hello swingers?
just a brief note,do people on this site swing? meet each other ?
have sex?
sent outa lot ov messages, my pics have been viewed over 500 times, invites to private gallerys etc,
but no responce?
some couples have looked at my site,and can only think ,everybody on here are dreamers, don,t actualy do anything!
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
i've met hundreds of people off this site, not shagged then all but i'm working my way thro the list lol
Funny you should ask, we asked a similar question the other day! See 'threesomes' thread.
We did get some very useful advice regarding adverts and profile info etc, we changed all ours around. Not worked out yet but its early days!
you come here for sex?? oh my :lol2:
Seriously you get out what you put in and sometimes you dont, but try and get to a few socials/munches i think they do wonders for follow up meetings
Maybe take the emphasis of sex for a little while and try and get to know people before deciding if you want to have sex with them :twisted:
From your profile i get the impression your looking for a fuck buddy? a lot of people may be put of by that and try to add a little to it? Its possibly the most important bit of your profile as it tells a person about you!, and you have all of your pictures hidden? thats fine but again some may be put of by it
Just suggestions :thumbup:
i been a member of a couple of sites..and have to say this is far and away the best site I know. the one thing you do have to do..is get yourself known. Use the chat rooms ( when they working..lol) and go to all the local socials. that way people know you are genuine and will know from meeting you what sort of person you are..and if you are the sort of person they want to meet with again. Like most things...you get out.. what you put in.
Like alot of people on this site we have met alot of people at socials/munches etc, and yes we have also had sex with a fair amount as well...
I think the way to meet and enjoy the people on this site is not to bitch on about the lack of opportunities they have had, but perhaps to put themselves out there and go to munches, chat in chatrooms and get themselves known...
I was lucky enough to meet someone within the 1st week of being on here and Dave and I have met some great couples on here as well!
And we are looking forward to meeting an awful lot more mmmmmmmmm
Sam xx
thanks for replying
subject do people swing?
welshroberto/
I've meet loads of people off this site :twisted:
Have had loads of social fun, swinging fun, munching and drinking with people off this site. :twisted:
Hold the record for having a site social furthest away from the UK!! :beer:
Met some very special people off this site, both male and female, and some yet to make their minds up!! :twisted:
Get to some of the social events in lets meet up!
yeh sure people meet, we are very picky but y not hey!not everyone is rght 4 us so far so good had loadsa fun met some great guys. the fun still goes on mr n mrs jpcm12 x
i think its clear from the sheer amount of posters who have had problems ( no-replies/timewasters etc )from the photo-adverts and LMU sections that these parts of the site dont work too well.
what works for me? the short answer is that im a great flirt....and i prefer to do it either face to face ( at socials or clubs) or in chat.
well, when i joined the site i was lucky to get an invite to a Munch as id only been a member a couple of weeks coz sum1 bent the rules a bit.
i got invited to a swinging club when it finished and things progressed from there really.
I think it depends on your timing,confidence and , for want of a better phrase, "pitching to the right audience".
I guess some people on this forum might think im an arse or hold the fact of me being a single male against me. But if their view were right , then i wouldnt have met and played with all the great people i have on here...
If someone chooses to check you out, they can't without contacting you first. Making first contact with a guy can amount to grief if after seeing them they are totally not what you are looking for. I personally prefer it when I guy has at least one body pic on their profile so I can see if they 'may be' my type and someone I would like to find out more about.
You have to remember that we all have our preferences and it is also important to only message people that fit what you are. I'm afraid if you messaged me it would not be a positive response as you don't fit my criteria, but there are plenty of others where you would.
I often check people out in the chat room and from the forum, so it is worth using these facilities and I have started to attend the mids munches and socials so these are also good ways of meeting people and possibly leading to play.
Yes I do meet people from here and swing.