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Sex God
.........well you got to ask the question.
Sex God
He's on a mission he is G
Sex God
On summat mate
Orgasminator
Good grief Id be totally knackered not to mention chafed, if we were "up for it" 24/7
Swinging is part of our life, the other parts are made up of family, work, home, weather and all things that interest us, granted its a bigger part of our life since being on SH because thats where our friends/social life is - without SH and its social side we would have slipped into a very boring routine.
Each to their own - if people use SH for one reason then let the other members use it for their own reasons
By the way - we dont want verification and dont mind that some profiles dont have photos
Jane n Dave xx
Swinging is part of our life, the other parts are made up of family, work, home, weather and all things that interest us, granted its a bigger part of our life since being on SH because thats where our friends/social life is - without SH and its social side we would have slipped into a very boring routine.
Each to their own - if people use SH for one reason then let the other members use it for their own reasons
By the way - we dont want verification and dont mind that some profiles dont have photos
Jane n Dave xx
Sex God
9x out of ten we talk about it 1x out of ten we do something about it. My answer is lets stay with SH and talk about 9x then get our clothes off
Sex God
Little bit of both :twisted:
I love the social side of the site but I also like the fact if I want a quickie, or a long planned well thought out meet then I can arrange them here to.
I do like the fact I can meet someone at a munch/social/house party before showing any interest in meeting the person, without having to meet them on a 1 2 1 basis. After all people are of course rather different in RL.
We cant all meet every night/day, and if the site was only about meeting up and having sex then it would bore me.
Nor would I want to join another site to talk about RL stuff, I quite like it here
I love the social side of the site but I also like the fact if I want a quickie, or a long planned well thought out meet then I can arrange them here to.
I do like the fact I can meet someone at a munch/social/house party before showing any interest in meeting the person, without having to meet them on a 1 2 1 basis. After all people are of course rather different in RL.
We cant all meet every night/day, and if the site was only about meeting up and having sex then it would bore me.
Nor would I want to join another site to talk about RL stuff, I quite like it here
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I`m just askin !!!! :shock:
:lol: Fair enough, in truth if we just wanted to get fucked all the time there are far more fun and quicker ways to do it . SH is what it is, and long may it remain so. We like it.
Sex God
Oh looks like it's time for me to disappear! How many threads do we need about who is or isn't a swinger? Or that if you're not shagging anyone that shows an interest you're therefore a timewaster!
Sick of seeing this rubbish everywhere I look.
Sick of seeing this rubbish everywhere I look.
i wonder if on any other site do they say
If you dont use ebay you cant use our forums
If your not a photographer then you shouldnt use a camera
If your not a vegetarian, then your not allowed to eat carrots
If youre not a lesbian then you cant be a woman
If your not a guy then you cant look at gay porn
if youre not a woman then you should be asked not to wear lacy underwear
If your IQ is over 15 then you shouldnt be allowed to read the sun newspaper
any site has the potential, and indeed does have a wide cross section of users, and why shouldnt it, its on t'interwebby thing, and as so is accessible to those across the entire globe with an internet connection.
If i never had another shag from here as long as i lived i wouldnt care, but if i wasnt allowed to log in, chat, banter, argue and upset people on the forums, add myself to part lists or arrange to go for a coffee with a member who had become a friend, then I for one would be gutted as well as a tad annoyed.
one of the dictionary definitions of heaven is
6. A condition or place of great happiness, delight, or pleasure
so i say on here....you can get that from shagging OR from making fab friends, having a bit of banter or a thoughtful debate, or even sharing a problem and getting a solution.
Its a big place, why cant we all just use it as we want to without anyone getting all humpty about it?
If you dont use ebay you cant use our forums
If your not a photographer then you shouldnt use a camera
If your not a vegetarian, then your not allowed to eat carrots
If youre not a lesbian then you cant be a woman
If your not a guy then you cant look at gay porn
if youre not a woman then you should be asked not to wear lacy underwear
If your IQ is over 15 then you shouldnt be allowed to read the sun newspaper
any site has the potential, and indeed does have a wide cross section of users, and why shouldnt it, its on t'interwebby thing, and as so is accessible to those across the entire globe with an internet connection.
If i never had another shag from here as long as i lived i wouldnt care, but if i wasnt allowed to log in, chat, banter, argue and upset people on the forums, add myself to part lists or arrange to go for a coffee with a member who had become a friend, then I for one would be gutted as well as a tad annoyed.
one of the dictionary definitions of heaven is
6. A condition or place of great happiness, delight, or pleasure
so i say on here....you can get that from shagging OR from making fab friends, having a bit of banter or a thoughtful debate, or even sharing a problem and getting a solution.
Its a big place, why cant we all just use it as we want to without anyone getting all humpty about it?
Quote by flower411
Oh looks like it's time for me to disappear! How many threads do we need about who is or isn't a swinger? Or that if you're not shagging anyone that shows an interest you're therefore a timewaster!
Sick of seeing this rubbish everywhere I look.
Don`t look !!
