I just read a thread that starting me thinking.
Sorry guys I just have to ask is the size of your manhood important to you?
I have spoken to a few guys in the past and unless you are carring a higher than average size some I have felt were almost apologising for what they have.
Is that important to guys?
As most women will tell you it is the rhythm, how you use it and size doesn’t matter. Ok I might have to admit a couple of inches might be a bit different but 6inches plus is enough for a lot of women.
So if the women don't find it an issues, why would you need bigger, and having bigger what are you hoping to gain?
So why do guys have a fascination about size?
I personally think a lot do, or it could be they like to see woman with a bigger one so it could be, if only they are thinking.
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Sex God
It's not the size of our bits.
It's the reaction to it that often decides how we feel about it.
I find the sniggering and pointing and the use of telescopes a little off putting but I've grown to live with it.
It's the reaction to it that often decides how we feel about it.
I find the sniggering and pointing and the use of telescopes a little off putting but I've grown to live with it.
I am average about 5 and a half. as most of my buddies are orientals, I am generally big enough to satisfy both of us. But I do hanker after a six footer with a 'big' frame.
reminds as I was passing Rios the other week, A big lady was meeting a tall black guy. the look on her face seemed to say ' this is going to be really good'.
reminds as I was passing Rios the other week, A big lady was meeting a tall black guy. the look on her face seemed to say ' this is going to be really good'.
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Do all guys think size is important?
probably depends on if they are giving or receiving...
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I have a penis
You girls are just jealous that you haven`t got one
I have things you don't have!
hwoar: 
I have moobs too :lol:
:rotflmao: I guess we all have hangups about our bodies. Even the guys who spend half their life at my gym moan that they could have bigger this or thats (half of which I couldn't tell you where that part of the body was if my life depended on it
).Oh and girls ...... pointing and laughing until you're doubled up and almost being sick doesn't help with our self-esteem issues!
:lol2:
Warming the Bed
As long as you've got enough, what's to think about. Much better to concentrate one's attention on what your doing with it! 
Although...
Did anyone else see the programme about the guy with the one inch weiner? Poor bugger! Now that's not enough.
Although...
Did anyone else see the programme about the guy with the one inch weiner? Poor bugger! Now that's not enough.
Quote by Resonance
It's not the size of our bits.
It's the reaction to it that often decides how we feel about it.
I find the sniggering and pointing and the use of telescopes a little off putting but I've grown to live with it.
Yes and along with the pointing and sniggering such comments as "It's like a cock but smaller"
Theladyisaminx I do notice though you say "6inches plus is enough for a lot of women" It's the plus we worry about, you see your saying the national average is ok but with plus lol.
Personally I would say I'm happy with what I have. Bonnie does say though I have the nicest looking one she's seen, now do I add and shes seen a few... best not eh.
Oh this could go on for a while.
Sex God
I like big cocks; I like the feeling of 'fullness' that accompanies them. It is most satisfying.
However, I don't like big cocks when I am giving a blow job - I get jaw ache! So, as I love giving head, then big cocks are probably not totally ideal.
Also, there's nothing worse than a guy with a big cock who presumes that the size of his cock is going to be a magic wand and he doesn't actually have to make any effort with it
Oh, what the f*ck, I probably am a part-time kinda ish size queen... but I make exceptions for smaller ones when attached to pretty/handsome/funny/witty/sexy/debauched guys.
However, I don't like big cocks when I am giving a blow job - I get jaw ache! So, as I love giving head, then big cocks are probably not totally ideal.
Also, there's nothing worse than a guy with a big cock who presumes that the size of his cock is going to be a magic wand and he doesn't actually have to make any effort with it
Oh, what the f*ck, I probably am a part-time kinda ish size queen... but I make exceptions for smaller ones when attached to pretty/handsome/funny/witty/sexy/debauched guys.
