Musketeer gets my top tip vote. I have now resolved to wait until after I have written my posts before I decide on a title. I do tend to make my decision on whether or not to view a thread based on the title.
The cafe IS here to discuss any subject, and should remain so. I would not like to see any major change. Just a shift in balance away from day to day chat, and towards swinging orientated subjects, fun (gfz, threesomes and all the other off the wall stuff), flirting (once the purpose of the thread has been served) and those day to day issues which areimportant to all of us - Warwick's son is the example given earlier.
I would just like to add, in my own defence - that I was never looking for discussion on post counts, moderation or deleted threads when I started this. I just wanted everyone to keep the noise down a bit, because I was struggling to hear!
Anyone have any objections if I ask for this to be locked now - although not everyone has had a chance to comment, I think just about every possible view has been aired.
lhk
Kat
