hello swingers?
just a brief note,do people on this site swing? meet each other ?
have sex?
sent outa lot ov messages, my pics have been viewed over 500 times, invites to private gallerys etc,
but no responce?
some couples have looked at my site,and can only think ,everybody on here are dreamers, don,t actualy do anything!
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
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Sex God
Its taken you since December 2005 to realise this site is fake :shock:
Must try harder
Must try harder
Sex God
you come here for sex?? oh my :lol2:
Seriously you get out what you put in and sometimes you dont, but try and get to a few socials/munches i think they do wonders for follow up meetings
Maybe take the emphasis of sex for a little while and try and get to know people before deciding if you want to have sex with them :twisted:
From your profile i get the impression your looking for a fuck buddy? a lot of people may be put of by that and try to add a little to it? Its possibly the most important bit of your profile as it tells a person about you!, and you have all of your pictures hidden? thats fine but again some may be put of by it
Just suggestions :thumbup:
Seriously you get out what you put in and sometimes you dont, but try and get to a few socials/munches i think they do wonders for follow up meetings
Maybe take the emphasis of sex for a little while and try and get to know people before deciding if you want to have sex with them :twisted:
From your profile i get the impression your looking for a fuck buddy? a lot of people may be put of by that and try to add a little to it? Its possibly the most important bit of your profile as it tells a person about you!, and you have all of your pictures hidden? thats fine but again some may be put of by it
Just suggestions :thumbup:
i think it depends who you are and what your looking for, if your a single male or a couples looking for single bi fems it will take you a while to meet anyone, simply because there are just so many men and not enough single woman to go round everyone who wants to meet them, im am the female half of a couple whos meets single men as a single woman so i have to be honest when i say i don't find it hard to meet people at all lol
Also as its been suggested before go to the socials, i know a lot don't because they are just after sex but one night in a pub wont kill you and the come back you get from it will make it worth it, if i'm meeting a single guy im more likely to ask one i've already seen in the flesh and know that i like than just ask a stranger off here that may not even turn up! just something to think about
Also as its been suggested before go to the socials, i know a lot don't because they are just after sex but one night in a pub wont kill you and the come back you get from it will make it worth it, if i'm meeting a single guy im more likely to ask one i've already seen in the flesh and know that i like than just ask a stranger off here that may not even turn up! just something to think about
I'll 2nd what naughty has said - well most of it anyway
We swung (swong, swinged? what IS the past tense for swing?? ) before joinging the site and quite frankly haven't looked back since joinging.
We constantly 'tweak' our profile, change our pictures from time to time - chat in chat rooms, chat on cam - get out to socials and clubs when we can - basically get to know folks as much as we can - and we find it works
We swung (swong, swinged? what IS the past tense for swing?? ) before joinging the site and quite frankly haven't looked back since joinging.
We constantly 'tweak' our profile, change our pictures from time to time - chat in chat rooms, chat on cam - get out to socials and clubs when we can - basically get to know folks as much as we can - and we find it works
Quote by Steve
Its taken you since December 2005 to realise this site is fake :shock:
Must try harder
SteveSeriously though we have met some people from here and have to say some very nice guys too.
We have been to about 4 socials but only met one couple we played with from a social.
We tend to view peoples pics to start with, so if no pics then we just move on. Then we chat on here and maybe have a private cam meet. Chat some more before we even begin to think about meeting. Maybe thats why our meets have been good?
Keep trying but yes there are a zillion timewasters on here and at times it is easy to spot. It is true though that a lot of people on here do not meet at all, but there are a lot that do and as a single guy you are up against a lot of competition. If your profile is not filled out or you have no pictures, then your chances of meeting are very slim.
So peeps sort your profile and your pics out, and we dont mean a pic of ya cock, seen a few of those. :lol:
i been a member of a couple of sites..and have to say this is far and away the best site I know. the one thing you do have to do..is get yourself known. Use the chat rooms ( when they working..lol) and go to all the local socials. that way people know you are genuine and will know from meeting you what sort of person you are..and if you are the sort of person they want to meet with again. Like most things...you get out.. what you put in.
Like alot of people on this site we have met alot of people at socials/munches etc, and yes we have also had sex with a fair amount as well...
I think the way to meet and enjoy the people on this site is not to bitch on about the lack of opportunities they have had, but perhaps to put themselves out there and go to munches, chat in chatrooms and get themselves known...
