Do you always have to understand?

9 Oct 2009

We've had mail!! actually it was a short time ago. Apparently somebody wants to f*ck Mrs Lost in front of her wimp cuckold husband Mr Lost :shock: and then force him to "clean-up" :uhoh:
I must admit to getting a bit pissed with being branded a cuckold. I really don't see that i am. OK my part in the swinging Lost is that I get off on watching Mrs Lost with other people I have no interest in participating 99% of the time. I cant say 100% of the time as on the odd occasion I have if the situation has been uncomfortable with me just watching. But in general I think its the horniest thing seeing J getting it on with others. Now thats as far as it goes. I dont want to be belittled ridiculed or have some "bull" (bull ffs) tell me what to do or take the piss out of me. Like to see them try. So I definitely know i'm not a cuckold if anything I'm a voyeur though i'm not sure of that even as if J is not involved in it then i'm not really interested.
Now the thing is I think i'm generally an easy going person and i do try to understand stuff but cuckolding I don't, it smacks of bullying to me. Now OK there must, as in other things, be some pleasure in it for the cuckold but I cant see where, whereas I can with most other sexual activities.
Oh nuts to it. I guess what i'm asking is whether its OK to just accept something in the end rather than try and understand?

9 Oct 2009

Sometimes I think you have very little choice. I fail to see the attraction of coprophilia (scat), but apparently some people do. Each to their own, and best of luck to them in finding similarly minded friends.

9 Oct 2009

Absolutely not.
I see no reason for having to understand some peoples choices. It would be nice to 'get-it' as it were, though not necessary.
As long as other peoples choices are not being forced upon you, leave them to it.
lp

9 Oct 2009

I'd just reply - i'm a voyeur not a cuck so your offer has been unsuccessful at this time. :giggle:

9 Oct 2009

You don't have to understand to accept. But you also don't HAVE to accept. Some practices are simply unacceptable, and some should be reported to the authorities immediately. We know what those are.
But within the wider 'acceptable limits', you sometimes just have to accept it - like mathematical proofs - maybe someone 'gets it', but normal people never will.

9 Oct 2009

If it's not what you're interested in then just send them a polite message saying 'Thanks but it's not what we're into'. It's YOUR sex life and you should only do what is acceptable to you both biggrin

9 Oct 2009

If you are getting a bit pissed with being branded a cuckold but its really not your thing, then why not put something on your profile saying so??
I know you shouldnt have to but its just a thought??

9 Oct 2009

Quote by Funlovers2009
If you are getting a bit pissed with being branded a cuckold but its really not your thing, then why not put something on your profile saying so??
I know you shouldnt have to but its just a thought??

Something like "Am I cuck? am I fuck" should that do it biggrin

9 Oct 2009

Quote by Lost
If you are getting a bit pissed with being branded a cuckold but its really not your thing, then why not put something on your profile saying so??
I know you shouldnt have to but its just a thought??

Something like "Am I cuck? am I fuck" should that do it biggrin

Isn't that a bit aggressive? :giggle:

9 Oct 2009

Quote by fluff_n_stuff
If you are getting a bit pissed with being branded a cuckold but its really not your thing, then why not put something on your profile saying so??
I know you shouldnt have to but its just a thought??

Something like "Am I cuck? am I fuck" should that do it biggrin

Isn't that a bit aggressive? :giggle:
No fluff it aint. Aggressive would be
"Hey you twat who you calling a cuck? Want a punch!" :D
Of course if I was one i'd probably just say nothing and enjoy it.

9 Oct 2009

if someone can annoy us with just a couple of lines of type....we just delete them....way way easier than trying to compose a reply.....
heaven help them if the same sought of cr*p came out their mouths in person....
just stick em on ignore and they cant annoy u again..

9 Oct 2009

Quote by Lost
Oh nuts to it. I guess what i'm asking is whether its OK to just accept something in the end rather than try and understand?

what like women.............. rolleyes