Problem with that statement is that most of the time a thread needs to be looked at before you can decide whether or not it's worth it.
Bit like profiles without pics ... if they don't have a pic or a complete profile don't look ... simple really aint it?
Quote by Flower411
Would you rather SH was a social site for "real" swingers who meet and interact with each other and love having a place where they can simply discuss the weather, on occasion ....because even real swingers have real lives !!!
Or should it be for people who you are "up for it" 24/7 ??
Flower, matey, Does it really matter?
The world was young when people started arguing about things , and they haven't stopped yet, have they? Nor do I expect them to stop when I ask questions about it. C'est la vie!
Quote by Calista
Problem with that statement is that most of the time a thread needs to be looked at before you can decide whether or not it's worth it.
Bit like profiles without pics ... if they don't have a pic or a complete profile don't look ... simple really aint it?
Actually, this is a good point!
When we log on, we get to see how many % of which bits of our profile we've filled in - how about having this info next to the persons name in searches, etc, so that we can decide whether to bother looking at a profile with hardly anything filled in?
Quote by Calista
Oh looks like it's time for me to disappear! How many threads do we need about who is or isn't a swinger? Or that if you're not shagging anyone that shows an interest you're therefore a timewaster!
Sick of seeing this rubbish everywhere I look.
Don`t look !!
Problem with that statement is that most of the time a thread needs to be looked at before you can decide whether or not it's worth it.
Bit like profiles without pics ... if they don't have a pic or a complete profile don't look ... simple really aint it?
Surely with threads and profiles, once you've looked and realised you don't like, then don't look again. The back button is at the top left of the screen and takes a second to click. Although if all the shite threads and and profiles were deleted we may have an extra minute a week to look at photos.
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Problem with that statement is that most of the time a thread needs to be looked at before you can decide whether or not it's worth it.
I`d be the first to agree.....except for the fact that some people appear to have a problem with my threads or posts
So just avoid reading what I write ....easy to avoid .....it`s got my name on it
Everyone has favourite or least favourite posters and none of us who post should think of ourselves as irreplaceable. C'mon some larger than life forum contributors have gone bt the wayside over the time and what happens? They are replaced by others. There are no gaps left in the place for the majority.
Flower you post in the way you do and because of your style you know that its contreversial and raises the hackles of some just as well as gets yells of hurray for flower from others.
Just post on and stop bleating about how people perceive your posts. I like them even if at times I think "Silly twat" :lol2: Enjoy the dents you make in forum while your here.
A forum full of fluffy and self congratulating topics ain't worth shit -
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Problem with that statement is that most of the time a thread needs to be looked at before you can decide whether or not it's worth it.
I`d be the first to agree.....except for the fact that some people appear to have a problem with my threads or posts
So just avoid reading what I write ....easy to avoid .....it`s got my name on it
Everyone has favourite or least favourite posters and none of us who post should think of ourselves as irreplaceable. C'mon some larger than life forum contributors have gone bt the wayside over the time and what happens? They are replaced by others. There are no gaps left in the place for the majority.
Flower you post in the way you do and because of your style you know that its contreversial and raises the hackles of some just as well as gets yells of hurray for flower from others.
Just post on and stop bleating about how people perceive your posts. I like them even if at times I think "Silly twat" :lol2: Enjoy the dents you make in forum while your here.
A forum full of fluffy and self congratulating topics ain't worth shit -
Baaaaaaa
........staaaaaaaaaaaaard Lost :lol:
Quote by Bonedigger
i wonder if on any other site do they say
If you dont use ebay you cant use our forums
If your not a photographer then you shouldnt use a camera
If your not a vegetarian, then your not allowed to eat carrots
If youre not a lesbian then you cant be a woman
If your not a guy then you cant look at gay porn
if youre not a woman then you should be asked not to wear lacy underwear
If your IQ is over 15 then you shouldnt be allowed to read the sun newspaper
any site has the potential, and indeed does have a wide cross section of users, and why shouldnt it, its on t'interwebby thing, and as so is accessible to those across the entire globe with an internet connection.
If i never had another shag from here as long as i lived i wouldnt care, but if i wasnt allowed to log in, chat, banter, argue and upset people on the forums, add myself to part lists or arrange to go for a coffee with a member who had become a friend, then I for one would be gutted as well as a tad annoyed.
one of the dictionary definitions of heaven is
6. A condition or place of great happiness, delight, or pleasure
so i say on here....you can get that from shagging OR from making fab friends, having a bit of banter or a thoughtful debate, or even sharing a problem and getting a solution.
Its a big place, why cant we all just use it as we want to without anyone getting all humpty about it?
What a fab post, i couldn't agree more.
Goldsmith
xx
Quote by phil_osopher
Where on earth did you spring from ???
...rumour has it that my mother had something to do with it...
...and there was something else about a postman...
Thankfully, my dad WAS the postman! :lol:
Keep up the good work, Flower - always enjoy your posts. :thumbup:
Did you have to say that?
...Pigeons...