I was lucky enough to meet someone within the 1st week of being on here and Dave and I have met some great couples on here as well!
And we are looking forward to meeting an awful lot more mmmmmmmmm
Sam xx
I think the way to meet and enjoy the people on this site is not to bitch on about the lack of opportunities they have had, but perhaps to put themselves out there and go to munches, chat in chatrooms and get themselves known...
I was lucky enough to meet someone within the 1st week of being on here and Dave and I have met some great couples on here as well!
And we are looking forward to meeting an awful lot more mmmmmmmmm
Sam xx
Sex God
I've meet loads of people off this site :twisted:
Have had loads of social fun, swinging fun, munching and drinking with people off this site. :twisted:
Hold the record for having a site social furthest away from the UK!! :beer:
Met some very special people off this site, both male and female, and some yet to make their minds up!! :twisted:
Get to some of the social events in lets meet up!
Have had loads of social fun, swinging fun, munching and drinking with people off this site. :twisted:
Hold the record for having a site social furthest away from the UK!! :beer:
Met some very special people off this site, both male and female, and some yet to make their minds up!! :twisted:
Get to some of the social events in lets meet up!
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thanks for replying
subject do people swing?
welshroberto/
I'm off to see if there's a "lotto" forum. If there is, I'm going to post the following.
"I've been buying lottery tickets for 5 years now. Why haven't I won? I've picked very nice numbers. I've even changed my numbers from time to time. Does anyone ever win?"
To which I would expect someone to reply "If you look around, you'll see evidence that people win all the time. If you want to improve your chances, put more effort in. Join a syndicate. You're just unlucky."
See my point?
well said winchwench 
you get out of swinging what you put in (pardon the pun) .... yes some of it is down to luck as it is with anything in life but in general a positive outlook, a sense of humour and the ability to converse (not moan) will get you on your way to swinging happiness.
Your a single guy, there are lots of you out there if you hadnt noticed .... you need a unique selling point (sorry if that sounds harsh), why should someone choose you over all the other guys on here / what would make me respond to your email and not the other emails ??? ... thats a retorical question, I dont need the answer
Happy Swinging !
you get out of swinging what you put in (pardon the pun) .... yes some of it is down to luck as it is with anything in life but in general a positive outlook, a sense of humour and the ability to converse (not moan) will get you on your way to swinging happiness.
Your a single guy, there are lots of you out there if you hadnt noticed .... you need a unique selling point (sorry if that sounds harsh), why should someone choose you over all the other guys on here / what would make me respond to your email and not the other emails ??? ... thats a retorical question, I dont need the answer
Happy Swinging !
Quote by winchwench
thanks for replying
subject do people swing?
welshroberto/
I'm off to see if there's a "lotto" forum. If there is, I'm going to post the following.
"I've been buying lottery tickets for 5 years now. Why haven't I won? I've picked very nice numbers. I've even changed my numbers from time to time. Does anyone ever win?"
To which I would expect someone to reply "If you look around, you'll see evidence that people win all the time. If you want to improve your chances, put more effort in. Join a syndicate. You're just unlucky."
See my point?
Crystal clear to me winch.
Quote by TanKinky
you come here for sex?? oh my :lol2:
Seriously you get out what you put in and sometimes you dont, but try and get to a few socials/munches i think they do wonders for follow up meetings
Maybe take the emphasis of sex for a little while and try and get to know people before deciding if you want to have sex with them :twisted:
From your profile i get the impression your looking for a fuck buddy? a lot of people may be put of by that and try to add a little to it? Its possibly the most important bit of your profile as it tells a person about you!, and you have all of your pictures hidden? thats fine but again some may be put of by it
Just suggestions :thumbup:
phffft fuck first ask questions later
Sex God
Quote by welshroberto
some couples have looked at my site,and can only think ,everybody on here are dreamers, don,t actualy do anything!
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
My thoughts? You're wrong.
Sex God
Quote by welshroberto
hello swingers?
just a brief note,do people on this site swing? meet each other ?
have sex?
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
My thoughts......
Lots of advice from some lovely people in reply to your query, take it, say thank ya very much and stop moaning!