I guess it's just how we perceive ourselves. Women are just the same. I could look at a curvy woman and think pphhwwoar! but she may see herself as fat. I don't judge people by size - of body or manhood - but that person may see things differently.
I see myself as overweight but others comment that my figure is just fine - lumpy bits and all. When I'm playing with someone, male or female, I don't see their size - just their sexuality.
I see myself as overweight but others comment that my figure is just fine - lumpy bits and all. When I'm playing with someone, male or female, I don't see their size - just their sexuality.
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I like big cocks; I like the feeling of 'fullness' that accompanies them. It is most satisfying.
However, I don't like big cocks when I am giving a blow job - I get jaw ache! So, as I love giving head, then big cocks are probably not totally ideal.
Also, there's nothing worse than a guy with a big cock who presumes that the size of his cock is going to be a magic wand and he doesn't actually have to make any effort with it
Oh, what the f*ck, I probably am a part-time kinda ish size queen... but I make exceptions for smaller ones when attached to pretty/handsome/funny/witty/sexy/debauched guys.
So that`ll be just the same as Tits to guys then
Pretty much, I expect! :lol:
Sex God
Speaking as someone who never perves the ads 
.... just look at the number of couples seeking men who insist on vvwe 8" plus.
Then ask yerself whether it is just blokes who are obsessed with size.
Besides it's all relative innit.
As the girlie said "My you've got a small organ."
He replies "Well I've never played in a cathedral before!"
.... just look at the number of couples seeking men who insist on vvwe 8" plus.Then ask yerself whether it is just blokes who are obsessed with size.
Besides it's all relative innit.
As the girlie said "My you've got a small organ."
He replies "Well I've never played in a cathedral before!"
Sex God
Quote by westerross
Speaking as someone who never perves the ads
Then ask yerself whether it is just blokes who are obsessed with size.
Besides it's all relative innit.
As the girlie said "My you've got a small organ."
He replies "Well I've never played in a cathedral before!"
Just about sums it up i guess only to add that if your good at using your tool then thats what is important. Although then surely if your good at using your tool and its big then thats got to be preferable. Hasn't it?
Sex God
Size doesn't matter too much, it's the clickiness that matters the most.
*sneaks back in*
Really... I'll answer properly... size does matter to me... in that I am very glad that a slightly above average and very handsomely good looking pretty penis is in the posession of my intelligent, witty and very sexy significant other half.
;)
*sneaks back in*
Really... I'll answer properly... size does matter to me... in that I am very glad that a slightly above average and very handsomely good looking pretty penis is in the posession of my intelligent, witty and very sexy significant other half.
;) 
Sexpert
I think what makes guys act like that is as said the + part I mean if you just about have 6" saying 6+ is fine is like saying anything above the amount of money you have is fine, or rather sounds like it. (4+ would be better if insisting size isn't important)
Also there's all those profiles where they always say after VWE people or even WE, fine to put that but just makes me walk on by, I don't wanna waste my time.
I mean if you just about have 6" saying 6+ is fine is like saying anything above the amount of money you have is fine, or rather sounds like it. (4+ would be better if insisting size isn't important)Also there's all those profiles where they always say after VWE people or even WE, fine to put that but just makes me walk on by, I don't wanna waste my time.
Quote by CuddlySimon
I think what makes guys act like that is as said the + part
Also there's all those profiles where they always say after VWE people or even WE, fine to put that but just makes me walk on by, I don't wanna waste my time.
I should have left the + alone
What I meant is from around 6in as that is about the size I know a lot of women seem happy.
I just had a thought are women different sizes internally?
I dont have a clue
But we must have different shapes and sizes
so what do men prefer? :wink:
Sex God
okay... now I feel like a bit of a freak...
I have never measured mine... and have no intention of starting now...
but it does get frustrating, as more and more importance seems to be placed on it, especially in the ads...
I am honest with people and tell them... what I get a lot of time is "well.... guess then!!"
