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Do you cross the line?

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I know what im about to say and hope it comes across as I want it to lol
Ok, you know the old swinging thingy, vanilla thingy.
Well do you think thing's done in a swinging environment are easily done in a vanilla setting too?
I shall explain, I was thinking about a thressome for ages and managed to set one up once or twice but was always to nervous to actually do it :scared:
I came to the conclusion that I should wait and if the situation arose without being pre arranged and it felt ok to do so then I would do it.
Ok, so I met couple of guys while I was out with some friends and when it was mentioned, I thought it was a great idea.
Ohh deary me, what a bad decision I made there. Tut tut.
They decided to have someone else hiding in one of the rooms to film the whole event without my knowledge ( I didnt even know the bastard was in the house :shock: ) they then decided to send the film via mobile phone the next day to anyone that wanted it :shock: :shock: :shock:
Needless to say my great experience went totally down the pan.
I now know that if it were in a swinging situation, pre arranged, boundries set etc, it would have been ok, but I crossed the line and it totally backfired on me.
I dont think i'll ever do that again.
I realise now that I should stick to my trusted swinging friends in future. Silly, silly me.
Anyway, do you ever, have you ever crossed the line?
Did it work for you?
Was it a good experience to set you off to want more?
Or totally the reverse?
Louise xx
P.s sorry for the long post but I havent done one for ages so you can forgive me :angel:
yes ive done it a few times, and it was ok........
2 of the times (with the same mate) was amazing, the other two were....not as fab as I'd built it up to be in my own mind sad
still ya live n learn!
The most obvious time springing to mind is when we first moved to Kent. One of Mr W's school mates helped us move in- and there ended up being a threesome on the lounge floor.
Hmm, hang on. There was also the way I met Mr W- I was going out with his best mate. Lounge floor.....threesome.
And where do I stand with taking a vanilla as a lover?
confused
Fudge.
I crossed the line once with a vanilla couple, m/f
It was one of my closest friends and the only one who knows i swing, they asked me if i would after they had talked about it and the fem wanted someone she could trust, so who better than a close friend who just happened to be a swinger and was also in a safe relationship. This settled her fears of a single causing problems afterwards :lol2:
After much thought i went ahead with it and really enjoyed it, but left it at the once
Not sure if i would do it again though cant really plan these things
blimey louise.
I had a bad experience once and since then i meet after talking to people just for my safety but hers also.
Sorry to read about what happened, filming without your consent in my book makes them scum.
Hope to speak to you soon xxx