Sex God
Quote by Jawnathan
phffft fuck first ask questions later
If that works for you :thumbup: well done, it doesnt work like that for me
Sex God
Quote by Peanut
phffft fuck first ask questions later
If that works for you :thumbup: well done, it doesnt work like that for me
Me too, I always fall asleep before I get to hear the answers
:lol2: many do nutty many do :twisted:
i think its clear from the sheer amount of posters who have had problems ( no-replies/timewasters etc )from the photo-adverts and LMU sections that these parts of the site dont work too well.
what works for me? the short answer is that im a great flirt....and i prefer to do it either face to face ( at socials or clubs) or in chat.
well, when i joined the site i was lucky to get an invite to a Munch as id only been a member a couple of weeks coz sum1 bent the rules a bit.
i got invited to a swinging club when it finished and things progressed from there really.
I think it depends on your timing,confidence and , for want of a better phrase, "pitching to the right audience".
I guess some people on this forum might think im an arse or hold the fact of me being a single male against me. But if their view were right , then i wouldnt have met and played with all the great people i have on here...
what works for me? the short answer is that im a great flirt....and i prefer to do it either face to face ( at socials or clubs) or in chat.
well, when i joined the site i was lucky to get an invite to a Munch as id only been a member a couple of weeks coz sum1 bent the rules a bit.
i got invited to a swinging club when it finished and things progressed from there really.
I think it depends on your timing,confidence and , for want of a better phrase, "pitching to the right audience".
I guess some people on this forum might think im an arse or hold the fact of me being a single male against me. But if their view were right , then i wouldnt have met and played with all the great people i have on here...
I don't think the fact you name your FB in your profile will do you any justice... not very discreet is it?
It also seems to me, maybe I'm alone, that the authors of threads like this one are people who don't chat in chatrooms or join in forums such as this. Maybe sending random winks and emails work for the odd person but in the main no not really.
Welsh, try getting to know people, it worked for us, and yes we're swinging
It also seems to me, maybe I'm alone, that the authors of threads like this one are people who don't chat in chatrooms or join in forums such as this. Maybe sending random winks and emails work for the odd person but in the main no not really.
Welsh, try getting to know people, it worked for us, and yes we're swinging
Quote by jaymar
I don't think the fact you name your FB in your profile will do you any justice... not very discreet is it?
It also seems to me, maybe I'm alone, that the authors of threads like this one are people who don't chat in chatrooms or join in forums such as this. Maybe sending random winks and emails work for the odd person but in the main no not really.
Welsh, try getting to know people, it worked for us, and yes we're swinging
Are you? :happy:
Quote by kentswingers777
I don't think the fact you name your FB in your profile will do you any justice... not very discreet is it?
It also seems to me, maybe I'm alone, that the authors of threads like this one are people who don't chat in chatrooms or join in forums such as this. Maybe sending random winks and emails work for the odd person but in the main no not really.
Welsh, try getting to know people, it worked for us, and yes we're swinging
Are you? :happy:
:wink:
Quote by Freckledbird
some couples have looked at my site,and can only think ,everybody on here are dreamers, don,t actualy do anything!
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
My thoughts? You're wrong.
I agree, so what are you saying? if people look at your add and don't reply they are not genuine? maybe noone who has looked fancies you or found you interesting enough to reply to!!
P.S You havn't met me so does that make you a dreamer? ;)
Casanova
If someone chooses to check you out, they can't without contacting you first. Making first contact with a guy can amount to grief if after seeing them they are totally not what you are looking for. I personally prefer it when I guy has at least one body pic on their profile so I can see if they 'may be' my type and someone I would like to find out more about.
You have to remember that we all have our preferences and it is also important to only message people that fit what you are. I'm afraid if you messaged me it would not be a positive response as you don't fit my criteria, but there are plenty of others where you would.
I often check people out in the chat room and from the forum, so it is worth using these facilities and I have started to attend the mids munches and socials so these are also good ways of meeting people and possibly leading to play.
Yes I do meet people from here and swing.
You have to remember that we all have our preferences and it is also important to only message people that fit what you are. I'm afraid if you messaged me it would not be a positive response as you don't fit my criteria, but there are plenty of others where you would.
I often check people out in the chat room and from the forum, so it is worth using these facilities and I have started to attend the mids munches and socials so these are also good ways of meeting people and possibly leading to play.
Yes I do meet people from here and swing.