I have never measured mine... and have no intention of starting now...
but it does get frustrating, as more and more importance seems to be placed on it, especially in the ads...
I am honest with people and tell them... what I get a lot of time is "well.... guess then!!"
Sexlightened
Quote by fabio
I have never measured mine...
Scarlett gets out tape measure and winks provocatively in direction of Fabs!!!
Quote by fabio
okay... now I feel like a bit of a freak...
I have never measured mine... and have no intention of starting now...
but it does get frustrating, as more and more importance seems to be placed on it, especially in the ads...
I am honest with people and tell them... what I get a lot of time is "well.... guess then!!"
I agree Fabio it spoils the fun knowing, I would rather unwrap and discover myself it to me is part of the mystery.
But I was asking why guys thought it was a problem, so could it be others expections makes others Self-consciousness.
I think men have always compared theirs against others, you know a quick sneaky look in the mens loos maybe.
In showers after a game of something.
Might be where a few of the doubts creep in.
I am sure some guys walk out with a frown while others walk out with a snug look on their faces, not that I know
Just guessing here. But come on guys there are a lot of woman around where it doesn't matter.
Stand tall and be proud of what nature gave you
Sex God
Nope, I don't think we do compare in the toilets. I think that is a myth, I certainly don't. I've never taken my tape measure to the loo with me and like Fabio, the thought of being aroused and saying "Oh I know, must get a ruler..." doesn't really do it for me.
I've always been happy with what I have until I came on here, and the issue of size seems to be prevalent on so many threads, profiles etc etc. I also notice it is seldom men that start threads about size, it tends to be the ladies, who then state "Oh size does matter", "no it doesn't" which then puts us in a state of "look does it matter or not." The truth is, it does to some, not to others. The key is finding which suits you I believe.
I hasten to add not one of the people we've met has made me feel concerned about my size, it is merely the growing reliance on being WE, VWE, VVWE, VVVWE 8"+++ in adverts and profiles and then the confirmation of that in threads such at this that puts doubts in my tiny and fragile mind.
I've always been happy with what I have until I came on here, and the issue of size seems to be prevalent on so many threads, profiles etc etc. I also notice it is seldom men that start threads about size, it tends to be the ladies, who then state "Oh size does matter", "no it doesn't" which then puts us in a state of "look does it matter or not." The truth is, it does to some, not to others. The key is finding which suits you I believe.
I hasten to add not one of the people we've met has made me feel concerned about my size, it is merely the growing reliance on being WE, VWE, VVWE, VVVWE 8"+++ in adverts and profiles and then the confirmation of that in threads such at this that puts doubts in my tiny and fragile mind.
Sex God
It's not its size that worries me but if I hear the phrase "aaah that's alright" said in that sham sympathetic voice one more time I may go postal
Warming the Bed
Quote by ScarletTheHarlot
I have never measured mine...
Scarlett gets out tape measure and winks provocatively in direction of Fabs!!!
Should this be a service that is offered to all those who've never bothered with such petty concerns? ;)
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
I just had a thought are women different sizes internally?
I dont have a clue
But we must have different shapes and sizes
so what do men prefer?
When I was younger I used to worry about size, not length as I am a couple of inches above the national average but girth. With age and experience I have become much more confident of the manhood I have been given. It for me is how to use it rather than size, and I do spend a lot of time chatting with Kez about our love making and listening to her reaction to anything I try that’s new.
I have to say that as for female internal size; yes they are different in depth and width. My ex was loose and when fucking I found I had to work my ass like Beyoncé to touch the sides but she was a bit shallow in depth so I would hurt her occasionally.
well there you go it could be us women that are the problem :lol:
As not every glove fits every hand, so best try a few on first for a snug fit :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
As not every glove fits every hand, so best try a few on first for a snug fit :rascal:
The image in my mind now is quite frightening.
Sex God
Yeah... I'll have a large one please! :twisted:
