Just thinking about couple's ads.... most of them are very big on wanting "discreet" males. And a lot of guy's ads say they are "discreet". Now, on the one hand I can see where these folks are coming from; nobody wants their kids/parents/babysitters finding out what they get up to behind closed doors. But on the other... it's not as though anybody's gonna hang a big "Pete & Mary are swingers" banner from your guttering, is it? Is someone really gonna turn up at your door dressed in a leather g-string and a homburg, and nothing else?
So, what does "discreet" mean to you? In what ways have you found people being indiscreet about your adventures?
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Discretion
Orgasminator
it means i cn talk openly with people without the need to keep rreminding them that swinging is considered a little odd when you arent in their company and i wouldnt want them discussing me with my ex mother in law etc , quite simple thats discretion
Sex God
to me it means:
i can not worry about bumping into them at tescos and them calling over the tanoy "well_busty_babe with the ponytail and wearing the blue jacket needs to be remindind to buy some duracel for her rampant rabbit as we ran out at the club last night!".. or something else along those lines.
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i can not worry about bumping into them at tescos and them calling over the tanoy "well_busty_babe with the ponytail and wearing the blue jacket needs to be remindind to buy some duracel for her rampant rabbit as we ran out at the club last night!".. or something else along those lines.
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Sex God
I can't be bothered with being discreet, I'm a grown up and doing nothing illegal, so what's the problem? There are things I would rather my parents not know but who wants to talk about sex with their parents anyway - I mean that is WEIRD!!!! - but apart from that, hey ho, who would really care. Having said that, I know when to keep quiet when a situation evolves where someone might get hurt (e.g. they have a partner or a job that they are concerned about), but that's just down to common sense really.
Oh yeah, I forgot to say - I never include faces in pics - now that IS discreet!
Oh yeah, I forgot to say - I never include faces in pics - now that IS discreet!
Well said Judy...
Being a single male I have to admit that there were times back when I was younger that I would go about bragging about this that and the other.. I spose in a way I still do however the omittance of who and what is normally on the cards these days... I also don't brag about what I do or the fact I am into the swinging scene..
To me discretion is not talking te details hell it is nice to say that you had some fun with somebody on the w/e or the other evening however not hang out the laundry about it all!!
And I don't particularly want the world and his wife knowing my sexual preferences adn I am sure the people I see would appreciate the same.. it is a small woirld afterall!!
Being a single male I have to admit that there were times back when I was younger that I would go about bragging about this that and the other.. I spose in a way I still do however the omittance of who and what is normally on the cards these days... I also don't brag about what I do or the fact I am into the swinging scene..
To me discretion is not talking te details hell it is nice to say that you had some fun with somebody on the w/e or the other evening however not hang out the laundry about it all!!
And I don't particularly want the world and his wife knowing my sexual preferences adn I am sure the people I see would appreciate the same.. it is a small woirld afterall!!
Shortly after reading this thread last night I logged on to MSN Messenger and saw a guy online who was the instigator of my first (delicious) gang bang but who travels abroad a lot and I've only seen a couple of times since. I sent a 'Hi howyadoin' message and got the reply " Hi back, this is M's mum. He's not back till Tuesday" It seemed rude not to reply and she seemed keen to chat. I now think that if Discretion were a sport in the Olympics I'd be up for a gold :!:
Jezzay
Jezzay
Quote by JudyTV
Discretion means different things to different people. I also think it is very much a matter of common sense, blue has already commented on this aspect. Another problem is that some people and its usually males, just don’t know when to keep their mouths shut and love to brag about their conquests and achievements to the world and his brother, so they have to be reminded all too often. I have noticed in the past that some single males can’t wait to go into the office on Monday morning to tell “The Boys†who they shagged at the weekend. What I really hate is when someone says “Oh I shagged her ages ago†A great deal of damage can be done to a someone’s reputation by an indiscrete remark.
I remember a case in point when a guy came into work one morning to declare he had seen so and so in the “Gay Village†on Friday night in a bar on Canal street apparently chatting with another guy. The ‘mouth’ had apparently been on a lads night out in a group so in his eyes it was ok for him to be there as a tourist. He made a point of telling the guy that he had seen him there and spent the remainder of the day camping around and limp wristing at every opportunity. I didn’t have the balls to tell him I was in the next bar on that night too, not that he would have recognised me in a wig and skirt. He did make the other guys life hell for a while, dare not think what he would have had to say about me if he had known as no one knew about me at work.
JudyTV
Nail on the head springs to mind Judy.
Is a question of maturity?? Or lack of ?
And of course; straight forward manners.
Don't get me wrong, like the Benz*** chap, I'm ex service and can remember keeping count and having bragging parties and comparing notes about the "camp followers/ squaddy groupies" I sometimes wish I had the maturity then that I have now. On second thoughts - NO, I don't. It might have spoiled things at the time.
Quote by JudyTV
Another problem is that some people and its usually males, just don’t know when to keep their mouths shut and love to brag about their conquests and achievements to the world and his brother, so they have to be reminded all too often. I have noticed in the past that some single males can’t wait to go into the office on Monday morning to tell “The Boys†who they shagged at the weekend.
Man, I have such boring friends. :-(
Quote by jezzay
Shortly after reading this thread last night I logged on to MSN Messenger and saw a guy online who was the instigator of my first (delicious) gang bang but who travels abroad a lot and I've only seen a couple of times since. I sent a 'Hi howyadoin' message and got the reply " Hi back, this is M's mum. He's not back till Tuesday" It seemed rude not to reply and she seemed keen to chat. I now think that if Discretion were a sport in the Olympics I'd be up for a gold :!:
Jezzay
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Now that is funny,,, I had similar instance the other day when I logged on sent the message Hi turd!!! Are you on going blind?? to which came the reply actually it is "the girlfriend" here!!!! Thankfully I know her too so flirted with her outrageously and masked the fact he is on the net looking at porn all the time... (as if she don't know really!!)
