finding out? cool
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Quote by venus68
someone once told me I went down like a girl (thier words)
not sure whether it was compliment, or whether they were refring to an earlier trip-hazard that had me stumbling and screaching in an aisle of crisp-crunch biscuits
lp

I wonder how one would go about finding out? cool
follow me into any shop, especially around biscuits, crisps or sweet confectionary and leave a leggo brick, or other small hazard in my way.
I'm bound not to notice, being distracted by shelves full of 'supper'
laugh as I tumble, stumble screech and giggle in the embarrassed way that says: no really, I'm ok.. i was perfectly in control and really did see that hazard... honest.
lp