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I am not sure if i should make the final step ????
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Divorce !!!!!!
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:therethere: :?: That decision has to be made totally by yourself. No one can tell you if its the right step 4 you too take, only your heart n head can............It took alot for me to make my decision, but i made it...... Nothin is easy.
This has properly not helped but in all honesty, it has to be decided by you, only you can make that decision xxxxx
This has properly not helped but in all honesty, it has to be decided by you, only you can make that decision xxxxx
Quote by lipsav
I am not sure if i should make the final step ????
If you're not sure - then in the back of your mind surely you feel theres something worth holding on to?
If it's an emotional tie, a forgotten on the surface love - then give it a bluddy good go at rekindling it.
As they've said above, noone knows your situation and can't really offer advice - don't know what circumstances you're in to even say try to rekindle the love.
Sex God
Quote by Missy
I am not sure if i should make the final step ????
If you're not sure - then in the back of your mind surely you feel theres something worth holding on to?
If it's an emotional tie, a forgotten on the surface love - then give it a bluddy good go at rekindling it.
As they've said above, noone knows your situation and can't really offer advice - don't know what circumstances you're in to even say try to rekindle the love.
Or as me grannie (sorry in grannie-mode at the mo') used say 'When in Doubt - Don't'.
Good luck in whatever you do.
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Quote by lipsav
I am not sure if i should make the final step ????
As an agony Uncle I would say....IF you have to ask others on whether you should divorce, then you are either not strong enough to do it yourself or.....you are not ready to divorce.
If you have any doubts as to it being the right thing to do, then take a step back and consider ALL options, before you make that " final step ".
Sex God
Impossible for any of us out here to give an answer (whichever side of the divide we are standing on). But the advice I have given in the past to a very similar question was:
"imagine your life in 10 years time if you do divorce, now imagine the same time if you don't".
It's the thought process I went through prior to my divorce. That in no way indicates what you (or anyone) should do.
"imagine your life in 10 years time if you do divorce, now imagine the same time if you don't".
It's the thought process I went through prior to my divorce. That in no way indicates what you (or anyone) should do.
I'm about to be on the receiving end of this. All I can say is both emotionally and finacially it will cost buckets!!! I love my wife but that's why I must let her leave. I hope one day she will return - probably misguided - hope is all I hve.
I do know it is a time process I hope I have enough time to feel better. Don't feel that way today!
I do know it is a time process I hope I have enough time to feel better. Don't feel that way today!
